I want to hear from the women of the forum about something .
My best friend went out with me tonight for my birthday and was amazed at something. She thought it was unusual that guys in their mid to late 20's are still very attracted to her (She will be 40 in a couple of weeks. There is a friend of hers who is 26, who hung out with us tonight, that was sincerely interested in her). She thought I was not as surprised by such attention because I'm a few years younger. I've told her before, but I said it again. She carries herself different because she is more comfortable with who she is as a grown-a$$ woman, and it shows. I've grown more comfortable with myself as I've entered my 30's, and I can't help but show it when I go out. You don't look for approval the same way, and hopefully you are more accepting of your flaws and wonders . Human beings can't help but want to gravitate towards someone who exudes comfortableness in their own skin. It manifests itself every time we go out, but she is still amazed by it. Admittedly, being on this forum has helped me get more comfortable with myself as a woman, aware of what I want, who I am, etc.
I want to hear from the ladies on the forum. Have you noticed a difference in yourself and your confidence as you've gotten older? Has it affected the kinds of people that are drawn to you?
I've noticed a change since I crossed 30, and it gets better all the time. How about you?
My best friend went out with me tonight for my birthday and was amazed at something. She thought it was unusual that guys in their mid to late 20's are still very attracted to her (She will be 40 in a couple of weeks. There is a friend of hers who is 26, who hung out with us tonight, that was sincerely interested in her). She thought I was not as surprised by such attention because I'm a few years younger. I've told her before, but I said it again. She carries herself different because she is more comfortable with who she is as a grown-a$$ woman, and it shows. I've grown more comfortable with myself as I've entered my 30's, and I can't help but show it when I go out. You don't look for approval the same way, and hopefully you are more accepting of your flaws and wonders . Human beings can't help but want to gravitate towards someone who exudes comfortableness in their own skin. It manifests itself every time we go out, but she is still amazed by it. Admittedly, being on this forum has helped me get more comfortable with myself as a woman, aware of what I want, who I am, etc.
I want to hear from the ladies on the forum. Have you noticed a difference in yourself and your confidence as you've gotten older? Has it affected the kinds of people that are drawn to you?
I've noticed a change since I crossed 30, and it gets better all the time. How about you?