Well so far I have made about the least contribution to this thread I started, so I'll basically say a few things I learnt from doing Karate. I hope anyone who does'nt see much point to martial arts in this, the age of the pistol, reads this and tries to understand it.
I have not lifted this from anything else, It is a little summary of my thoughts on martial arts.
I did karate from the age of 8 – 17 and got to 2nd dan Brown Belt (There are 3 Brown dans in Wado Ryu before 1st dan Black); I quit almost 2 years ago (wont tire you with the long story). Me and 3 others my age joined at roughly the same stage. We all rose through the belts at about the same rate, and basically became really good friends through it. We almost always ended fighting each other in the finals of tournaments*.
Many people think that the only use for martial arts is self-defence. When I started Karate, my friends in school thought I was doing it because I wanted to be able to beat people up. I have to admit, when you first start, you see brown and black belts sparring together, and think, "If I was as good as them, I
would actually be able to beat anyone up!" especially when you’re only young
Everyone has their own reason for starting. I don’t think it matters really, as it quickly becomes irrelevant.
Once you've been doing it for a while, you give it a lot of thought from time to time. You look back and realise how dramatically your perspective has changed: You realise that what you are able to do so easily now, was once impossible. And you realise that what has been driving you has nothing to do with the outside world: When you do a martial art, you are developing yourself beyond the normal level of skill for a human being, that is the enjoyment of it. Your striving to develop your skills is nothing to do with other people, or any other external influences.
In my experience, people doing it for the wrong reason will invariably become dissatisfied with their own rate of progress, and the ineffectiveness of the "moves" they've learnt. You can quickly tell whether or not someone will be able to embrace the real beauty of martial arts. If they cant, It's only a matter of time before they drop out. What they did'nt and thankfully will never understand, is that the moves they go home and try on their friends' arms are nothing to do with fighting: They are just designed to develop basic movements, and build strength. This is the same reason that many "self-defence" classes are basically useless. For people to think that it is the martial art that is useless, and not themselves, after devoting 1 hour of their time to it, is just funny to be honest.
*I have met alot of people who think the notion of competing in tournaments and the like, loses sight of the purpose of martial arts: It is only when success in competition becomes the greatest priority for a martial artist, that you can say this about them. People in the club (including myself) did compete fairly regularly on a national level. I won quite a few trophies over the years
All the people in my club who competed used it as a means of learning how to perform under pressure, and to wake themselves up occasionally. In the same way that boxers develop bad habits if they use the same sparring partners all the time. I always found competing unpleasant, but it is all part of pushing yourself
It is the best way to keep yourself as sharp as possible. It was plain to see who was more adept at fighting within the club