dancingfreak
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So tonight as I was trying to lay down at 1AM after working Labor Day in the Emergency Department, my wife wakes up and starts having a breakdown in regards to me tickling her. She tells me that she hates it, gets anxiety over it when we are having sex, and has horrible nightmares about me tickling her. I told her that if it’s really bothering her that bad then I’ll stop and we’ll just figure it out. She offered to tickle me more but I said that I really preferred to tickle her. She got really upset and stated that I just loved something that forced her body against her will. I again stated that I wouldn’t tickle her if it caused her these problems.
Now for a little backstory. We’ve been together 11 years, married for 9 and have 2 kids under 5 in that timeframe. I’ve had a primarily foot tickling kink since at least 6th grade (over 20 years) and the most severe I’ve ever tickled her is holding her legs for no more than 15 seconds while tickling her feet. She never allowed me to tie her up with any sort of bondage or use anything other then my fingers to tickle her. Finally, when I quickly run a finger down her foot or goose her sides it’s been my way of showing her affection.
I guess my question is has anyone else ever dealt with this? If so, how did you resolve this or how did this impact your relationship? I’m not a monster so I’m going try my best to refrain from tickling her, but these are urges I’ve had for over half my life. I’m also hesitant to talk about it with others here as there really isn’t any tickling scene in Maine and the local fetish/kink scene is very anti-foot and anti-tickling. I’ve been a lurker in this forum since it’s creation so I’m hoping I can get some advice from anyone that’s had this type of experience.
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Now for a little backstory. We’ve been together 11 years, married for 9 and have 2 kids under 5 in that timeframe. I’ve had a primarily foot tickling kink since at least 6th grade (over 20 years) and the most severe I’ve ever tickled her is holding her legs for no more than 15 seconds while tickling her feet. She never allowed me to tie her up with any sort of bondage or use anything other then my fingers to tickle her. Finally, when I quickly run a finger down her foot or goose her sides it’s been my way of showing her affection.
I guess my question is has anyone else ever dealt with this? If so, how did you resolve this or how did this impact your relationship? I’m not a monster so I’m going try my best to refrain from tickling her, but these are urges I’ve had for over half my life. I’m also hesitant to talk about it with others here as there really isn’t any tickling scene in Maine and the local fetish/kink scene is very anti-foot and anti-tickling. I’ve been a lurker in this forum since it’s creation so I’m hoping I can get some advice from anyone that’s had this type of experience.
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