I’m a ler and a lee, so here’s my response:
-As a ler, I don’t think it really matters necessarily. Just like every other woman, I have desires and preferences. I tend to like women who are curvy. Some people with say chubby. Big butts, I don’t mind a stomach. And that’s what I like, and that’s what I’ll seek out even when there’s no expectation of tickling them. However, watching many different clips have taught me that I can get just as much enjoyment from clips of women being tickled who fall out of my typical ideals. I watched many clips with really skinny women, or much older women. Not that I couldn’t find a skinny woman or an older woman sexy. I’m not knocking those. . . demographics, but typically that falls out of my standard idea of sexiness, and yet I can still like the clip.
When I’m doing the tickling, it’s always a woman who falls into my ideals, typically black, curvy, great laugh(though that is of course a crapshoot!), but that doesn’t mean I couldn’t very well tickle someone other than that.
Furthermore, I’d really like to tickle Beyonce or Bria Myles or Nicki Minaj or someone like that, but it would be literally useless if they weren’t ticklish(crossing my fingers that they are, though if that laugh Nicki Minaj does is real. . . that might be the first example of a laugh turning me off.)
-As a lee, it absolutely doesn’t matter. For example, I’m not even attracted to men at all, but one of the people who tickles me is a man. Also, I myself am the definition of petite, I’m 4‘9, so every ler I’ve had, and just about every person I know, is taller and stronger than me. Which I prefer, but then there’s really no chance of me running into a ler who’s shorter and weaker than me!
Anyway, I’m in it for the laughs, for the torment. As long as the person is unrelenting and observant, I don’t care who tickles me. At least in a theoretical observation.