Hi guys,
I'm writing cause I so badly need some dating advice right now. I'm a 26 y/o guy who's been single for three months after a 6 years relationship, and well, you can say I kind of lost the use of dating after all these years, and now I'm getting crazy over a certain situation, and this is the only place where I can ask for help, because it's closely related to my (and this lady's) tickling fetish.
I talked a great deal about my experience with a lovely girl called Mindy (borrowed name) here if you'd like to have the whole story: http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?256657-Eight-years-and-worth-the-wait-!-m-f
But to make a long story short, after my ex and I broke up I decided to return to a tickling forum I used to go before I met her (not this one), and that's where I started to chat with this girl, Mindy, who happened to live about an hour's drive from my place (and my town being kind of a s**thole, that was a miracle). She told me she was the shy type and although she'd had tickling sessions with other members before, she was "paranoid" (her own words) and would not go for a session with a guy before she'd known him for months. I reassured her I wasn't the kind to push her into one, then I suggested we meet IRL. We'd talked for hardly a few days, and she said yes, and we met for a dinner, a rather awkward dinner, she seemed kinda nervous and so was I. She's a lovely girl who's 5 years younger than me and definitely the shy type, but after we broke the ice we went on to chat and joke and things were pretty friendly between us.
I was shocked to find out (I asked) that she would be totally okay to have a tickling session with me, even though we'd chatted for only a few days and met only once. Still I kept cool and didn't pester her about it, we met a second time with no tickling involved, I took her to a Japanese restaurant - she'd never tried sushi before and she liked it - and we found out we have things in common, like we both like to write stories and we're both completely into our respective passions (she's into horseriding and I'm into metal, and we even found out there are things in common between those two worlds !)
We had a session a week after that, and it went on like a dream, when it was done I gave her a back and foot rub and she loved it. Then we cooked dinner together and she even asked me to stay and rub her feet a bit more before I left.
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So that was last month, and the situation as it is today is that we haven't been able to see each others since then, as she's been so busy with her job and her moving to a new apartment. But we've been texting, not everyday but quite often, mostly talking about the stories we're writing and then we started teasing each others. I hinted at a possible second session, she seems to be totally up for it, she said she wants to teach me to ride a horse, and last week she even called me because she had trouble with her TV and felt more comfortable asking me than other people she knows for help. I found it cute and told her she could call me anytime if she had a problem.
We were supposed to meet up and go riding next Monday, but she just pushed it back to the week after because she was too busy at work, so I suggested we have dinner sometime next week in the meantime, and she just said yes!
Okay, so, first I'm sorry for the length of my post, but I really need opinions here because I feel the situation is getting quite ambiguous. Considering how nervously I've been checking my messages for her reply, it's clear to me I'm having feelings for her. Question is, how is it from her side? Based on what I wrote, would you say I may have a chance with her, or are we just gonna be friends and tickle buddies? Robmic told me to keep cool and not to rush things, but if she's interested in me as well, won't she think I'm not interested if I don't try to, like, kiss her when we meet up next week?
I'm writing cause I so badly need some dating advice right now. I'm a 26 y/o guy who's been single for three months after a 6 years relationship, and well, you can say I kind of lost the use of dating after all these years, and now I'm getting crazy over a certain situation, and this is the only place where I can ask for help, because it's closely related to my (and this lady's) tickling fetish.
I talked a great deal about my experience with a lovely girl called Mindy (borrowed name) here if you'd like to have the whole story: http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?256657-Eight-years-and-worth-the-wait-!-m-f
But to make a long story short, after my ex and I broke up I decided to return to a tickling forum I used to go before I met her (not this one), and that's where I started to chat with this girl, Mindy, who happened to live about an hour's drive from my place (and my town being kind of a s**thole, that was a miracle). She told me she was the shy type and although she'd had tickling sessions with other members before, she was "paranoid" (her own words) and would not go for a session with a guy before she'd known him for months. I reassured her I wasn't the kind to push her into one, then I suggested we meet IRL. We'd talked for hardly a few days, and she said yes, and we met for a dinner, a rather awkward dinner, she seemed kinda nervous and so was I. She's a lovely girl who's 5 years younger than me and definitely the shy type, but after we broke the ice we went on to chat and joke and things were pretty friendly between us.
I was shocked to find out (I asked) that she would be totally okay to have a tickling session with me, even though we'd chatted for only a few days and met only once. Still I kept cool and didn't pester her about it, we met a second time with no tickling involved, I took her to a Japanese restaurant - she'd never tried sushi before and she liked it - and we found out we have things in common, like we both like to write stories and we're both completely into our respective passions (she's into horseriding and I'm into metal, and we even found out there are things in common between those two worlds !)
We had a session a week after that, and it went on like a dream, when it was done I gave her a back and foot rub and she loved it. Then we cooked dinner together and she even asked me to stay and rub her feet a bit more before I left.
***********************
So that was last month, and the situation as it is today is that we haven't been able to see each others since then, as she's been so busy with her job and her moving to a new apartment. But we've been texting, not everyday but quite often, mostly talking about the stories we're writing and then we started teasing each others. I hinted at a possible second session, she seems to be totally up for it, she said she wants to teach me to ride a horse, and last week she even called me because she had trouble with her TV and felt more comfortable asking me than other people she knows for help. I found it cute and told her she could call me anytime if she had a problem.
We were supposed to meet up and go riding next Monday, but she just pushed it back to the week after because she was too busy at work, so I suggested we have dinner sometime next week in the meantime, and she just said yes!
Okay, so, first I'm sorry for the length of my post, but I really need opinions here because I feel the situation is getting quite ambiguous. Considering how nervously I've been checking my messages for her reply, it's clear to me I'm having feelings for her. Question is, how is it from her side? Based on what I wrote, would you say I may have a chance with her, or are we just gonna be friends and tickle buddies? Robmic told me to keep cool and not to rush things, but if she's interested in me as well, won't she think I'm not interested if I don't try to, like, kiss her when we meet up next week?