hello again, to be honest, I have been looking at the aspects of my life in which tickling is involved. Sincerely, it has been many things in many life including something to turn me on, a primary defense against women (since I dont believe in hitting them in any way, sorry I'm very old fashioned), as well as a way to have fun torturing another person (in a good way of course)
Anyways, there are many things about this "lifestyle" that bother me a bit. As most of you have in various parts of your lives, I have been forced to keep these foot/tickling urges in secret for fear of what the world would think. However, in many times during growing up, I have had some "good ones" in which even amazes me, yet I wonder if it is too much. For example, I can think of a million times in which I(either alone or in a group tickle) have used light bondage (such as the straps of a rowing machine or even magic trick enabled cuffs) in order to keep a pair of bare feet in perfect place to tickle. (and especially from kicking me in the face) While this sounds like an excellent future story to you guys and gals, sometimes, the other major part of my life gives me second thoughts. I am talking about my strong beliefs in Roman Catholisim. While it is duly noticed that sexual acts are forbidded(unless by marriage, etc, you know the rules) the whole matter of tickling is a grey area (and this isnt exactly the thing you talk to a priest about) Is it considered a sexual act in any case? By the extreme pleasures of 30 seconds of teasing foot flesh will I have to pay in my afterlife for it?
Before I go any further, I must make this clear: this is not about an adult doing this to little kids, etc, for clearly that is wrong and not in my case (ie. a 18 year old tying up a 6 year old; that is not right). Another thing is that all ticklees are/were comfortable in their surroundings, and when not, were released instantly. (after all, there is a big difference, when they say "NOT THE FEET!" and giggle for a half hour, and those that freak out about it)
Should I feel guilty about my past/present/future transgretions and repent? Or should I take a load of my shoulders and relax?
There is another question I must ask the males of the group. Again, I am a big foot fetish guy. I love everything including tickling, bondage, massaging them, a bit of torture(like ice and other light ones, no whips or nothing bloody) and so forth. The thing is that this is my one and only attraction to the other sex. T&A have little or no effect on me. The reason I am saying this is that this is for my girlfriend. To be honest, I feel bad that the majority of the time, she spends about 3 hrs. getting herself hot and sexified for me (though clothing, makeup, etc) , when in reality, all she has to do is take off her shoes and socks. I am also nervous about talking about my "extreme foot fetish" with her, even though that she suspects it (dont know if thats a good or bad thing) and yet, she has a foot fetish herself (unfortunately, its not of the above)
Anyways, what do you guys say? Is it normal for a guy just to be attracted by feet? Should I take a chance with the foot fetishism on the GF (after all, she is one of a kind, and if I mess up or if it scares her, I;m screwed (probably) for life)?
Thanks for your time. I appreciate any or all advice.
Anyways, there are many things about this "lifestyle" that bother me a bit. As most of you have in various parts of your lives, I have been forced to keep these foot/tickling urges in secret for fear of what the world would think. However, in many times during growing up, I have had some "good ones" in which even amazes me, yet I wonder if it is too much. For example, I can think of a million times in which I(either alone or in a group tickle) have used light bondage (such as the straps of a rowing machine or even magic trick enabled cuffs) in order to keep a pair of bare feet in perfect place to tickle. (and especially from kicking me in the face) While this sounds like an excellent future story to you guys and gals, sometimes, the other major part of my life gives me second thoughts. I am talking about my strong beliefs in Roman Catholisim. While it is duly noticed that sexual acts are forbidded(unless by marriage, etc, you know the rules) the whole matter of tickling is a grey area (and this isnt exactly the thing you talk to a priest about) Is it considered a sexual act in any case? By the extreme pleasures of 30 seconds of teasing foot flesh will I have to pay in my afterlife for it?
Before I go any further, I must make this clear: this is not about an adult doing this to little kids, etc, for clearly that is wrong and not in my case (ie. a 18 year old tying up a 6 year old; that is not right). Another thing is that all ticklees are/were comfortable in their surroundings, and when not, were released instantly. (after all, there is a big difference, when they say "NOT THE FEET!" and giggle for a half hour, and those that freak out about it)
Should I feel guilty about my past/present/future transgretions and repent? Or should I take a load of my shoulders and relax?
There is another question I must ask the males of the group. Again, I am a big foot fetish guy. I love everything including tickling, bondage, massaging them, a bit of torture(like ice and other light ones, no whips or nothing bloody) and so forth. The thing is that this is my one and only attraction to the other sex. T&A have little or no effect on me. The reason I am saying this is that this is for my girlfriend. To be honest, I feel bad that the majority of the time, she spends about 3 hrs. getting herself hot and sexified for me (though clothing, makeup, etc) , when in reality, all she has to do is take off her shoes and socks. I am also nervous about talking about my "extreme foot fetish" with her, even though that she suspects it (dont know if thats a good or bad thing) and yet, she has a foot fetish herself (unfortunately, its not of the above)
Anyways, what do you guys say? Is it normal for a guy just to be attracted by feet? Should I take a chance with the foot fetishism on the GF (after all, she is one of a kind, and if I mess up or if it scares her, I;m screwed (probably) for life)?
Thanks for your time. I appreciate any or all advice.