A question occurred to me the other night. It's pretty commonly accepted that tickling is an important form of social interaction between parents and children. Pretty much every parent seems to do it.
What I wonder is, what if you had a tickling fetish *and* children? I mean not just a tickling fascination, but a full-blown sexual fetish, like I have. I don't think I would be able to do it to my kids--it would seem very gross and wrong.
Is there some kind of circuit in the brain that you get when you're a parent that would let you 'desexualise' the action in the appropriate context, or what? And if you never tickled your kids because of your fetish, would it have a negative effect on their social and emotional development?
Just something in my mind I thought I'd throw out there.
What I wonder is, what if you had a tickling fetish *and* children? I mean not just a tickling fascination, but a full-blown sexual fetish, like I have. I don't think I would be able to do it to my kids--it would seem very gross and wrong.
Is there some kind of circuit in the brain that you get when you're a parent that would let you 'desexualise' the action in the appropriate context, or what? And if you never tickled your kids because of your fetish, would it have a negative effect on their social and emotional development?
Just something in my mind I thought I'd throw out there.