Needing to tickle someone...

[bowler]

Just a general question....How does everyone get over the urge to tickle someone when you don't have the opportunity to do it? I have been in "tickling withdrawal" and I feel like I should go somwhere and just start tickling people! Then I realize how stupid that would be and try to get my mind off of it (which is not easy).

 

[Aimee]

I just suffer.

 

[bowler]

Sucks doesn't it?

 

[Aimee]

Biggg time!

 

[mb7700]

It's too bad there isn't some kind of tickling dating site or something for these situations..."eTickle Harmony" or something like that! (I can just hear the ad..."matching lers and lees in 25 essential areas of tickle-compatibility"...although I don't think there would BE 25 essential areas for tickle compatibility!) But anyway, where's an enterprising, ambitious entrepreneur when you need one?!

 

[venray]

We all have urges that we have to keep in check on a day to day basis....

Part of life...but at least we have each other to share feelings with..

 

[bowler]

Agreed venray. Just wondered how others dealt with it. I would love to just randomly tickle a beautiful woman, but I also would like to stay out of jail.

 

[venray]

LOL I see so many women at work on a day to day basis in flipflops and such that it is enough to drive me nuts!....

I just focus on my work and keep on going...

 

[Fire_Sprite]

Shame I don't have a random tickle buddy. It'd be awesome just to call a girl up and say "COME OVER NOW. BRING HANDCUFFS!"

 

[bowler]

THAT would be awesome! Of course, I've met no willing ticklees her in RI. Like venray said, plenty at work to choose from, but I like my job!

 

[fordtech30]

that's what chocolate is for.

 

[NonConTickler]

Have you tried strip clubs? That's what I do. Or escort services if you can afford them.

Oh and Aimee it is totally different for women. You tell a random guy in a bar what you're into, and he'll go along with anything if he thinks it will get him in a girl's pants. Guys on the other hand have to be smooth and charming and all that social bullshit and it's just too much work. I'd rather pay for it.

 

[moose]

make friends with someone on this site and, well there you go

 

[Fire_Sprite]

Have you tried strip clubs? That's what I do. Or escort services if you can afford them.

Oh and Aimee it is totally different for women. You tell a random guy in a bar what you're into, and he'll go along with anything if he thinks it will get him in a girl's pants. Guys on the other hand have to be smooth and charming and all that social bullshit and it's just too much work. I'd rather pay for it.

I was going to write a counter argument before I remembered your username.

 

[bowler]

No I'm not one that would pay for it. But I would tickle Aimee if she wanted!

 

[brainiac]

Making friends here would be the best bet if you are lucky enough to be around any of them [which I don't seem to be]. Otherwise...........<sigh> you just have to try and work through it or forget it as soon as possible. I feel like I go through taht almost every day since I don't have a girl friend right now but when I do....oh buddy...she is gonna laugh ALOT! [will have time to make up for from withdrawls]

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

PRESS 1 FOR FEET, PRESS 2 FOR UPPERBODY............

I tried that tickling chocolate once. All I had to show for it is a few "kisses". You are preaching to the choir or talking crazy to the looney bin, whatever. I have tried some on-line dating sites and met some nice people there. Not just for tickling and it does take time and effort for both parties, as does anything worthwhile. I hope you find someone with which you can build a relationship.

 

[tklmeplz1]

Have you tried strip clubs? That's what I do. Or escort services if you can afford them.

Oh and Aimee it is totally different for women. You tell a random guy in a bar what you're into, and he'll go along with anything if he thinks it will get him in a girl's pants. Guys on the other hand have to be smooth and charming and all that social bullshit and it's just too much work. I'd rather pay for it.

Tha's not really true. I have told random "dates" about it but all they have on there mind is sex. Especially when they see a woman tied up.

 

[bowler]

thanks for all the replies! it does help to hear other points of view. And any 'lees out there that need a fix, I'm always willing to help out!

 

[Aimee]

Oh and Aimee it is totally different for women. You tell a random guy in a bar what you're into, and he'll go along with anything if he thinks it will get him in a girl's pants. Guys on the other hand have to be smooth and charming and all that social bullshit and it's just too much work. I'd rather pay for it.

No... just no.

No I'm not one that would pay for it. But I would tickle Aimee if she wanted!

 

[Mike3355]

I disagree with the whole Girls got it easier bit, yes often they can show some cleavage and get there way... but that doesn't always work especially when she's after being tickled or tickling the guy.. it might scare them off...


and as for the topic... cybertickling does dull the urge some.. not all but a good cyber session can keep it at bay till you find someone real time to tickle or tickle you.... or that could just be me...

 

[rhiannon]

Girls don't have it easier, believe me! It's not like a trustworthy ler just lives next door!

About the whole urges question: well, what do you do when you have the urge to have sex with a woman and there is none available?

 

[Gadilici]

We should have a working poll....10 guys and 10 girls go to a bar, and see who gets more tickling.

My money is on the womens.

How do I deal with it? Painfully.

Christopher

 

[rhiannon]

Depends on what kind of tickling you want!

 

[Cif]

Find something... 'constructive' to do...

I took up tapestry