footcurious
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Please help.
I am a 32-yo gay man in a relationship that has been strained. I have struggled with the lack of sexual initiative my partner has shown, but we have a great relationship otherwise. He initially told me he wasn't that interested in sex, and that he had never had sex. I have been patient, and hoping that he would open up to me. He told me of his foot fetish a few months ago and I have tried to accomodate his desires but it didn't seem to help that much.
Anyway...I sat him down last night and talked it out of him. He likes to tickle. He wants to explore this fetish, and expressed interest in an open relationship where he could do this. He said he likes to tickle as a form of domination, and mentioned ejaculation control as well.
I am ticklish. Apparently he has tried tickling me some in our encounters, and I had a negative reaction (I said "no...don't" or something like that). I don't even remember these encounters because until now I haven't considered tickling in a sexual context. He said he felt sexually rejected and lost interest after this.
I have been thinking about this today, and actually excited by the prospect of him tying me up and tickling me. I am submissive sexually, but usually I am very vanilla in bed. I want to explore this with him, but I have no idea how to gain his interest again, or to initiate this kind of activity myself. Might anyone be able to help?
Thank you!
I am a 32-yo gay man in a relationship that has been strained. I have struggled with the lack of sexual initiative my partner has shown, but we have a great relationship otherwise. He initially told me he wasn't that interested in sex, and that he had never had sex. I have been patient, and hoping that he would open up to me. He told me of his foot fetish a few months ago and I have tried to accomodate his desires but it didn't seem to help that much.
Anyway...I sat him down last night and talked it out of him. He likes to tickle. He wants to explore this fetish, and expressed interest in an open relationship where he could do this. He said he likes to tickle as a form of domination, and mentioned ejaculation control as well.
I am ticklish. Apparently he has tried tickling me some in our encounters, and I had a negative reaction (I said "no...don't" or something like that). I don't even remember these encounters because until now I haven't considered tickling in a sexual context. He said he felt sexually rejected and lost interest after this.
I have been thinking about this today, and actually excited by the prospect of him tying me up and tickling me. I am submissive sexually, but usually I am very vanilla in bed. I want to explore this with him, but I have no idea how to gain his interest again, or to initiate this kind of activity myself. Might anyone be able to help?
Thank you!