Meeting someone and being tickled by them

[rhiannon]

What's his malfunction that he has to pay people to get what he wants?

His malfunction probably is that he is into something that a lot of women don't like.

 

[Depressed39M]

What's his malfunction that he has to pay people to get what he wants?

'Cause most of the people on here that I know don't have to do all that.

The money part was the first thing that made me go "derp alert!"

I'd never do it. And I actually enjoy being tickled.

Whenever someone says something like this it's like they're saying they're better than me because they don't have to pay for it. If I tried to meet a woman the "normal way", going up to her and being social or whatever, look at what I'd have to do:

make small talk with her, where do you work, what do you do for fun, when all I want to do is get my hands on her ticklish spots.

Get her phone number, which depends on whether she likes me enough to give it, when I don't really care what she likes, I just want to get my hands on her ticklish spots.

Go out on a date with her, which is assuming she actually shows up and doesn't "flake" and not show up like she said she would, like a goddamn little kid.

And assuming all that and she does show up for the date, when can I start tickling her? First date, after I pretend to be interested in showing her a good time? Not even the first date at all, because I don't want to weird her out??

NOW can you see why some people choose to pay for it instead?

 

[chicago]

I guess.

Whenever someone says something like this it's like they're saying they're better than me because they don't have to pay for it. If I tried to meet a woman the "normal way", going up to her and being social or whatever, look at what I'd have to do:

make small talk with her, where do you work, what do you do for fun, when all I want to do is get my hands on her ticklish spots.

Get her phone number, which depends on whether she likes me enough to give it, when I don't really care what she likes, I just want to get my hands on her ticklish spots.

Go out on a date with her, which is assuming she actually shows up and doesn't "flake" and not show up like she said she would, like a goddamn little kid.

And assuming all that and she does show up for the date, when can I start tickling her? First date, after I pretend to be interested in showing her a good time? Not even the first date at all, because I don't want to weird her out??

NOW can you see why some people choose to pay for it instead?

 

[Libertine]

Whenever someone says something like this it's like they're saying they're better than me because they don't have to pay for it. If I tried to meet a woman the "normal way", going up to her and being social or whatever, look at what I'd have to do:

make small talk with her, where do you work, what do you do for fun, when all I want to do is get my hands on her ticklish spots.

Get her phone number, which depends on whether she likes me enough to give it, when I don't really care what she likes, I just want to get my hands on her ticklish spots.

Go out on a date with her, which is assuming she actually shows up and doesn't "flake" and not show up like she said she would, like a goddamn little kid.

And assuming all that and she does show up for the date, when can I start tickling her? First date, after I pretend to be interested in showing her a good time? Not even the first date at all, because I don't want to weird her out??

NOW can you see why some people choose to pay for it instead?

Shall we rewrite this?

Whenever someone says something like this it's like they're saying they're better than me because they don't have to pay for it. If I tried to meet a woman the "normal way", going up to her and being social or whatever, look at what I'd have to do:

make small talk with her, where do you work, what do you do for fun, when all I want to do is fuck her.

Get her phone number, which depends on whether she likes me enough to give it, when I don't really care what she likes, I just want to fuck her.

Go out on a date with her, which is assuming she actually shows up and doesn't "flake" and not show up like she said she would, like a goddamn little kid.

And assuming all that and she does show up for the date, when can I start fucking her? First date, after I pretend to be interested in showing her a good time? Not even the first date at all, because I don't want to weird her out??

NOW can you see why some people choose to pay for it instead?

Yes, and why they'd have to.

 

[Depressed39M]

Shall we rewrite this?

Whenever someone says something like this it's like they're saying they're better than me because they don't have to pay for it. If I tried to meet a woman the "normal way", going up to her and being social or whatever, look at what I'd have to do:

make small talk with her, where do you work, what do you do for fun, when all I want to do is fuck her.

Get her phone number, which depends on whether she likes me enough to give it, when I don't really care what she likes, I just want to fuck her.

Go out on a date with her, which is assuming she actually shows up and doesn't "flake" and not show up like she said she would, like a goddamn little kid.

And assuming all that and she does show up for the date, when can I start fucking her? First date, after I pretend to be interested in showing her a good time? Not even the first date at all, because I don't want to weird her out??

NOW can you see why some people choose to pay for it instead?

Yes, and why they'd have to.

My point is, whether I want to tickle a woman or have more "conventional" desires shall we say, some people seem to believe that men who go through all the extra effort mentioned above are somehow "better" than men who don't feel obligated to. Does there HAVE to be something "wrong" or "defective" with the man who pays for it? Or could it be that I simply value what I want from other people more than the people themselves? Is there something "wrong" with that? I guess it's not "nice" to feel that way? Sorry, it doesn't make me defective just because I have different priorities than most people, or because I'm more honest about what mine are.

 

[Libertine]

My point is, whether I want to tickle a woman or have more "conventional" desires shall we say, some people seem to believe that men who go through all the extra effort mentioned above are somehow "better" than men who don't feel obligated to. Does there HAVE to be something "wrong" or "defective" with the man who pays for it? Or could it be that I simply value what I want from other people more than the people themselves? Is there something "wrong" with that? I guess it's not "nice" to feel that way? Sorry, it doesn't make me defective just because I have different priorities than most people, or because I'm more honest about what mine are.

Well, you can hire an escort in Canada or Britain (over the net or by telephone, street soliciting is illegal in both countries), and you won't be prosecuted for that. Never tried either place but as a public service here you are.

Toronto: http://www.kinkden.com/main.php?page=subs

London: http://www.londonsubmissivegirls.com/

 

[rhiannon]

There is a reason why prostitution is called the oldest business in history!

 

[C.A.B.]

Everyone pays. ...... Everyone.

 

[Rusty Shackleford]

Personally I find great pleasure in the hunt... but I'm also not an embittered old man either, so hey

 

[Depressed39M]

Everyone pays. ...... Everyone.

Exactly! So I say guys like myself deserve credit for being out in the open about not wanting anyone's company, companionship, conversation, let's just use each other because that's what we're both here for!

Personally I find great pleasure in the hunt... but I'm also not an embittered old man either, so hey

I don't happen to find the "hunt" as you call it, thrilling in the least. I find it to be WORK. And it's bad enough I have to work to survive, when I would much rather just goof off and sleep all day. I'm not going to work to get some sexual pleasure also.

 

[rhiannon]

Everyone pays. ...... Everyone.

Hookers...still cheaper than marriage

 

[Rusty Shackleford]

HAHAHAHA dude if you don't have the "energy" to "get some" sexual pleasure you don't deserve it in the first place. We all need food, it's a daily requirement; is it handed to you, or do you have to work to earn the wages to exchange for foodstuffs? What makes you think you're somehow entitled to "sexual pleasure" as if it's a God given right?

The sexual pleasure you're referring to requires another consenting human being. What a hindrance, amirite? An individual, with, like, thoughts and feelings and prerogatives and shit? Gawd, how come women can't, like, just lie down in the street and let us do whatever we want to them?


Consider that women are more than the sum total of their ladybits for a second; what makes YOU deserving of their attention and permission to do what you like to them? Why should they consent to having (for all intents and purposes) a stranger bind them and run his hands all over them? Solely because you have these urges that need fulfilling?

I'm not bashing you for paying for tickling, I think the recent trend of women with legitimate tickling fetishes selling sessions as a service is sad indeed, and I totally get where you're coming from dispensing with the niceties and wanting to dive right into the fun.... but in case you've never dealt with womenfolk before, they tend to expect to get to know a person better before potentially risking their lives for your fleeting sexual urges. Food for thought.

 

[emilyemilyemily]

Exactly! So I say guys like myself deserve credit for being out in the open about not wanting anyone's company, companionship, conversation, let's just use each other because that's what we're both here for!



I don't happen to find the "hunt" as you call it, thrilling in the least. I find it to be WORK. And it's bad enough I have to work to survive, when I would much rather just goof off and sleep all day. I'm not going to work to get some sexual pleasure also.

depressed39m? more like depressed15m.

 

[Depressed39M]

I don't let society tell me I have to behave a certain way or have certain priorities because I'm a certain age. I'm basically the same person I was 20+ years ago in high school, and I'll be the same person when I'm 65. Being a loser with women my whole life has actually turned out to be a blessing because I have no family to support and can do what I want.

And Rusty, as long as I can pay for it, it doesn't matter what I "deserve", does it?

 

[Rusty Shackleford]

I agree with you insofar as there is nothing wrong with two consenting adults enjoying sexual services rendered with cash. If you got it and she's giving it, more power to the both of you.

I'm commenting on the fact that you're lamenting the "work" involved in meeting women to satisfy your sexual desires. I'm not passing judgement in regards to your decision to pay for what you want, I'm just saying if you view women as merely a means to an end I'd hazard a guess that any tickle play or sex you may have in the future is going to be listless, passionless, and routine (much like business transactions should be). I know it's a bitch navigating the preconceived rituals of dating, but if the payout is fulfilling my deepest sexual desires with a like-minded, reciprocative woman I don't mind telling people where I'm from, where I went to school, and my favorite dessert is.

 

[Wolf]

If someone wants to pay for what they want, between consenting adults, that's their business. I can see the appeal. No work, no fear of rejection, that sort of thing.
But you get what you pay for, and only what you pay for.

No sly confessions of ticklish experiences they've had in the past; no extended tickle fights with their girlfriends just to drive you crazy; no wearing tickle-friendly outfits in public; no working in the T word in "polite conversation" with friends, just so they can see the look on your face; no surprising you with ideas of things that they'd like to try.

Making a connection with another person is work, but you get what you pay for.

 

[TigerChick22]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FONN-0uoTHI yep, basically.

 

[C.A.B.]

Hookers...still cheaper than marriage

I defer to your inarguable position, Madam. Well said.

 

[2ltamerica]

+10 internetz for TigerChick

 

[Gitana]

HAHAHAHA dude if you don't have the "energy" to "get some" sexual pleasure you don't deserve it in the first place. We all need food, it's a daily requirement; is it handed to you, or do you have to work to earn the wages to exchange for foodstuffs? What makes you think you're somehow entitled to "sexual pleasure" as if it's a God given right?

The sexual pleasure you're referring to requires another consenting human being. What a hindrance, amirite? An individual, with, like, thoughts and feelings and prerogatives and shit? Gawd, how come women can't, like, just lie down in the street and let us do whatever we want to them?


Consider that women are more than the sum total of their ladybits for a second; what makes YOU deserving of their attention and permission to do what you like to them? Why should they consent to having (for all intents and purposes) a stranger bind them and run his hands all over them? Solely because you have these urges that need fulfilling?

I'm not bashing you for paying for tickling, I think the recent trend of women with legitimate tickling fetishes selling sessions as a service is sad indeed, and I totally get where you're coming from dispensing with the niceties and wanting to dive right into the fun.... but in case you've never dealt with womenfolk before, they tend to expect to get to know a person better before potentially risking their lives for your fleeting sexual urges. Food for thought.

I just love it when guys stand up for us gals like this. We need more men like you in the world, Rusty!

 

[stockytickler]

I have never met the women Wolf described. If I had, I'd probably have a very different life right now. I kept meeting women who wanted relationships but not sex. Which works out fine if you hate to be touched or you're safely 1,500 miles away on the other end of the Internet. But if you're dating a tickle fetishist you shouldn't expect it to last.

Thank the gods I'm bi, that's all I can say. Even in this backcountry state of N.D., I met a guy (online) who is as into tickling as I am and we're building a great life together. You definitely need to have more in common than your fetish, but yeah, this is working for me.

So if you have to pay for it, I completely get that. More power to you, brother. And to the OP, I hope everything went well Cheers!

 

[rhiannon]

I'm commenting on the fact that you're lamenting the "work" involved in meeting women to satisfy your sexual desires. I'm not passing judgement in regards to your decision to pay for what you want, I'm just saying if you view women as merely a means to an end I'd hazard a guess that any tickle play or sex you may have in the future is going to be listless, passionless, and routine (much like business transactions should be).

If it's satisfying to him, who are we to judge? Plus - I can't imagine it being that bad, or why else would even married men consult prostitutes? Must be getting something they can't get at home!

 

[Rusty Shackleford]

Wow I literally said "I'm not passing judgement on your decision to pay for what you want".... I find prostitution to be empowering and (when safely legislated) a necessary service for a metropolis to offer; I'm just throwing my two cents into the ring, disregard as need be.

 

[Rusty Shackleford]

I just love it when guys stand up for us gals like this. We need more men like you in the world, Rusty!

Thanks Gitana. By no means do I align myself with the militant, testicle-crushing bra-burning feminists of old, I just take umbrage with the fact that many men fail to see women as anything more than walking, talking genitalia, and then are dismayed when they end up dying alone.

 

[rhiannon]

the fact that many men fail to see women as anything more than walking, talking genitalia

I only have a problem with that if they believe they can treat women who don't take money in exchange for sex like that. Happens way too often since we have the internet!