Tickle fetish is like using heroin?

[stockytickler]

Not tickling, no, but if part of drug abuse can be characterized as losing huge chunks of unrecoverable time, then reading this thread probably qualifies ... :\

 

[Grim Reaper]

Wow...and all that after four months? Where have you been, some sort of clinic?

No I've Been On Holidays Actually. This Site Is Work, Very Hard Work To Be Precise. Deconstructing People's Mindless Reliance On Tickling As A Form Of Escapism From Their Own Life Problems Is Incredibly Tiresome.

;-)

 

[rhiannon]

Deconstructing People's Mindless Reliance On Tickling As A Form Of Escapism From Their Own Life Problems Is Incredibly Tiresome.

I highly doubt there are too many people on this site whose relationship with tickling is like that.

 

[Grim Reaper]

I highly doubt there are too many people on this site whose relationship with tickling is like that.

Then Perhaps You Will Be As Kind As To Explain Why So Many People On This Website Whom I Have Observed Come On Here And Admit They Cannot Have A Proper Intimate Relationship With A Member Of The Opposite Sex Due To Their Fetish Which They Don't Understand Why They Have In The First Place, But Are Indeed Driven Purely By Sexual Impulse?

 

[rhiannon]

Because a fetish can indeed be pathological, and if it is that way and the person suffers, they should find a therapist to help them. It can be like that with any kind of sex. From what I read on here though I am pretty sure that the vast majority doesn't need tickling included in their sex life to actually have a fulfilling sex life. Tickling for them is more like icing on the cake.

 

[Grim Reaper]

Because a fetish can indeed be pathological, and if it is that way and the person suffers, they should find a therapist to help them. It can be like that with any kind of sex. From what I read on here though I am pretty sure that the vast majority doesn't need tickling included in their sex life to actually have a fulfilling sex life. Tickling for them is more like icing on the cake.

You Did Not Read Properly What I Wrote Did You? I Said Nothing About Sex Life, I Spoke Of Intimate Relationships, Which Are In Themselves Entirely Different From Sexual Relationships Based Upon Mutual Lust. Indeed Your Response Here Further Cements My Point That Fetishes Of Any Kind Are Based Purely Upon Carnal Sexual Desire, And Devoid Of Pure Love.

By The Way, I Am Curious, You Have A Name Like Rhiannon, Yet Your Location Says Germany. Are You German?

 

[rhiannon]

In a healthy intimate relationhip, a happy sex life is important, so one clearly doesn't rule out the other. Sure, there are intimate relationships in which sex doesn't play a big role, but I would say that those are very rare, especially in the beginning of a relationship.

Yes, I am German.

 

[iloveddub]

Then Perhaps You Will Be As Kind As To Explain Why So Many People On This Website Whom I Have Observed Come On Here And Admit They Cannot Have A Proper Intimate Relationship With A Member Of The Opposite Sex Due To Their Fetish Which They Don't Understand Why They Have In The First Place, But Are Indeed Driven Purely By Sexual Impulse?

I will address this, because, that's me, and I don't see the problem. Yes, I NEED tickling for sex. Yes, I'm divorcing over that...and more. Does that make me a monster? Or an addict? I was made this way, and I don't waste time wondering why. Do I understand the fetish? Not always. But, I know who I am, and what I want. Maybe you need to look at yourself, and ask, why do I want to "save" people from a fetish they don't have a problem with. Is it a drug? Yes. A drug our bodies produce naturally. We are no different than adrenaline junkies. Am I sexual? Very. Do I want counseling? No. I like it. So, unless you have something brilliant to add, why don't you learn proper sentence structure? *end rant*

 

[Grim Reaper]

In a healthy intimate relationhip, a happy sex life is important, so one clearly doesn't rule out the other. Sure, there are intimate relationships in which sex doesn't play a big role, but I would say that those are very rare, especially in the beginning of a relationship.

Yes, I am German.

Rhiannon Is Not A German Name...?

An Intimate Relationship Is Based First And Foremost Upon Both The Male And The Female Loving And Respecting Equally The Inner Child Within One Another. Sexual Energy Is The Creational Force Of The Universe And Is Not Meant To Come Into Things Until Both People Know Each Other Very Well. All Fetishes Serve To Do Is To Distort One's Perception Of An Intimate Relationship And Put Out Of Balance The Natural Ebb And Flow Of Love.

This Website Only Serves To Harbor An Unnatural And Unhealthy Lust And Desire For Feet And Tickling. Sure Feet Are Very Beautiful And Intimate, As Is Tickling, However People Become Fixated And Indeed They Become Slaves To Their Own Desire. All This Does In The End Is Create People Who Are Trapped Within Their Own Minds, Unable To Have A Natural Intimate Relationship With Another Because They Are Too Fixated Upon One Fetish Which They Do Not Fully Understand Why They Have To Begin With.

 

[Grim Reaper]

I will address this, because, that's me, and I don't see the problem. Yes, I NEED tickling for sex. Yes, I'm divorcing over that...and more. Does that make me a monster? Or an addict? I was made this way, and I don't waste time wondering why. Do I understand the fetish? Not always. But, I know who I am, and what I want. Maybe you need to look at yourself, and ask, why do I want to "save" people from a fetish they don't have a problem with. Is it a drug? Yes. A drug our bodies produce naturally. We are no different than adrenaline junkies. Am I sexual? Very. Do I want counseling? No. I like it. So, unless you have something brilliant to add, why don't you learn proper sentence structure? *end rant*

Your Tone Of Voice Indicates That You Are Indeed Frustrated Within Yourself As To Why You Have This Fetish And You Radiate This Anger And Frustration Outwards In Your Sarcastic, Patronizing Tone You Take With Other People, Ie: Me. I Don't Wish To Save Anyone, That Is For Each Individual To Choose To Do For Themselves. All My Purpose Here Is To Provoke Thoughts And Questions Within People, So That They May Take A Look At Themselves And If They Wish To Listen Share My Evolutionary Theories.

Being "Sexual" As You Put It, Is Not The Signs Of A Normal Society, Which Indeed American Society Is Certainly Not. In For Example, Nazi Germany And The Soviet Union, The Rampant Sexed Up Society Which We See In West Did Not Exist. There Were No Strip-Clubs, No Brothels, And No Pornography. Why? Because Such Societies Were Disciplined And The People Worked For Themselves And Their Greater Communities, Jointly Creating Great Things Which They Wished For Their Families.

Let Me Ask You This, Do You Create Your Own Society? Or Are You Merely A Slave Trapped In A System Of Sex, Smut And Cheap Entertainment Where Capitalist Elements Create Your Society For You?

 

[rhiannon]

Rhiannon Is Not A German Name...?

So, your name is "Grim Reaper", then?

Sexual Energy Is The Creational Force Of The Universe And Is Not Meant To Come Into Things Until Both People Know Each Other Very Well.

Says who?

Unable To Have A Natural Intimate Relationship With Another

How is a "natural intimate relationship" defined in your opinion?

They Are Too Fixated Upon One Fetish

I agree that it is a problem when people get too fixated on fetish, so bad that another human being only is a pair of feet with a body attached to it. But I really don't think that most of the people on here have that problem. Thinking about it, I can only think of one person who in my opinion is either a troll or a sociopath.

The vast majority on here enjoys tickling, but can live without it.

 

[Grim Reaper]

"So, your name is "Grim Reaper", then?"

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For The Purpose I Serve Here, That Is The Title I Don.


"Says who?"

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Says A Majority Of The World's Spiritual Leaders And The Texts They Have Written And Handed Down Throughout Recorded History.



"How is a "natural intimate relationship" defined in your opinion?"

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If You Bothered To Read My Post, Instead Of Simply Jumping To Try And Insult Me Then You Would See My Opinion On The Subject, Furthermore, If You Bothered To Also Digest It, You Would Understand It. ;-)



"I agree that it is a problem when people get too fixated on fetish, so bad that another human being only is a pair of feet with a body attached to it. But I really don't think that most of the people on here have that problem. Thinking about it, I can only think of one person who in my opinion is either a troll or a sociopath.

The vast majority on here enjoys tickling, but can live without it."

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I Disagree. My Observation Of This Site Has Indeed Shown That Multiple People Are Coming Out And Openly Questioning Why They Have This Fetish And Have Expressed Their Difficulties In Maintaining Normal Intimate Relationships. Read iloveddub's Post For A Start.

You Putting Pictures Of Your Feet Up Only Serves To Confirm And Fuel Your Own Notion Of The Human Being Being A Body With A Pair Of Feet Attached To It. You're Not Exactly Contributing To The Betterment Of Society Are You? On The Contrary, By Engaging In These Kinds Of Attention-Seeking Behaviors, Designed Only To Fuel Your Own Sense Of Egotistical Nourishment, You Are Only Working To Further Damage People.

Perhaps You Should Read Properly What I Say, And Choose To Listen If You Actually Care About Society As A Whole And Not Just Pretend To.

 

[jhop220]

Well....

Alright, I will try and respond to you Mr. Reaper.

Let me take one quote here:

Let Me Clarify What I Mean When I Refer To Mind Control. This Forum Delves Heavily Into The Lifestyle Of BDSM, But Substitutes Pain For Tickling, Which By The Way Is An Ancient Form Of Chinese Torture, Used Because It Leaves No Physical Marks On The Victim. What It Does Do However, Is Allow Another Person To Enter The Minds/Emotions Of The Victim, And Thus Such A Form Of Torture Can Have The Effect Of Controlling And Scrambling Their Thinking, Rendering Them Disorientated And Open To Accepting Others Opinions Without Rational Thought Process. In Using These Arts, Weak Minds Can And Have Been Molded Into Thinking Whatever The Perceived Master Wants Them To Think, Hence Why It Is A Form Of Thought/Mind Control.

This forum overlaps different areas. There is a BDSM aspect of it, but that doesn't mean it is fully into it. Disorientation can happen in these scenarios. More often than not....this is a production of fantasy. What does that mean? While the "victim" (as you put it) is controlled (to an extent) there is always a fine line in there. The victim may look like he/she doesn't have control, but they do. They have what we call a "safeword" which will mean the fantasy is over and we return to the sense of normalcy.

Where I think you are very misinformed is this idea that the fetish controls thoughts and rationality. In some cases, that is very true. However, you are painting with a broad brush and generalizing everyone in that category.

I, for one, have a rational mind. I share this fetish with everyone here, but it does not control me. You see...people have rational minds here. A lot of us understand the fetish is part of our lives, but not the controlling entity of them.

Bettering society is something all of us want to achieve. However, you have to understand that this world isn't vanilla. The concept of normal is a fallacy as we all are different individuals.

As far as relationships go...I always tell people that you have to build it on a foundation of trust and respect or you are only building a house of cards. People post their difficulties because the seek advice from those of us who are able to give it to them. We share a commonality that allows us to speak candidly to one another without the worry of being ostracized.

We are here to indulge in our sexual desires. We are also here to help one another in this community. Society, as you see it, isn't necessarily the same as someone else sees it.

You got to look further within to understand. You cannot generalize or you perpetuate the myth that you speak. We are individuals. We are not all the same. Understand that.

Society has its taboos. Claiming that these taboos endanger society is a faux pas. We have always been a part of the society. Some of us are truck drivers, office workers, nurses, military personnel, neighbors, fathers, sons, daughters, mothers....we have always been part of society.

I am here to proudly say that YES I like tickling. It is my cup of tea. Everyone has one. This world is made up of a lot of different things...understanding it maybe difficult. Do not sit there and claim we are a burden on society or make it worse!

You are no better than any of us. Matter of fact, there are a lot of great people here....it is a pity you can't see that.

 

[rhiannon]

For The Purpose I Serve Here, That Is The Title I Don.

So what makes you think the title I chose was my real name?

But you know what? After I just read this:

In For Example, Nazi Germany And The Soviet Union, The Rampant Sexed Up Society Which We See In West Did Not Exist. There Were No Strip-Clubs, No Brothels, And No Pornography. Why? Because Such Societies Were Disciplined And The People Worked For Themselves And Their Greater Communities, Jointly Creating Great Things Which They Wished For Their Families.

I don't think there is a lot of sense actually discussing with you. Just look at the whole picture what these disciplined and oh so caring societies actually did to the people and then ask yourself why these disciplined societies do not exist anymore.

And by the way, your are misinformed! Nazi Germany DID have brothels! They even forced women to work there at concentration camps. Oh my God, how much these people cared about making society better!

 

[iloveddub]

I Disagree. My Observation Of This Site Has Indeed Shown That Multiple People Are Coming Out And Openly Questioning Why They Have This Fetish And Have Expressed Their Difficulties In Maintaining Normal Intimate Relationships. Read iloveddub's Post For A Start.

You Putting Pictures Of Your Feet Up Only Serves To Confirm And Fuel Your Own Notion Of The Human Being Being A Body With A Pair Of Feet Attached To It. You're Not Exactly Contributing To The Betterment Of Society Are You? On The Contrary, By Engaging In These Kinds Of Attention-Seeking Behaviors, Designed Only To Fuel Your Own Sense Of Egotistical Nourishment, You Are Only Working To Further Damage People.

Perhaps You Should Read Properly What I Say, And Choose To Listen If You Actually Care About Society As A Whole And Not Just Pretend To.

Ok...now I'm mad. Any pictures displayed are by choice. They are not breasts, they are feet. I like posting for and playing with the boys on this forum.
Betterment of society? We are a group of people who can (for the most part) understand each other. Feet are not parts with a body attached. They are a person. So, you don't see any part if the body sexually? Are you a monk? This is where Bible thumpers go wrong. They judge and preach, but show no compassion, and have not dealt with their own issues, before addressing others.
I am sarcastic, and dominant, and bold. This is not a sin. It's character. If you don't like the pictures, why are you looking?
I have come to a point in my life, where I'm going to be happy, and fill my needs. If people like you don't like it...move to Russia. They're stricter there. You wont have to put up with people who live as they choose, because we have the freedom to do so.

 

[rhiannon]

If people like you don't like it...move to Russia. They're stricter there.

Stricter? In Russia? About what? What kind of Russia are you talking about?

 

[iloveddub]

Stricter? In Russia? About what? What kind of Russia are you talking about?

Apparently, according to the nut job, we're not allowed to tie each other up in Russia. We have to "behave".
Also according to him-it, BDSM with tickling is torture. Not if you volunteer. Sex not wanted is rape. Sex mutually wanted is intimacy. BDSM...same gig.

 

[rhiannon]

Don't even listen to him...he has the nerve to call Nazi Germany a disciplined society who was worried about society as a whole! He must have been hiding under a rock all his life!

 

[stockytickler]

My favorite part is where this person who's never met me weighs in on the quality of my relationship. Charming.

 

[iloveddub]

Don't even listen to him...he has the nerve to call Nazi Germany a disciplined society who was worried about society as a whole! He must have been hiding under a rock all his life!

I'm just giving him options, as to where he can go. My choice is hot, with a red man carrying a fork.

 

[Grim Reaper]

"Ok...now I'm mad. Any pictures displayed are by choice. They are not breasts, they are feet. I like posting for and playing with the boys on this forum."

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You Are Correct In Stating The Obvious That Feet Are Not Breasts. However, As The Whole Nature Of The Foot-Fetish Goes, Showing Your Feet To A Hornet's Nest Of People Who Have A Foot Fetish Is In Effect No Different To Cheap Strippers Showing Their Breasts To People Considered Normal Within The Greater Society.



"Betterment of society? We are a group of people who can (for the most part) understand each other."

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Do You? Let Me Remind You Of Your Very Own Quote: "Yes, I NEED tickling for sex. Yes, I'm divorcing over that...and more. Does that make me a monster? Or an addict? I was made this way, and I don't waste time wondering why. Do I understand the fetish? Not always."



"I am sarcastic, and dominant, and bold. This is not a sin. It's character."

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No. You Are An Insecure Child Trapped Inside Of A Woman's Body Who Has Not Yet Dealt With Your Own Deep-Seated Feelings Of Vulnerability, Hence Why You Feel The Need To Put Out A Facade Of Dominance And Sarcasm, In Order To Continue To Deflect Not Only Other People, But Also Yourself From The Pain You Carry Within. Unfortunately, Because Of This, You Draw Off The Energy Of Other People On This Site Who Also Have Issues In Their Life, And Hence You Damage Them In The Process Of Deflecting Attention Away From Your Own Inner Pain.

To Drive My Point Home, Do You Really Think A Normal Guy Likes To Be Dominated And Feel Humiliated Under A Woman's Feet?
Do You Think That A Normal Guy Would Look Twice At You If You Tried Pulling Your Domineering Nonsense On Him?
I Will Tell You Now, He Would Not, Hence Why The Only People Who Fall For That Nonsense Are Men With Problems Of Their Own. The Old Saying Rings True Once Again, "Misery Loves Company". ;-)
Indeed Do You Ever Wonder Why A Heavy Majority Of Society Out There View The Types Of People On This Site As People With Problems?

The Amusing Thing Is, That You All Seem To Have Deluded Yourselves Into Thinking That You Understand Each Other, When Nothing Could Be Further From The Truth. In Reality, You Band Together Here To Create A Melting Pot Of People With Problems Tickling And Touching Each Other's Feet And Playing Quaint Little Master/Slave Games.

When A Normal Person Steps Back And Takes A Look This Site And Sees That, No Wonder They See A Bunch Of Weirdos.

 

[Grim Reaper]

My favorite part is where this person who's never met me weighs in on the quality of my relationship. Charming.

Er,..., Sorry To Disappoint, But I Have Never Mentioned Your Name.

Who Are You Again?

 

[stockytickler]

A person posting on this forum, so you in fact have made reference to me. And painted with a broad brush the nature of my social interaction, including the nature of my intimate relations, along with everyone else here. I'm glad I don't have your nerve in my tooth.

But do go on. I notice where you seem to characterize yourself as a normal person, who looks at this site and sees a bunch of weirdos. So what's the goal here: Letting us know how weird we are? Healing, solving or saving us? Why would you engage with a bunch of weirdos? Wouldn't any "normal" person just walk away?

 

[Grim Reaper]

Apparently, according to the nut job, we're not allowed to tie each other up in Russia. We have to "behave".
Also according to him-it, BDSM with tickling is torture. Not if you volunteer. Sex not wanted is rape. Sex mutually wanted is intimacy. BDSM...same gig.

Nutjob? How Diplomatic And Polite Of You. Well We Can See Who Has The Problems Here Now Can't We, Not To Mention The Fact That You Cannot Read Properly Enough To Even Interpret Or Even Comprehend In The Manner In Which It Was Spoken A Simple Opinion Voiced By Another Person.

Can I Ask, Who Is The One Getting Divorced Because She Needs Tickling For Sex And Doesn't Understand Why She Has The Fetish Yet Somehow Knows Herself? And You Are Calling Me The Nutjob... Hypocrite Much?

I Must Say iloveddub, You Are A Barrel Of Laughs, Thanks A Bunch For The Entertainment!

;-)

 

[Grim Reaper]

A person posting on this forum, so you in fact have made reference to me. And painted with a broad brush the nature of my social interaction, including the nature of my intimate relations, along with everyone else here. I'm glad I don't have your nerve in my tooth.

But do go on. I notice where you seem to characterize yourself as a normal person, who looks at this site and sees a bunch of weirdos. So what's the goal here: Letting us know how weird we are? Healing, solving or saving us? Why would you engage with a bunch of weirdos? Wouldn't any "normal" person just walk away?

I Have Never Mentioned Your Name, So I Have Indeed Not Made Any Reference To You. Sorry To Disappoint. ;-)

I'm Actually Here To Hone My Skills In Psychology And Treat Myself To A Bit Of Entertainment In The Process.