TMI Tuesday -- 8/30/11 -- Silence. I am watching television.

[CrystalLight]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
10.) What is your deepest regret?

 

[Big_Dogg85]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
Right things

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
I try to be, I'm nowhere close to perfect at all (doesn't exist frankly) but I do my best

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
I'm alive now but passionate and alive...I'm not sure because I've been just going through the work/home/weekend/repeat motions.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
Yep, comes with being a listener.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
My fiance and my friends, hands down. When I say *hugs* to my onliney friends I mean it, as in when I see you BAM! With my fiance...I'm gonna invoke pleading the PG-13.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
For myself, rely on others for help not to direct.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
Yep, lots of halloween costumes. Gotta sell em.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
Do not love them back - usually we wouldn't say anything but if forced to say one or the other, the latter is harder for me.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
My friends

10.) What is your deepest regret?
My motto in life is to live it (make choices, take life paths, etc.) in a manner so that at the end I can honestly tell myself that I have lived my life with as little regret as possible. That being said, the biggest regret I have is being shy and afraid of what other people thought of me for so long instead of being myself. (Something I'm still learning to do)

 

[milagros317]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
Right things.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
Yes, I honestly believe that I have.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
In New Hampshire at the gathering I felt alive, and very happy to be doing what I wanted to do.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
No, never happened, although I am a good listener.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
Besides relatives, I love Goddess Shelly a lot. Yes, I have very openly expressed it both in words and actions.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
I wish I had the power to make all such decisions myself. I make as many as I can.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
Yes, I hold onto too many grudges.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
It would be harder for me to tell somebody that I don't love them back.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
Eating large meals on occasion.

10.) What is your deepest regret?
Not actively seeking a kinky woman to marry in my 30's.

Why is there no bonus question?
Because Jo was too busy answering hundreds of questions in her SSF thread.

 

[Filthyweasel]

You should supply a couch for this one. <3

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
It's a mix. Moment to moment, it doing things right. Cause doing something wrong invites judgement. And if there's one things humans can do well, it's judge each other. Long term though, it's doing the right thing that matters.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
Yes. I can get angry sometimes if my easy going nature is taken advantage of, but I listen, am never malicious, never try to take advantage, will always be there, and nothing - and I mean nothing - is above forgiveness in order to mend a wounded friendship.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
'Lering at a dungeon in Canada. That's all I'm sayin'

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
Not really no. Saying nothing's pretty common with me in social situations, to the point where I tend to beat myself up about it.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
I love everyone, and everything I do is out of love for everyone.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
The first question is what I desire. the second one is what I tend to do out of sheer laziness and general lack of confidence that I need to get over.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
Quite a bit actually. But they're my own problems.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
Both. I'm wary about the first after a few relationships in which I thought I loved the person ended badly. I try not to easily fall in love, rather than wait until it just happens and I can't help it. The latter, well, I hate hurting people...just hate it. And that's the most soul-destroying thing you can tell someone who's already crazy about you.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
Being nice. I think being a bit more of a bastard would really help balance out my personality, and most likely improve my lovelife.

10.) What is your deepest regret?
I think I mentioned this last week. Going to college at 18 soon after coming here. God the fun I could have had instead of being a friendless hermit.

 

[TropicThunder]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Both. Couldn’t pick one more than the other. If I do something wrong, I can go back and fix it. Everyone makes mistakes.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
Hard to say. I try my best to give as much as I get, but lately I’m starting to feel like somewhat of an outsider in my own social circle.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

As long as I have a pulse, I always feel alive. It’s those passionate moments that are rare.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

Yes. I would elaborate, but not much was said.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

I love people in my life, and lots of my actions express it. A kiss, a cuddle, a squeeze, a smile. Love is such a broad spectrum. I love my boyfriend, I love my kid, I love my friends. They’re all a different kind of love though, so I can express my love in so many ways.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

I make my own decisions, because even though someone may make decisions for me, it’s ultimately my choice to accept those or not.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

The past. But who isn’t?

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

The second one. I can tell anyone that I love them, even if it’s only a little bit.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

You have to try doing things before you can give up on them.

10.) What is your deepest regret?

Too personal for this. I miss the fun questions.

 

[Persephone]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

It's always a struggle to do the right thing, but that is what I strive for. In a world that is so chaotic and cold, I try to be kind to others and do the right thing by them.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

I hope I have been. I try and support my friends in all their decisions, even if I wouldn't exactly agree with said decision. Just last night I called my best friend and asked her how her first day back at school was. She said she was really glad I had called and asked her because she needed someone to vent to and said no one else had even bothered to ask her that. I just want someone who I can trust and talk to, and they can do that in return .


3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

Probably my sophomore year of college when I was studying in Florence, Italy, for a semester. I have always had a true passion for Renaissance art and history, so when I got to take classes RIGHT there in the midst of all that, and see the architecture and art that I love so much up close, it was a life changing experience. I felt really alive because I was living in a new culture and it was a wonderful experience. One of the best times of my life.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

Nope. But I hope to experience that one day.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

I love a lot of people in my life, but one person who is just melts my heart is my niece. Just two weeks ago I saw her at my family reunion and spent the entire day swinging with her and helping her down the slide. She loved it. It sounds cheesy, but what really made my day was her just sitting on my lap and sharing a bowl of banana pudding. It was her first time ever eating it (she's 2) and I only get it once a year and I always look forward to it, but I was so happy to share it with her and see how much she enjoyed it. That might be corny, but it is small moments like that I will always remember She is my baby ^.^

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

I am making them for myself, 100%.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

Yes, mostly anger towards certain family members I need to let go of. When you experience so much anger and resentment as a child, it sticks with you and it is very difficult to get over it and move on. You carry it with you like toxic baggage.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

I wouldn't know, because I've never experienced falling in love with someone before.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

The daily struggle of trying to get a good relationship with my father.

10.) What is your deepest regret?

My ex. 100% Hehe.

 

[thetmfobserver]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Hmmm. I'd ideally like to do the right things right, but if I have to choose, I'll pick the right things, and hope I don't screw them up that badly.


2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

Not every day, but on the whole, yes.


3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

The last week has been pretty good for that, actually. Worked through a couple issues I have been struggling with since childhood, and that has made things much happier around my house.


4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

No. I enjoy actual conversing too much. I have had those friends who go beyond words, though.


5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

My family and friends. I've visited many of them in the last few days, and tried to help out post-hurricane, so hopefully that shows my feelings. I haven't written any of them sonnets, though.


6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

I'm always so tempted to attempt to be witty with these answers. Besides the decisions that have nothing to do with me, I am trying to be more decisive in my every day life. It's working out nicely.


7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

Well, I have been holding the same Coke can since July of '03.

Damn, I did it again!

Yes, I think we all have "baggage" we carry around with us. When we drop some, we usually wind up picking up more, though it may be lighter and more fun to lug around.


8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

Not love them, 100%. I have been accused of being very "easy" with my declarations of love.


9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

Marriage comes pretty high on that list.


10.) What is your deepest regret?

Not taking a chance on love when I had it many years ago.

 

[Bothersome]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Doing things right.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

Nope.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

It's been a few years. Probably... 2-3 years ago.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

Probably once or twice.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

Romantic love? Nobody. Platonic/family/friend love? Of course there's my family, but that's about it.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

Making them for myself.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

For once in my life, no.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

The latter.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

Technology. I love that shit.

10.) What is your deepest regret?

Not treating my first girlfriend right.

 

[Gothika]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?doing things right
2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?yuppers
3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?when i was with saeria
4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation

ever?yuppers
5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?saeria,yuppers
6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting

others make them for you?making them for my self
7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?just my pants but i have not belt lol
8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?do not love them
9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?my laptop
10.) What is your deepest regret?not getting out more

 

[chicago]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

-Doing the right things.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

-To the people who were good friends to me, yeah.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

-When I get to spend time with the bambino.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

-Yep.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

-Lots of people. You'd have to ask them if my actions got the message across.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

-Well, I make my own decisions, but I take a lot of people into account when I make them. Sometimes, I may not do what's best for me for fear of how it will affect someone else. Indirectly, I guess you could argue I let other people make my decisions sometimes, but ultimately, I am in control of my own life.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

-This is a repeat.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

-Definitely harder to say you don't love someone. It's never easy to hurt someone's feelings.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

-The idea/hope/wish/fairytale that everything will work out in the end.

10.) What is your deepest regret?

-I've got a few.

 

[Wildtime]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

I think if you're doing things right, it tends to be the right thing.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

Yup, and in certain situations I'm willing to be a friend with benefits.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

I took charge of a code today at the hospital.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

Yes!

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

I'm all out of love, I'm so lost without it...this moment was brought to you by the Air Supply fan club

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

I'm the master of my own destiny!!!

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

My penis

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

I would never prolong a dead relationship...just a waster of time--wild time!!!

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

I've admitted this before, but it doesn't hurt to reaffirm my convictions. I'M HOOKED ON PHONICS!!!

10.) What is your deepest regret?

Drinking and eBay

 

[sheisgone24]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
Doing the right thing.
2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
Not always.
3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
The week of my 40th birthday.
4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
Maybe.
5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
My sister, my folks, my best friend, his kid. Last week, my best friend came over to my house after a long Monday at work, he walked in and flopped down on a chair and just looked so bewildered. I walked over to him, took his scruffy face in my hands and gently kissed his lips and said "I love you ....." He looked at me, maybe a little more confused and said "What was that for??" I laughed and replied "You looked like you needed some reassurance." {giggles}
6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
Oh I have said this two or three times before - Fate and I have this little agreement - I don't have to make a decision, the decision is usually made for me ....
7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
Yes.
8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
That I don't love them .... coz well I think George Sand said it best ... "I am not full of virtues and noble qualities. I love. That is all. But I love strongly, exclusively and steadfastly... "
9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
Oh see that love steadfastly quote up there ....
10.) What is your deepest regret?
Oh you just have to follow the lead of another tragic French dame ... as Edith said "Je ne regrette rein" ......

 

[goddess_nemesis]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Doing things right.​

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

I hope I have been. I always try to be there for my friends, to help if I am able. It's what I expect so it's what I give.​

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

I dunno.​

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

I haven't actually.​

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

My family, my friends. I don't express my love for my loved ones very well. I've never been one to say "I love you" nor have I ever been one to easily hug and cuddle with a person. It's little things like sending someone a birthday card or a Christmas card that shows that I care.​

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

I make them for myself. Others may influence my decisions, but ultimately I'm the decider.​

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

Sort of grudges. They're not really grudges but things I dwell on for long periods of time and I need to learn to let go.​

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

That I do not love them. It would probably hurt them and I hate hurting people.​

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

I dunno.​

10.) What is your deepest regret?

I don't really have regrets. I try not to regret what I have and have not done. There's one thing that I somewhat regret and that is not saying I love you back to my grandpa before he passed away.​

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
Doing the right things. I screw shit up A LOT - but I always have the best intentions. That's gotta count for something.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
I have. I honestly believe that I'm a pretty kick-ass friend.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
I had a consumer at my last job, a sweet woman in her 60s, who would often hear voices, and not be able to use the coping skills she learned from her therapist to deal with them. When this happened she'd come into the staff office to see me, and say, "Lyz, those two men are following me again. I don't know what to do." We'd sit and review her coping skills, and do her affirmations - she was a good person, a good daughter and a good mother. After that I'd put on Elvis and Johnny Cash and we'd sit and listen and let the music drown out the voices. Eventually we'd start to sing along. Sometimes it took five minutes sometimes it took an hour, but she always hugged me and thanked me when we were done. Even if the voices came back the moment she left the office, for a short time I was able to create circumstances under which she didn't have to deal with them at all. I felt amazing on those nights.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
I don't know that I'd say a conversation, exactly, but I've felt like plenty was expressed.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
I love my family. My recent actions with them have mostly been us doing favors for one another. My brother helped me move furniture. I drove him to and from his friend's house. My mama made me dinner. I babysat my niece. That's how we roll.

I also love my friends - and I basically drown them in affection every chance I get. It probably actually makes them fairly uncomfortable. TOO BAD!!!

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
I am definitely making my own decisions. I do not do well with people trying to tell me what to do, directly or subtly -- NOPE!!

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
I don't know that I'd say holding on as much as letting go too slowly. (Wasn't this a recent question? I remember giving that answer before.)

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
Tell someone I love them. I'm not crazy about the idea of falling for someone in the first place -- too much hassle. I usually don't even let my brain present it as an option. If it does happen, however, it would take a world fucking tragedy to get me to talk about it.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
Someone I trust. I don't do it often - trust people that is - but once I do it's so much harder for me to admit to myself that they acted like an asshole to me and need to be shown the bricks

10.) What is your deepest regret?
I try to operate under the assumption that everything happens for a reason. If that's true, having regrets really wouldn't be make sense, because you couldn't change it.

 

[myth77]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Doing things right. That takes care of doing the right thing for the most part.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

Yes. Most of the time.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

Taking photos on a railroad bridge in June on vacation. I was with a couple of photographers on a hunt around the city for some kick-ass shots. We technically weren't supposed to be up there, and a train could've come by anytime...but the rush of standing on the tracks and taking shots, while listening to the river rush below was amazing.


4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

Yeah...maybe a few times.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

I love many people in many different ways. Only some of those I love have I recently expressed it to. There are a few I'd like to say something to, but circumstances don't make that possible to express at the moment.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

I am. Others can only show me insight, and offer wisdom that may help me make the best decisions.
7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

Yes. Aren't most of us? I'm letting it go though...it's just taking me some time to do it.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

Unequivocally the first. I'd explain it, but I think most humans can relate to that fear of letting go of the words "I love you", when there's a possibility they could be left vulnerable if feelings aren't returned.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

I don't want to answer that specifically. I'm coming to terms with giving up on that very thing presently.

10.) What is your deepest regret?

Not regret...there's a handful of things I would've liked to have gone differently. Much differently. I may get sad about those things from time to time, but I don't regret them. There's no point for me to. What's done is done.

 

[CrystalLight]

Re: Recent Questions/"already used".

My brain is an asshole. Work w/me here.

Thx.

 

[Snail Shell]

How in the name of Zeus' holy bunghole do you quote Transmetropolitan in the title and then put fucking Naruto in the pic inside?!

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

As long as I'm right...

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

Nope. I'm an asshole.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

Next...

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

lolwut?

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

GF.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

I'm typically the one expected to make decisions.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

The mouse?

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

The latter.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

My friends. I've only ever had to give up on two people I once called friend; both from this forum actually. 10 points if you can name them!

10.) What is your deepest regret?

I have a feeling my biggest regret will come soon.

SS

 

[CrystalLight]

Fyne.

Quotes and Banners will stay similar.

Feel free to draw me one, then, Mr. Snail Shell. : p

 

[Snail Shell]

I don't mind if they match, but you swapped out Spider Fucking Jerusalem.

I can draw one if you like, but OMG, how much amazing twisted bastard art is there in that book?! http://www.google.com/search?q=spid...&source=og&sa=N&hl=en&tab=wi&biw=1366&bih=664

SS

 

[Korastus]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Doing the right things right.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

Not always. But most of the time, yes.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?

I'd have to say NEST this year. Wasn't a good summer for feeling passionate or alive.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?

Yes, if only rarely.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?

My friends and most of my family. I place much greater value on the happiness of those I love than on my own. I try to express my love whenever I am able, whether it be by spending time with friends and family, seeing a shitty play with my sister, helping my best friends plan their wedding, or being there for a loved one in need. My door has always been open to those I love. Money, space, time, distance, none of it matters if someone I care for needs my help, my advice, my support or simply someone to talk to.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?

Depends on the decision. Small decisions, like what movie to watch or where to go to eat, I don't care either way. But if it's a big decision, while I may seek advice from others, I will be the one making the decision.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?

A lot of foolish daydreams that only bring disappointment. A lot of anger at the world, for all the sufferig I can do nothing to fix. Hurt that will never be resolved, but will continue to drag me down forever if I don't let it go.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

The latter. I have no taste for breaking hearts. It leaves a pit in my stomach, and guilt for hurting someone who cares about me gnaws at me for days.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?

My friends. I'll die before I give up on even one.

10.) What is your deepest regret?

I wish I had lived a life without regret. I wish I had taken all of the chances that shook me into silence. I wish, so many times, that I had spoken up. I wish I hadn't pushed anyone away. I wish I had been more open. I wish I had been more careful. I wish I had been less selfish. I wish I'd checked the window. I wish I hadn't made her hate me.

I can't get rid of my regrets. I can only live, trying not to make any more.

 

[Saeria]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
Doing the right things, I'm always going to screw them up, but as longs as I feel confident I'm doing them for the right reasons I'm a'ight

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
Not lately since school started. I don't get out much these days either, so I'm a bit more absent from my friends than I'd like.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
I always feel half-dead haha but drawing class yesterday was nice. 3 hours being able to ignore pain and stress was nice.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
those are the best kind!
5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
That guy under my bed. Hopefully, but please refer back to #2

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
Right now others make decisions for me. I've long since learned I can't control everything, and sometimes the best a person has is to go with the flow until the time to take back control is appropriate.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
Not so much these days. I set it in my mind (finally) to to let go of certain things, and certain people and with each passing day they come up less and less.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
Both suck, I just prefer the ol' avoidance method

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
Being alive.

10.) What is your deepest regret?
That I can't just pack up and move back home right now. :/

 

[roxita]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
Doing the right things.

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
Yes. I always try to do that, but somehow, the "friends" keep leaving me.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
Never really thought of that. Perhaps when I was thinking about what I'm going to do when I'm finished studying.

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
No.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
I love my family. And I love my Cavum. I try to show my love in every action I do, whether it's going home for dinner, or meet my boyfriend for lunch.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
What..?

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
Yes.

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
The latter.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
My family.

10.) What is your deepest regret?
I try not to regret.

 

[Bohemianne]

1.) Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
More into “accuracy.”

2.) Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
Yes.

3.) At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
Artistically? From age 12 to present...

4.) Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever?
Yes… musical instruments have voice box and ears.

5.) Who do you love? Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love?
My sublime tasks.

6.) Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
Case to case basis.

7.) Are you holding onto something you need to let go of?
Hmmm.....

8.) What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
Not so applicable to me.

9.) What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
The most valuable.

10.) What is your deepest regret?
Some wrong use of time.