Recent content by brotherted

Yes, and to extend the conversation a bit, to me the real torture is when psychological / verbal teasing is added to the physical, because that simultaneously breaks lees down in a different part of the brain. The psychological ler game generally has to be learned & developed time, but it’s so...

I like the sentiment. But the problem with "the longer you last, the more money..." concept is that some people, obviously, just aren't ticklish at all. And the structure of the game theory here would make it such that not-ticklish people will be far more likely to volunteer than the people who...

I've never liked it. I'm not sure how to explain it without copy/pasting entire text thread conversations... but it seems like the women are so accustomed to rude or abusive behavior on there, that there's kind of a hair trigger, better walk on eggshells, "take offense" easily over anything...

It feels to me like we're in an era where every preference, every kink, every choice is near universally celebrated as everyone's absolute right to like what they like, and dislike what they dislike, full stop, no questions asked. Unless they dislike that.

I'd say this happened in both directions when I was a child, but not as an adult. I'm quite sure I'm not alone in that. I would also point out some kind of distinction in my mind between where the tickling itself is the issue, in that the ler is spasming and jerking because they're being...

I wasn't asking "Is it okay to bother them?" I was asking: "Does anyone know if models get approached irl and asked about it? Has it even ever happened?" Because I was guessing no.

I’m curious what the person said. Do you happen to know?

Oh, for sure. To be clear, I wasn't asking "Is it okay to bother them?" I was asking: "Does anyone know if models get approached irl and asked about it? Has it even ever happened?" Because I was guessing no.

I didn't know sleep apnea could do that. I was under the impression that sleep apnea's harm was forcing people to wake up as they gasped for air, giving them terrible rest. And while that seems to be true based on the websites I'm seeing, perhaps it was the sleep apnea complications in that...

I hadn't heard this. Do you happen to have a link or source on it? I'm surprised because all the TC videos I've seen either used one model tickling another, or in the "bedspread" series where the guy was 'ler, there was always another person continuously panning and tilting the camera...

Obviously there are lots of variables here, starting with the distribution and popularity of the tickling video(s) in which they appeared. So let's assume an "average" model for a fairly well known production company in our space. Let's say they did a video 5-15 years ago, and are now living...

Good Lord, yes. Furthermore, producers would be smart to ask their models to try to not react, rather than ham it up for the camera.

But you've presented a new definition of "non-con." Your definition, as you say, is "If the person did not want it to happen," rather than the actual definition, "the person did not give consent." Wanting something to happen and giving consent for something to happen are obviously different...

But "Tickling someone you're dating without knowing whether they're okay with it" is literally non-con. In that sentence you have explicitly codified the very continuum that elsewhere you rejected. Did that first tickle the person you're dating last 1 second? Or did it last 10 minutes? The range...

Fair enough. When you write, "My boundaries are not yours, and it's clear we have different perspectives," who could disagree with that? If we're only talking about rules for our own actions that we wouldn't moralize to others, I'm sure I probably have some of those to which you wouldn't...