Recent content by brotherted

To extend the thread a bit, I was really saying that I don’t use any of the category description terms, not fetish, nor kink, nor bdsm. I don’t even find it useful to say “tickling,” unless it’s a situation where the other person actually makes it weirder to avoid the word than to use it, by the...

The likes on the post prove you are very much not alone.

I know some don't agree with my take, which might make it an interesting conversation. When introducing our little hobby over the years to normies in my life, I've never once used the word "fetish." Basically, that's because there's a statistically significant percentage of people who once...

Thank you. There are occasional situations which are already clearly flirtatious… and then there’s the vast majority of everything else. 😎

This is the part about which I'm curious. Clearly, there are non-con text stories and non-con animated videos all over the place, and no one seems to care. My question is about the day when the AI is good enough that it truly looks 100% real. And the question doesn't just apply to our little...

I ask because I could easily present both sides of this debate. I'm really more interested in what other people think.

This appears to be a classic example of the administration of a rule contradicting the spirit of the rule. I can only imagine that a truly non-consensual video of a hard core nature shot overseas somewhere, as long as they muted the audio anyone said "no," would remain on their platform just...

This might seem tame compared to the abduction-themed fantasies... but for me, it's simply that a woman agrees to be tied up for what I'll call a "regular" bondage sex scenario... then I surprise her with our little hobby, and she has zero ability to even move, let alone get away. :)

There are definitely a lot of people who consider a perfect flat tummy and cute belly button attractive, with no connection to our little hobby. The midriff-bearing crop top shirt for women has come back into fashion in the last few years for that very reason. As odd as this may sound to...

But there is the emerging world of “CNC” which addresses both sides of this issue (ler side and lee side) pretty compellingly. Everything being dependent on the particular people involved, of course.

Everyone’s welcome to fantasize as they wish, but I’m not personally drawn to this concept with a completely random woman. I imagine it with either a particular woman I’ve met irl, or at least someone with a particular personality to which I can relate, as opposed to just a physical body.

This comment checks out with me. For the record, Tickle Central and Tickle Town also belong in the Hall of Fame. (For fans of verbal / psychological teasing to accompany the physical hijinks, like me, Tickle Central is especially missed.)

There’s a certain category of model who would be willing to appear in a video shoot, but who wouldn’t participate in a private session. They think of a video shoot as a type of “modeling gig” whereas they consider a one-on-one private session to be a form of prostitution that they’d look down...

I've done this -- but with pokes in the sides, not the feet. If you're sitting right next to someone in public, and your arms are folded across your chest, it's very easy to be clandestine and give her a little poke in her side with your index finger, halfway between the ribs and the hip bone...

Here's the bad news for all of us lers: There will simply always be more lers, i.e. not enough lees. I've been in this space for a minute, and as much as we hate it, it's not going to change. That's the reason any ler has one primary, critical skill to become superb at if they ever want to be...