I hear ya, and agree. It's much more genuine. However I feel most people here don't branch into bdsm, in fact very little bondage too. Nor any sort of reality play scenes that go to any level I would personally call extreme. No disrespect, but the C4S clips you see really can't be called such. They're great! But putting suspension of disbelief aside, it's still play-acting and fantasy. Tickling here is mostly about fantasy from paid models and mostly embellished at times.
If you're seeking deeper and more genuine reactions in sessions as I and others do, this may help; Try the SMTK group on Fetlife. If you're seeking reality play scenes and consensual non-con scenes that include many facets of BDSM and extreme tickling combined, they're the ones who take it to levels that cannot be discussed here.