• The TMF is sponsored by Clips4sale - By supporting them, you're supporting us.
  • >>> If you cannot get into your account email me at [email protected] <<<
    Don't forget to include your username

The TMF is sponsored by:

Clips4Sale Banner

Please give your opinions

Well, nobody says he should tell his mom it excites him. All he wanted to know is if we think it's weird. And I personally think it's weird. It would creep me the hell out if I got aroused by something my father did to me! Yuck!

It would not "creep" you if you felt it. We are very uncomfortable with rats. But rats are very comfortable having sex between them and having a lot of little rats. If you got aroused by something, that something would not make you feel bad. It would be contradictory.

But, the guilty that is experienced by, in example, a teenager that masturbates for the first time, is generated by social pressure and dogmatic idiotic morality. Although, masturbation does not generate negative consequences. So actually there are things that are considered bad or weird, but that are not really bad, with negative consequences. That is the mistake of morality, it represses a lot of things, without reason, but dogma.
 
It would not "creep" you if you felt it.

Oh, believe me, it would creep me out if I felt it! And I would avoid it at all cost! I get really angry if a family member tries to tickle me, because tickling will arouse me.
 
I kinda like it when my mom tickles me and if you have read my intro im 21 and in a wheelchair is this weird to you guys?

The only truth about it is that "no one has the power to rule your frame of mind." All the noble or horrendous of imaginations could thrive in a mind, it gets judged once you disclose them. But you ask the consensus of the public, and now you got varying opinions, even though the core of your answer is already contained in your question.

IMO, your mother has no malice in tickling you to arousal.

If I make it extreme, let's say for example, the tickling will make you walk again but it will make you very very aroused to the point of shameful incestuous madness, will you choose to stop or deal with the guilt for the total cure?

The burden is totally yours, whether you will continue with the train of thoughts or or not.
 
I'm not even sure what, exactly, OP is looking for.
 
That is the mistake of morality, it represses a lot of things, without reason, but dogma.

Without reason that you deem legitimate. Morality also encourages healthy behavior. Don't confuse specific dogmas with morality. They're two different things. And unless you're the type that says there is nothing you can set in stone as "good" and "bad," then you have morality. Unless YOU believe masturbation is "wrong," then in your mind you're not being immoral by doing it.


I consider a parent knowingly arousing a child to be immoral. I also have read on this site that for some people, they're able to separate the "fun, innocent tickles" with family and children, and the ones that cause arousal. My point to the original poster is if he wants to try to maintain the fun, innocent and playful bonding going on, perhaps there are things he can ask her not to do. If it's just random that it strikes him as arousing as opposed to other times, I think he should just say it makes him uncomfortable and leave it at that.
 
Morality is a concept invented by humans, and nothing is inherently "good" or "evil". The codes of ethics we've established generally condone those actions that support mankind's survival and procreation, while condemning those that have the opposite effect. So I am in fact the type to say nothing can set in stone as "good" or "bad", but that it's a simple and important matter of pragmatism that we abide to the social contracts we agree to.

I realize you think you're smarter than basically everyone else. That being said, I recommend you read Utilitarianism. It might open your eyes a bit about morality and ethics.

PS, I've motioned to have you banned for your cruel behavior to everyone in the chatroom. Hope it works :)
 
Morality is a concept invented by humans, and nothing is inherently "good" or "evil". The codes of ethics we've established generally condone those actions that support mankind's survival and procreation, while condemning those that have the opposite effect. So I am in fact the type to say nothing can set in stone as "good" or "bad", but that it's a simple and important matter of pragmatism that we abide to the social contracts we agree to.

I realize you think you're smarter than basically everyone else. That being said, I recommend you read Utilitarianism. It might open your eyes a bit about morality and ethics.

PS, I've motioned to have you banned for your cruel behavior to everyone in the chatroom. Hope it works :)

So you consider an intent to seriously discuss a topic to be "cruel behaviour to everyone"? I can tell you I know and I have read books about pragmatism and utilitarianism. But I simply cannot really think that the rule of "whatever thing consequences in major happiness is the best thing to do" is something that can be acceptable, as it is hard or impossible to quantify happiness, and even more impossible to really know the mental states of the others, or even prove that they have mental states or at least the mental state of happiness.

There is a problem that your teacher at high school told you that utilitarianism was the best theory on ethics (and you believed him), or if you think that the utilitarianism is the real, eye opener, theory. Ethics is the most primitive branch of philosophy, people is too blind now to really make a lot of progress on it now. But the little we have made is enough to realize that, as you say, the morality is invented and imposed by humans, and that the morality imposed yet today, which is the Christian morality, is a repressive one, that does not let the humans develop completely. Why? It represses passions, and the repression of passions, specially sexual passion, is something very negative for the human. Oh, and morality changes between times and locations... Why should we guide ourselves by something so contingent, unstable, dogmatic, and repressive? Do you really think that today's morality is the best thing to follow for the sake of mankind's survival and procreation? Can't you see that it is a morality made to preserve absurd churches and the power of the bourgeoisie?

As I noticed at that chat (that according to you, was full of cruel behaviour), people's morality is a bizarre Christianity mixed with a lot of love to money (capitalism). A person will accept to do something unwanted, if someone will pay, and even that person would play absurd tricks in the mind to end believing he is doing fine; but the same person would not make unwanted things for love or to make "happy" to others.

I realize you are too immature or with very scarce criteria, so much that you get angry for a serious chat, with real arguments. I recommend you not to be so susceptible, and to read more than only obsolete English treatises of ethics; maybe then you could open your eyes enough to see if my eyes are really closed (and they are not).
 
Morality is a concept invented by humans, and nothing is inherently "good" or "evil". The codes of ethics we've established generally condone those actions that support mankind's survival and procreation, while condemning those that have the opposite effect. So I am in fact the type to say nothing can set in stone as "good" or "bad", but that it's a simple and important matter of pragmatism that we abide to the social contracts we agree to.

I recommend you read On Truth by Harry G. Frankfurt.

I realize you think you're smarter than basically everyone else.

If the shoe fits.. :)

PS, I've motioned to have you banned for your cruel behavior to everyone in the chatroom. Hope it works :)

I hope it does too for your fragile ego's sake. But you may want to *think* in the future about a concept called hypocrisy. Google it. ;)
 
...the morality imposed yet today, which is the Christian morality, is a repressive one, that does not let the humans develop completely. Why? It represses passions, and the repression of passions, specially sexual passion, is something very negative for the human.

The morality imposed today? Who's imposing morality? What Christian sect is imposing their beliefs on anyone? Apart from homosexual marriage, which is a matter of the state, and is being legalized more and more, I can't imagine what other basis you're referring to.

Repressing passions, especially sexual passions, is something very negative for the human? How so? To each his or her own as far as how they conduct their sexual lives. When children become involved, I think it's fair to say that is immoral or WRONG due to how this affects the child's psychological health throughout their lives. Subjects are rampant.

There are passions that do need to be repressed in some people. To suggest that there is absolutely no right and wrong is absurd. Sexual morality is only one facet and we can continue to discuss that since that's the direction your argument has taken.

Why should we guide ourselves by something so contingent, unstable, dogmatic, and repressive?

... again... What are you saying? Were you raised in a home that expected you to live by a Christian philosophy? Otherwise... you're an adult I assume. No one's telling you what to do and what not to do other than the laws. And again, apart from marriage with homosexuality, which has come, and will continue to go a long way, what laws do you feel represses your passions?

Do you really think that today's morality is the best thing to follow for the sake of mankind's survival and procreation?

Good question. Absolutely not. With the sex-saturated society we live in, on TV, in music, in literature, and the epidemic of porn addiction, this is not a healthy place we'rei in that will be conducive to mankind's survival both physically and psychologically. Especially for the younger generations that are born into this now.

Can't you see that it is a morality made to preserve absurd churches and the power of the bourgeoisie?

Again you're confusing specific dogmas with morality. Two very different things. If certain people adhere to abstaining until marriage, that is an *individual* choice, or it should be. People that buy into philosophies blindly deserve what they get out of them, i.e. People that are choosing to abstain from sex until marriage just 'cause their "leader" tells 'em that's what they need to do. That's stupidity and I think you'd find that the majority of people who actually do, do it for deeper reasons than the superficial dogma, and more to do with their relationship with Diety and/or their own personal values/beliefs/idealism/what have you.
 
The morality imposed today? Who's imposing morality? What Christian sect is imposing their beliefs on anyone? Apart from homosexual marriage, which is a matter of the state, and is being legalized more and more, I can't imagine what other basis you're referring to.

Repressing passions, especially sexual passions, is something very negative for the human? How so? To each his or her own as far as how they conduct their sexual lives. When children become involved, I think it's fair to say that is immoral or WRONG due to how this affects the child's psychological health throughout their lives. Subjects are rampant.

There are passions that do need to be repressed in some people. To suggest that there is absolutely no right and wrong is absurd. Sexual morality is only one facet and we can continue to discuss that since that's the direction your argument has taken.



... again... What are you saying? Were you raised in a home that expected you to live by a Christian philosophy? Otherwise... you're an adult I assume. No one's telling you what to do and what not to do other than the laws. And again, apart from marriage with homosexuality, which has come, and will continue to go a long way, what laws do you feel represses your passions?



Good question. Absolutely not. With the sex-saturated society we live in, on TV, in music, in literature, and the epidemic of porn addiction, this is not a healthy place we'rei in that will be conducive to mankind's survival both physically and psychologically. Especially for the younger generations that are born into this now.



Again you're confusing specific dogmas with morality. Two very different things. If certain people adhere to abstaining until marriage, that is an *individual* choice, or it should be. People that buy into philosophies blindly deserve what they get out of them, i.e. People that are choosing to abstain from sex until marriage just 'cause their "leader" tells 'em that's what they need to do. That's stupidity and I think you'd find that the majority of people who actually do, do it for deeper reasons than the superficial dogma, and more to do with their relationship with Diety and/or their own personal values/beliefs/idealism/what have you.

I will give you a better answer soon, but meanwhile, I can tell you this: Man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills.

Schopenhauer said it too.
 
Man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills.

Man CAN do what he wills. That is true. There ARE moral implications, however. Example: Abuse of a minor in any form, etc. I think we can all agree that is bad, and if we can't, then I have no desire to continue this conversation.

'He cannot will what he wills.' -- Not always, but more often than one might think. If a person indulges in pornography, becomes addicted, and starts seeking out newer and more twisted forms, illegal forms, etc., he chose to go down that path in the first place. You are your actions.

I agree that sometimes there is some temptation for things that society as a whole says is immoral without indulging in the thoughts and leading a life that wouldn't necessarily lead to that. Having the will isn't the same as doing it. But the more the will is entertained in the mind the more likely it will come into action.

Vice is a monster of so frightful mien,
As to be hated needs but to be seen;
Yet seen too oft, familiar with her face,
We first endure, then pity, then embrace.

-- Alexander Pope, An Essay on Man (1732), epistle 2, lines 217–20, in The Complete Poetical Works of Pope, ed. Henry W. Boynton (1931), 144.

At first the 'vice' is an abhorance; something we'd never go for. Then we entertain the thought and try to rationalize it. Finally, it's something we do and/or condone. Consciences are beautiful things but they're a commodity it seems a LOT of people want to numb out.. and WHY?! THAT is repressing something that causes harm to man.
 
But the more the will is entertained in the mind the more likely it will come into action.
-shygirl08

This is not totally accurate though. What about the differences between somebody who is intrinsic or extrinsic? People who are intrinsic(e.g. 'shy'): are more capable of controlling their environment consciously, in regards to voluntary action. The extrinsic individual: has no sure self-control, and their subconscious actions are usually a gamble("innocent" or not).

Of course, there are some exceptions - like, married/inclusive couples, in which the 'will' is accepted. I think this is when the 'will' is still "normally" acceptable(as long as the physical relationship is still voluntary).

Everything else is still 'willed'(voluntary, or porn)/paid-for(prostitution). The non-con(involuntary), still exists as well...
 
What about the differences between somebody who is intrinsic or extrinsic? People who are intrinsic(e.g. 'shy'): are more capable of controlling their environment consciously, in regards to voluntary action. The extrinsic individual: has no sure self-control, and their subconscious actions are usually a gamble("innocent" or not).

I think you've got intrinsic and extrinsic mixed up here. People who have intrinsic wills towards things that aren't in harmony with the law or their own moral code, regardless if it's religious or not, do happen. That is what I agree with when TickleXXX mentioned man cannot will what he wills. This is there, however, the more those intrinsic wills are entertained in the mind, or pushed aside, i.e. consciously willing to not have that will, the resulting consequences follow.

There isn't such a thing as an 'extrinsic individual'. There's extrinsic stimuli whereever you go, in music, in literature, and with whomever you associate. Extrinsic stimuli IS controllable. You can choose what you're willing to surround yourself with. In some cases you may not be able to choose what you would like to surround and stimulate yourself with, but you can choose whether you entertain and indulge that will or choose other things. Wills can be changed.

Involuntary desires absolutely exist, but, as I said in my previous post, they're not as rampant as some might want to believe. And what IS true, is that man CAN and DOES choose his actions. Said actions may be a result of a long time indulging in and rationalizing things that ARE immoral, but they were controllable and arguably still controllable at the time of action as in the case of abuse. The perp has rationalized it so much in his/her mind that they've numbed their consciences.

Of course their are exceptions like severe mental illness, and being under the influence of a mind-altering intoxicant -- but then the later was still a choice, even if the ramifications aren't. And in cases of mental illness that isn't always the excusing factor. There is still controllable will. Even in severe cases at times, albeit briefly.

Man cannot will what he wills SOMETIMES through INTRINSIC variables, but he CAN will what he does.

Extrinsic stimuli of abuse when you're a child, for instance, I would argue can become an intrinsic issue in the future as your brain is still developing. It can be VERY hard to break out of, if not impossible. BUT actions can always be controlled, except, at times, in cases of mental illness.

One example to illustrate my point is someone who either intrinsically, and/or a combination of extrinsic factors, has a propensity towards narcissism can still choose their behavior! They may or may not CHOOSE to WILL that behavior to be more empathic and less self-centered, but the option is there for them.

Another example is someone who disregards other people's rights, values, and privacy for his own selfish reasons.. I guess that would be narcissism too? combined with other issues, and who knows if the same things were done to him, how he'd feel about it and how uncomfortable he'd be just relaxing in his own home. But who CHOOSES to continue to violate people anyway. He's rationalized his behavior over, and over and over and over through extrinsic friendships, through possible parental examples or examples produced through the media, and other things such as viewing pornography, which can and does alter a person's psychology in some substantial ways. But he cannot choose to be anything other than that while he's doing it. He may not like what he has chosen to be, but it isn't a put down to spell out and define exactly what goes on. So he may or may not have been able to will his will as far as wanting to violate a person or persons, but he DID will his will into action. And ultimately, no matter what desires cross your mind, no matter how they're either discarded or nurtured, you are your actions.

What really gets to me are defeatists that have intrinsic or deeply rooted extrinsically-induced wills that are contrary to what they know they should be doing or that are contrary to the laws and all reason, have put some of them into action, and then say, "that's just who I am," completely giving up their own control of themselves. That is the weakest excuse I've ever heard. Change is always available to people. But these defeatist types DO NOT WANT TO HEAR THAT. They will go to GREAT lengths not to hear it. They aren't really defeatists as much as they are just lazy narcissists. It seems to be a combination of both with them, and it is the most repulsive attitude I can think of.
 
Last edited:
When people give in to their baser instincts, no matter the situation, the societal norm is just to address it as creepy and weird. People are brainwashed to think a certain way from birth, and those who think and act differently are ridiculed for the most part. What you feel is what you feel. Everyone is different. I would say it's likely not a GOOD choice to want to be aroused by your mother, but hey, psychologists say it's extremely common for dudes to wanna fuck their moms.

Personally, the thought of anything related to tickling or sex with my mother sickens me. But the only time I even care about talking to her is when I'm drunk or fucked up somehow, so it's likely a different relationship. :p

Anyway, bro, stick to porn if you can, but whatever.
 
I think you've got intrinsic and extrinsic mixed up here. People who have intrinsic wills towards things that aren't in harmony with the law or their own moral code, regardless if it's religious or not, do happen. That is what I agree with when TickleXXX mentioned man cannot will what he wills. This is there, however, the more those intrinsic wills are entertained in the mind, or pushed aside, i.e. consciously willing to not have that will, the resulting consequences follow.

There isn't such a thing as an 'extrinsic individual'. There's extrinsic stimuli whereever you go, in music, in literature, and with whomever you associate. Extrinsic stimuli IS controllable. You can choose what you're willing to surround yourself with. In some cases you may not be able to choose what you would like to surround and stimulate yourself with, but you can choose whether you entertain and indulge that will or choose other things. Wills can be changed.

Involuntary desires absolutely exist, but, as I said in my previous post, they're not as rampant as some might want to believe. And what IS true, is that man CAN and DOES choose his actions. Said actions may be a result of a long time indulging in and rationalizing things that ARE immoral, but they were controllable and arguably still controllable at the time of action as in the case of abuse. The perp has rationalized it so much in his/her mind that they've numbed their consciences.

Of course their are exceptions like severe mental illness, and being under the influence of a mind-altering intoxicant -- but then the later was still a choice, even if the ramifications aren't. And in cases of mental illness that isn't always the excusing factor. There is still controllable will. Even in severe cases at times, albeit briefly.

Man cannot will what he wills SOMETIMES through INTRINSIC variables, but he CAN will what he does.

Extrinsic stimuli of abuse when you're a child, for instance, I would argue can become an intrinsic issue in the future as your brain is still developing. It can be VERY hard to break out of, if not impossible. BUT actions can always be controlled, except, at times, in cases of mental illness.

One example to illustrate my point is someone who either intrinsically, and/or a combination of extrinsic factors, has a propensity towards narcissism can still choose their behavior! They may or may not CHOOSE to WILL that behavior to be more empathic and less self-centered, but the option is there for them.

Another example is someone who disregards other people's rights, values, and privacy for his own selfish reasons.. I guess that would be narcissism too? combined with other issues, and who knows if the same things were done to him, how he'd feel about it and how uncomfortable he'd be just relaxing in his own home. But who CHOOSES to continue to violate people anyway. He's rationalized his behavior over, and over and over and over through extrinsic friendships, through possible parental examples or examples produced through the media, and other things such as viewing pornography, which can and does alter a person's psychology in some substantial ways. But he cannot choose to be anything other than that while he's doing it. He may not like what he has chosen to be, but it isn't a put down to spell out and define exactly what goes on. So he may or may not have been able to will his will as far as wanting to violate a person or persons, but he DID will his will into action. And ultimately, no matter what desires cross your mind, no matter how they're either discarded or nurtured, you are your actions.

What really gets to me are defeatists that have intrinsic or deeply rooted extrinsically-induced wills that are contrary to what they know they should be doing or that are contrary to the laws and all reason, have put some of them into action, and then say, "that's just who I am," completely giving up their own control of themselves. That is the weakest excuse I've ever heard. Change is always available to people. But these defeatist types DO NOT WANT TO HEAR THAT. They will go to GREAT lengths not to hear it. They aren't really defeatists as much as they are just lazy narcissists. It seems to be a combination of both with them, and it is the most repulsive attitude I can think of.

Your post is a non sequitur...

You are saying that a person is only intrinsic, and only followed by extrinsic valuations. This is totally false...

There isn't such a thing as an 'extrinsic individual'.

Where is your proof?
 
Your post is a non sequitur...
No, it's not. I gave examples to illustrate my point.

You are saying that a person is only intrinsic, and only followed by extrinsic valuations. This is totally false...
Obviously you haven't looked these words up in the dictionary. Allow me to quote from Dictionary.com:

in·trin·sic [in-trin-sik, -zik] adjective
1. belonging to a thing by its very nature: the intrinsic value of a gold ring.
2. Anatomy . (of certain muscles, nerves, etc.) belonging to or lying within a given part.

Origin:
1480–90; < Medieval Latin intrinsecus inward (adj.), Latin (adv.), equivalent to intrin- ( int ( e ) r-, as in interior + -im adv. suffix) + secus beside, derivative of sequī to follow

(Interestingly they included this ;) )
Can be confused: extraneous, external, extrinsic, internal.




ex·trin·sic [ik-strin-sik, -zik] adjective
1. not essential or inherent; not a basic part or quality; extraneous: facts that are extrinsic to the matter under discussion.
2. being outside a thing; outward or external; operating or coming from without: extrinsic influences.
3. Anatomy . (of certain muscles, nerves, etc.) originating outside the anatomical limits of a part.

Where is your proof?

:) See above.
 
No, it's not. I gave examples to illustrate my point.

Sorry, I should have given a more detailed rebuttal.


Obviously you haven't looked these words up in the dictionary. Allow me to quote from Dictionary.com:

in·trin·sic [in-trin-sik, -zik] adjective
1. belonging to a thing by its very nature: the intrinsic value of a gold ring.[/b]



ex·trin·sic [ik-strin-sik, -zik] adjective
1. not essential or inherent; not a basic part or quality; extraneous: facts that are extrinsic to the matter under discussion.[/b]

It would be my assumption that this is how psychologists differentiate between the two different motivations.

Here is something from Wiki:

Motivation can be divided into two types: intrinsic (internal) motivation and extrinsic (external) motivation.


Intrinsic motivation refers to motivation that is driven by an interest or enjoyment in the task itself, and exists within the individual rather than relying on external pressures or a desire for reward. Intrinsic motivation has been studied since the early 1970s. Students who are intrinsically motivated are more likely to engage in the task willingly as well as work to improve their skills, which will increase their capabilities.[3] Students are likely to be intrinsically motivated if they:
attribute their educational results to factors under their own control, also known as autonomy,
believe they have the skills which will allow them to be effective agents in reaching their desired goals without relying on luck
are interested in mastering a topic, not just in achieving good grades


Extrinsic motivation refers to the performance of an activity in order to attain an outcome, whether or not that activity is also intrinsically motivated. Extrinsic motivation comes from outside of the individual. Common extrinsic motivations are rewards (for example money or grades) for showing the desired behavior, and the threat of punishment following misbehaviour. Competition is in an extrinsic motivator because it encourages the performer to win and to beat others, not simply to enjoy the intrinsic rewards of the activity. A cheering crowd and the desire to win a trophy are also extrinsic incentives.[citation needed]
Comparison of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation
Social psychological research has indicated that extrinsic rewards can lead to overjustification and a subsequent reduction in intrinsic motivation. In one study demonstrating this effect, children who expected to be (and were) rewarded with a ribbon and a gold star for drawing pictures spent less time playing with the drawing materials in subsequent observations than children who were assigned to an unexpected reward condition.[4] While the provision of extrinsic rewards might reduce the desirability of an activity, the use of extrinsic constraints, such as the threat of punishment, against performing an activity has actually been found to increase one's intrinsic interest in that activity. In one study, when children were given mild threats against playing with an attractive toy, it was found that the threat actually served to increase the child's interest in the toy, which was previously undesirable to the child in the absence of threat.[5]
For those children who received no extrinsic reward, self-determination theory proposes that extrinsic motivation can be internalized by the individual if the task fits with their values and beliefs and therefore helps to fulfill their basic psychological needs.

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motivation#Intrinsic_and_extrinsic_motivation

So, when you said:

Another example is someone who disregards other people's rights, values, and privacy for his own selfish reasons.. I guess that would be narcissism too?

Extrinsic: not essential or inherent - not a basic part or quality...

I agree with you about the personality classification. :)


Now, let us look at intrinsic motivations. "Belonging to a thing by its very nature: the intrinsic value of a gold ring."

The "gold ring" could represent a fetish or kink. However, that "golden ring" may never be requested extrinsically in the outside world, so some individuals will stick with(or, maintain) their intrinsic motivations(For example, watch porn "endlessly"; but, I am pretty sure some people have lives below the level 2 or 3 sex addict) . When they stick with this motivation, perhaps they will devolve extrinsically amongst others if they were not so intrinsic.


Thank you, shygirl08!

This is a fun discussion! :D For me at least...
 
Extrinsic stimuli of abuse when you're a child, I would argue can become an intrinsic issue in the future as your brain is still developing.

This is true to a point, but abuse can happen at any age though. There are so many variables that needs to be equated when it comes to quantitative(age) reasoning, such as qualitative analysis. You have to look at balances: independency versus dependency, resiliency, recover, etc... Qualitative analysis - can lead to a better signal of psychological stability.

Sorry, I was so tired when I called your post a non sequitur, and should have done my rebuttals in the beginning. :(
 
Unbelievable! This must be the most philosphic thread in the whole forum!
 
Sorry, I should have given a more detailed rebuttal.

Indeed; although I'm still waiting for one. You've only validated my point further, as if it needed to be. ;)


I'll skip over quoting your quotes from Wikipedia; they say the same thing as the definitions I posted from dictionary.com. I think that's basic information.. intrinsic and extrinsic motivations. However, intrinsic and extrinsic motivations don't make up something called an 'extrrinsic individual.' I hope you can understand that.. as these terms seem incredibly elementary.


So, when you said:

Another example is someone who disregards other people's rights, values, and privacy for his own selfish reasons.. I guess that would be narcissism too?

Extrinsic: not essential or inherent - not a basic part or quality...

I agree with you about the personality classification. :)

I'm having hard time following your "logic." My examples were revolving around the concepts of morality, and the ability to change both intrinsic qualities, of which narcissism could potentially be due to a whole number of possibilities, and extrinsic influences that either perpetuate or condone the unhealthy behavior, thus reinforcing the perp's desire to numb out his conscience as I stated earlier:

One example to illustrate my point is someone who either intrinsically, and/or a combination of extrinsic factors, has a propensity towards narcissism can still choose their behavior! They may or may not CHOOSE to WILL that behavior to be more empathic and less self-centered, but the option is there for them.

Now, let us look at intrinsic motivations. "Belonging to a thing by its very nature: the intrinsic value of a gold ring."

The "gold ring" could represent a fetish or kink. However, that "golden ring" may never be requested extrinsically in the outside world, so some individuals will stick with(or, maintain) their intrinsic motivations.

You started on a good foot..

(For example, watch porn "endlessly"; but, I am pretty sure some people have lives below the level 2 or 3 sex addict) .

..and flopped in your example. Pornography is not, nor ever could be in itself an intrinsic desire without extrinsic input! Unless the subject is interested in looking at himself naked, but if we're going to dignify that, it would be both intrinsic and extrinsic. The intrinsic propesity towards sexual desire is in MOST people, and for others it's conceivable that it's possible there could biologically be an intrinsic propensity towards sexual addiction.

When they stick with this motivation, perhaps they will devolve extrinsically amongst others if they were not so intrinsic.

devolve extrinsically amongst others if they were not so intrinsic..? First of all this makes -no- rational sense. Do you want to try to reword your thoughts there?

In whatever case you meant that, you're still speaking as if there's such a thing as an 'extrinsic individual.' There's no such thing. *I* am an extrinsic individual from say you (even if parasitic tendencies confuse some people on that matter :D ). But YOU can't be an extrinsic individual to YOU. Talk about non sequitur! LOL



Thank you, shygirl08!

This is a fun discussion! :D For me at least...
Oh, I'm sure it is fun for you to try to sort out what you're trying to say and stroke your ego with big words thinking you're actually saying something of substance. For me, it's fun, to a point, to correct someone's thinking. But once you get to this point, it's just another ploy for attention. It's not motivating to continue the "discussion" when your thoughts are either impertinant, or redundant of what I've said, and that you also call validating my point a rebuttle. ;) Lay of the Jägermeister if you want to attempt a decent discussion.


This is true to a point, but abuse can happen at any age though. There are so many variables that needs to be equated when it comes to quantitative(age) reasoning, such as qualitative analysis. You have to look at balances: independency versus dependency, resiliency, recover, etc... Qualitative analysis - can lead to a better signal of psychological stability.

Sure. Absolutely. Things are embedded quite differently in a child versus an adult in abusive situations, however. While the brain is plastic, starting out fresh and not knowing differently shapes a brain in a way no other period of life can compare. Having said that, it wasn't my point to distinguish or decipher the MANY variables. I was simply stating that extrinsic abuse as a child can arguably become intrinsic.

Sorry, I was so tired when I called your post a non sequitur, and should have done my rebuttals in the beginning. :(
:)

No need to apologize. I think you need to catch up on your zzzs before you continue on (that is, if you have anything further you want to say). But I can appreciate that this makes you feel like you're talking up some really interesting and "deep" points, so go ahead and continue if you wish. But this has definitely become non sequitur and is quite boring to me at this point.

Unbelievable! This must be the most philosphic thread in the whole forum!

Well, that's not saying much for this forum. ;)
 
Unbelievable is that many threads here deserve philosophic posts, and instead they receive hypocrite hostile moralist posts.

:D Agreed! Moralist posts from people who claim they have NO morals and are proud of it. Hostile, too.. that is, until they get a small taste of the massive amounts they dish. Hypocritical indeed!

Your projection makes my job way too easy. *yawn*
 
:D Agreed! Moralist posts from people who claim they have NO morals and are proud of it. Hostile, too.. that is, until they get a small taste of the massive amounts they dish. Hypocritical indeed!

Your projection makes my job way too easy. *yawn*

At what fucking point was I being hostile? My arguments were based upon extrinsic valuations are not always a causation of intrinsic valuations. I also think you are also confusing immoralism against amoralism.
 
Last edited:
Who is being hostile? Who gives a shit about somebody else's demagoguery?
Certainly I am not talking about you (unless you think I am), and this is directed to many many other posters at other threads, that almost think every sexual though is a crime.
 
Door 44 Productions
What's New

5/19/2024
There will be Tivia in our Chat Room this Sunday evening at 11PM EDT! Join us!
Tickle Experiment
Door 44
NEST 2024
Register here
The world's largest online clip store
Live Camgirls!
Live Camgirls
Streaming Videos
Pic of the Week
Pic of the Week
Congratulations to
*** brad1701 ***
The winner of our weekly Trivia, held every Sunday night at 11PM EST in our Chat Room
Back
Top