The TMF is loaded with accounts of lee's and ler's in search of their complimentary partners, be it for fun or more. The problem is that this issue bothers many people but is not talked about directly.
For example, we have members who have met and hit it so far off the bat that not only are they fulfilled emotionally and sexually, but also TICKLINGLY as well. Take TummyDragon and ForeverRio, or Mimi and Lazarus...most of us can only dream of the kind of tickling debauchery that goes on behind the closed doors of these guys' homes. And best of all, in their cases, there's practically no pressure to perform because the interest on both sides is equal if not greater.
On the other hand, there are SCORES of people with the memory of having their spouse/GF walk out upon learning of their partner having a tickling fetish. Most of these unfortunate souls could probably convince their partner to hide a body or indulge in sexual acts like an "Alabama Crag Dangle", but mention the desire to tickle them, and they get the high steppin'; and people actually wonder why most of us don't mention our fetish up front to a prospective partner. The consensus viewpoint seems to say "Oh, you don't know how they're going to react until you tell them, and honesty is what a relationship needs!" when the experiences of many prove that outlook to be seriously flawed.
So, some people meet up and hit it off, but most of us gotta make it on our own in the mainstream world. But success stories have happened, and the successes and the failures both might help others gain guidance for finding their match in the world.
So, for everyone who has had a successful linkage and/or marriage with a(nother) ticklephile, or successfully integrated tickling into their relationship, write out how you met and how you handled the situation...as well as what factors you think helped in making it happen and work.
And, for everyone who has had a DISASTROUS attempt at integrating a relationship and tickling, whether divorce or just plain breakup, write out what happened and why...your pain may be a tool that can help someone else.
The ball is in your court people...help one another out!
For example, we have members who have met and hit it so far off the bat that not only are they fulfilled emotionally and sexually, but also TICKLINGLY as well. Take TummyDragon and ForeverRio, or Mimi and Lazarus...most of us can only dream of the kind of tickling debauchery that goes on behind the closed doors of these guys' homes. And best of all, in their cases, there's practically no pressure to perform because the interest on both sides is equal if not greater.
On the other hand, there are SCORES of people with the memory of having their spouse/GF walk out upon learning of their partner having a tickling fetish. Most of these unfortunate souls could probably convince their partner to hide a body or indulge in sexual acts like an "Alabama Crag Dangle", but mention the desire to tickle them, and they get the high steppin'; and people actually wonder why most of us don't mention our fetish up front to a prospective partner. The consensus viewpoint seems to say "Oh, you don't know how they're going to react until you tell them, and honesty is what a relationship needs!" when the experiences of many prove that outlook to be seriously flawed.
So, some people meet up and hit it off, but most of us gotta make it on our own in the mainstream world. But success stories have happened, and the successes and the failures both might help others gain guidance for finding their match in the world.
So, for everyone who has had a successful linkage and/or marriage with a(nother) ticklephile, or successfully integrated tickling into their relationship, write out how you met and how you handled the situation...as well as what factors you think helped in making it happen and work.
And, for everyone who has had a DISASTROUS attempt at integrating a relationship and tickling, whether divorce or just plain breakup, write out what happened and why...your pain may be a tool that can help someone else.
The ball is in your court people...help one another out!