I'm a big F/M fan, and to be honest, I remember some women on the TMF saying in another thread, they're turned off by male 'Lee's, or they think male Lee's aren't masculine(paraphrasing.) Personally, as a switch, those comments turned me off. I felt like I was dealing w/narrow minded vanillas. Being a straight male, I didn't care what the guys thought, but I was surprised some of the women here were so judgmental.
I've seen other women make similar comments and I remember being disappointed by that when I first joined. I probably wouldn't go so far as to call them narrow minded, but I do think they're missing out big time. On balance, I'm attracted to both genders equally, but I definitely prefer male lees! I don't think it's emasculating at all. In fact, I think any guy willing to let go and allow himself to be tickled silly would have to be pretty comfortable with himself and his masculinity