Why Can't M/F Clips Have Hot Male Lers!!!!!!!!!

[porcelaindoll2]

I just don't understand this! Nothing turns me off more than a M/F clip with an unattractive male ler. The ler is usually some overweight creepy looking old dude or a skinny awkward looking dude. Where are all the hot guys! I would never do an M/F clip unless I though the guy was attractive. I will have to say that the hottest ler I have seen thus far is Sergio. He is hot and I wish there were more Male Lers doing clips like him. Viper is nice to look at too because it is nice to see someone younger being a ler. Any thoughts on this? If I ever had the money I would love to start a company that did only F/M and M/F and I would make sure my guys were attractive. I have cute guys I'm friends with on the forum that would love to do this dream with me. Maybe someday *sigh*

 

[Korastus]

I imagine it's because a lot of clips have only minimal focus on the ler.

 

[AmericaRocks]

Because the clips are marketed towards males. That's how it is in all porn. The girls are smoking hot and the guys are unattractive. Unless it's gay porn.

It sucks. I don't watch M/F clips because the lers are always creepy looking and it's such a turn off.

 

[BellybTickler]

Because the clips are marketed towards males. That's how it is in all porn. The girls are smoking hot and the guys are unattractive.

This.

 

[Luvs2tckl]

Raise hand

I'm an overweight old dude myself, hopefully not creepy. As far as the definition of unattractive, I don't put much thought into what the ler or lee looks like. My attraction to tickling is all in the reaction of the lee, and I find every lee's reaction to be an individual fingerprint all their own. I want a ler that can bring out the best in a lee. Beautiful desperate laughter is the goal.

I get your point though, but keep in mind that it can be viewed the same as all the posts about "unattractive" lees...which generally start flame wars. As individuals, we all just like what we like. I have found myself attracted to many lees with varying degrees of attractiveness in the eyes of the masses.

P-Doll, I wish you much success in following your dream of starting up a clip store. You might even find that some of those "unattractive" lers, running very successful clip stores would even be willing to mentor you on that journey.

Take care,
Luvs

 

[sirlink]

I feel ya. I live tickling clips but never got into m/f I think because if this. As a straight guy i enjoy sexual f/m clips, f/f clips, but i never like the dudes in m/f.

We must fix this. I volunteer to be in clips if approved!

 

[proud2tickle]

ok fine i will volenteer.......

 

[chase]

Budget. No producer is going to cut into their profit by adding the cost of a male performer. Especially when they'd rather do the tickling themselves.

You're complaint isn't new, though. It's the reason why my own on-screen 'lering was so brief with my Former eMployers. Our male customer base complained about my looks and said they'd rather see one of my bosses in the M/F segments.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I'm sure that there are girls out there who are finding the male lers attractive. Everyone has their preferences, and you're certainly entitled to be attracted to whatever type of man you're attracted to, but to insist that there are almost no attractive male lers and to be insulting about their appearances is rude.

If you're looking for a particular type of male ler, I would encourage you to follow your own advice and start up your own production company with the kind of lers you enjoy looking at. Adding a solution to a problem is always better than just complaining about it.

 

[MySoCalledLaugh]

I'm sure that there are girls out there who are finding the male lers attractive. Everyone has their preferences, and you're certainly entitled to be attracted to whatever type of man you're attracted to, but to insist that there are almost no attractive male lers and to be insulting about their appearances is rude.

This.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I wasn't trying to be rude. I'm really sorry if it read that way guys.

 

[Camble]

They might be hot for all you know as you only ever the their arms and hands

 

[kered]

As a formally skinny awkward dude who is now an ugly old guy I am not taking offense in any way to Doll's question or reading anything rude into it. I merely turned it around and thought of me twenty years ago tied down and being tickled by a lady in her mid fifties. I get the mental image that she is talking about in the reverse and her query has merit. I don't think I would buy that clip myself.

Everybody has different tastes and perceptions do change as the years go by. But don't discount a kind heart or experience. You may miss a very good time, tickle-wise.

 

[SoleSearcher]

You're complaint isn't new, though. It's the reason why my own on-screen 'lering was so brief with my Former eMployers. Our male customer base complained about my looks and said they'd rather see one of my bosses in the M/F segments.

Bro...are you friggin' serious??? Send me a PM if you can. I'd rather not share my thoughts openly these days. LOL!

 

[SoleSearcher]

I will have to say that the hottest ler I have seen thus far is Sergio. He is hot and I wish there were more Male Lers doing clips like him.

You are an absolutely sweetheart. Thank you so much for such an incredible compliment!

 

[shane2]

Well most of the time the ler in m/f videos are wearing a mask

 

[The Last Laugh]

I just don't understand this! Nothing turns me off more than a M/F clip with an unattractive male ler. The ler is usually some overweight creepy looking old dude or a skinny awkward looking dude. Where are all the hot guys!

Most men aren't hot guys, the same way most women aren't hot babes. Producers are no exception, being pretty much ordinary people. And since many producers like to appear in their own videos so they can have fun tickling the models (and because, understandably, they don't want to pay to hire male ticklers), it's only natural that you end up with many clips featuring non-hot male ticklers. Besides, we're not talking Hollywood productions, here.

That being said, I do find that some male ticklers are creepier than others, because of their looks, their behavior, the way they dress, etc. Some people just aren't photogenic at all. Others get very physical with the models, which is their business if their models are ok with it, but I personally find it distasteful. And I tend to get real creeped out by things like masks, sunglasses, etc. As a producer, I totally understand preferring to avoid having one's face appear in one's clips, either for personal reasons or to avoid displeasing some customers. But personally, when I contribute to the tickling, I do it by simply not getting my head in the shot, not by covering my face.

Individual creepiness put aside, I must admit that I'm usually turned off by male ticklers in general. It's not quite as bad if the guy happens to be good-looking, but even then, I'm really not into M/F and have a hard time enjoying any such clips. As a ticklephile, I'm very much a F/F kind of guy.

 

[unclebill]

I just don't understand this! Nothing turns me off more than a M/F clip with an unattractive male ler. The ler is usually some overweight creepy looking old dude or a skinny awkward looking dude. Where are all the hot guys! I would never do an M/F clip unless I though the guy was attractive. I will have to say that the hottest ler I have seen thus far is Sergio. He is hot and I wish there were more Male Lers doing clips like him. Viper is nice to look at too because it is nice to see someone younger being a ler. Any thoughts on this? If I ever had the money I would love to start a company that did only F/M and M/F and I would make sure my guys were attractive. I have cute guys I'm friends with on the forum that would love to do this dream with me. Maybe someday *sigh*

Very rude comments.

 

[the tickleshow]

Porcelaindoll2, I understand your complaint. I don't think you're being rude. If someone can say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, then you are entitled to say what you said.

I try to keep in shape.

You never see my face in the vids, since the focus is on the 'lee, but I am also aware my body is on screen, so I try to take care of it.

I hope it's not too disappointing if you've ever seen any of my clips.

 

[Adam]

Eh, it's human nature. I tend to have an issue viewing M/F tickling clips if the guy's face is in the shot, which may come off as strange to some, but it's all a matter of personal preference. I much prefer F/F to anything, and a reasonable degree of attractiveness is greatly appreciated.

I do try to take the viewpoint of imagining myself in the same scenario, though. There are those who find me attractive and those who do not. I would hope, were I the 'ler in a clip, that it wouldn't be a deterrent in one's desire to view it. But I realize that you're not going to please everyone, so I'd be prepared for a degree of negative feedback to be sprinkled in with the positive.

 

[AmericaRocks]

Porcelaindoll2, I understand your complaint. I don't think you're being rude. If someone can say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, then you are entitled to say what you said.

Yeah, I agree with this. You're not being rude, you're being reasonable. I'm almost positive that people would complain about a clip with unattractive females in it.

 

[rhiannon]

I seriously don't understand why people are jumping all over doll saying it's rude to say that most of the time the lers are unattractive in the clips! I have yet to see one clip in which the girl doesn't look very hot and nobody complaining that she is fat/old/ugly! Why can't women complain about the same???

And she is right, most of the time the male lers AREN'T very attractive if you are looking at the mainstream definition of attractiveness the same way it is done when talking about female models!

But the answer why that is the case was already given: m/f clips are also mostly designed for a male audience, and males don't want to see a hot guy in the clips, they want to see the average dude who makes them believe it could be them in there tickling the hot chick!

 

[LD_Tickler]

But the answer why that is the case was already given: m/f clips are also mostly designed for a male audience, and males don't want to see a hot guy in the clips, they want to see the average dude who makes them believe it could be them in there tickling the hot chick!

Not exactly. The current male lers aren't selected as a marketing choice because of their averageness. It's simply that most producers are male, and since most of their consumers are indifferent to the ler, they just use themselves to lers to cut costs, and presumably, for funsies. Is there a single male producer that bothers hiring male lers?

 

[rhiannon]

Is there a single male producer that bothers hiring male lers?

Why bother hiring? I am sure if producers put an add up on here, they would find lots and lots of lers ready to pay to be the ler!

 

[peter]

I don;t pay attention to the male only the female.
But if it helps the Male should wear mask so this issue isn't a problem anymore..AND it's way more "scarier" haha