ChicagoDavid
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Hey! So, first I have to echo, that these amazing stories. In part because of the substance, but Wade, you're a gifted writer.
As for the real life situation, I think Sarah's therapist is not only incompetent, she is downright dangerous. The kind of person who tells the rape victim that it's partly your fault. ("Tell me about your efforts to end the rape.") Relatedly, it sounds like a complicated dynamic for Wade. The fantasy of being tickled so much that you hate it during the moment but later think of it or even fantasize about it. Having said all that, Wade, I hope you realize that if you want, you have the option to tell Sarah that this is not acceptable to you, and simultaneously telling your wife that Sarah has been doing this, you were embarrassed to tell her, but you've told Sarah that enough is enough and it is unacceptable to you.
As for the real life situation, I think Sarah's therapist is not only incompetent, she is downright dangerous. The kind of person who tells the rape victim that it's partly your fault. ("Tell me about your efforts to end the rape.") Relatedly, it sounds like a complicated dynamic for Wade. The fantasy of being tickled so much that you hate it during the moment but later think of it or even fantasize about it. Having said all that, Wade, I hope you realize that if you want, you have the option to tell Sarah that this is not acceptable to you, and simultaneously telling your wife that Sarah has been doing this, you were embarrassed to tell her, but you've told Sarah that enough is enough and it is unacceptable to you.