Tickle workshop ideas

[com_tklr]

Someone had recently approached me to do a tickling workshop at a local kink event. My question is... if you were to attend a tickling workshop, what would you want to see?

 

[com_tklr]

Current ideas I have are about different tools to use, how to restrain using simple restraints (like cuffs or ropes), and negotiating a scene.

 

[aberdeen]

I would say also the best education you can give is in the area of 'tickle talk'---that talking while youre retraining your Lee...describing their ticklish areas, what's gonna happen to them...not neccedarily with the cartoonish over exaggerated ways..just simple, torturous comments about the relentless torments they are about to receive and how they're gonna react to it...goes a long way to increase their ticklishness even before you've touched them..and most ppl dont realize the significance...

 

[com_tklr]

I would say also the best education you can give is in the area of 'tickle talk'---that talking while youre retraining your Lee...describing their ticklish areas, what's gonna happen to them...not neccedarily with the cartoonish over exaggerated ways..just simple, torturous comments about the relentless torments they are about to receive and how they're gonna react to it...goes a long way to increase their ticklishness even before you've touched them..and most ppl dont realize the significance...

That's true. It'll be funny too, if I do a demo describing what that looks like as it happens.

 

[aberdeen]

That would be the BEST! I mean, most of us haven't routinely filmed our tickling sessions, just enjoy them as they happen or have happened....
But every true tickle fixationist KNOWS how important the tickle talk is at getting your Lee all 'primed' for tickling action...I've said this before, but I'll repeat...I online chat w a woman who's been tickled by a really good tickler...and the 'mechanics' were all good...but I asked about tickle talk..she said he was silent...and then asked me how I would have been different...so I gave her some phrases I'd say at what points in her tickling, both before , during and after...and she was just in shock..and said about my phrases. "wow, that would have REALLY sent me through the roof with ticklishness! etc etc...so now I have a 'date' if I'm ever available and travel to her country! room and board for a week of platonic tickle play and tickle talk....
BUT...your idea is great! a video would work wonders to add to ticklers' effectiveness ....
and I believe a tickler should always develop a 'victory call' something that you say when you AND the lee knows you've found a really good hot spot of theirs...Mine is "THERE you go!" copyrights. when I get a really good spot, I say There you go! and the LEE knows I found a spot, and that I'm not leaving it for awhile....
your victory call could be any phrase yu want....but it just a nice triggering signal between the LER and LEE.....

 

[TwistedPapa]

Great idea, with a great challenge to it!

@com_tklr please let us know how to turns out!

@aberdeen you a hitting all the nails on the head! Tickle talk before can get them giggling and anticipating what might happen, even if you do something opposite of what you talked about.

 

[aberdeen]

Just another random thought about workshop ideas....
Demonstration of the 'nomming' technique (versus 'raspberries' )
and yu prob thought of this..but before and after the application of coconut oil to the spot being tickled...esp feet or tummy ---to really illustrate the difference in ticklishness once you eliminate friction from the equation.

 

[com_tklr]

@TwistedPapa I certainly will!

@aberdeen you have a fantastic, devilish brain!

 

[aberdeen]

I think tickling workshops could be a trendsetter..A lot of ppl who tickle jsut dont take the time to experiment, or to read or chat with others who have the knowledge and talent for great tickling! There is a tickle therapy / spa place I've read about that does single or couples' instruction...and it can range from gentle , what I call stress relieving tickles (some people would crave that just like a drink after work......and ranges to full tickle torture if thats the clients desire....
and I think tickle spas are are a great idea...as are tickle partners for hire...(as a last resort for those who cant find a willing tickle play partner...I chat w quite a few who want just a platonic, tickle play partner...usually a LER to satisfy their need/desire for regular tickling ... of course...same probs as with an escort service..except the TPP idea would be devoid of any promises of 'happy endings' etc..but screening the clientele would be the problem and you dont know how some clients would react...But I have had two women that have asked me to look them up when my circumstance allow bec they really really want a trustworthy, respectful tickle play partner...I found there comments and convo very enlightening....could be a good gig...if I had the time.