This is why I never answer personal ads. It's always a dude, or a dude catfishing. Any woman, especially if she's attractive would have no trouble finding a guy to tickle her. So she'd have no reason to use the personal section. Maybe if she was a ler, but even then she could probably find a playmate on her own.
I used the personals section like 12-13 years ago. I know at least another that's recently used the personals (though she probably abandoned it after getting a bunch of weird responses).
It might happen a lot, but it sucks when you are actually an honest person and people think you're something else haha
In this case, just search the forum for the OP's screen name and you find your answers lol