hmm i can say that the only ppl i know on here are ones that i met through a couple of friends who are members...
i think that finding out someone u never pegged as being a 'ler or 'lee on this site would be very interesting and make for so very strange conversations...(not a bad thing mind u)...
i honestly dont know what to say to this except good god! men arent assholes yes they have them but that isnt what u only see about them... and while yes women WERE attracted to the assholes, their attitudes made it hard to continue to like them... hence no longer dating assholes. :ignite:
oddly enough i was telling a friend of mine about this and we started going on with pick up lines...LOL well the new guy at work was horrified to hear that women get told those lines...apparently he never heard those lines used...we told him to stick around and be prepared to be horrified some...
poop.. i just realized i never really answered the questions put before us...ok
long story short... we just make bad choices sometimes...and sometimes even though chemical A and B look good together if u let them sit long enough u begin to realize that they werent really all that great...
Assholes
hmmmm....well i can say that despite being called many harsh things by my stepfather and being subjected to a very bad environment growing up i had a wonderful example of what kind of man i should look for... My grandpa, he is a man of few words, very hard working, loving, respectful...
my thing with the cheesy flirting is that i dont think that people who dont know me should flirt with me...they dont know a thing about me...and i dont know them... i would rather get to know them first and know that my first reaction to them was right or wrong.
**I believe that flirting should...
Ok so I realized something and its rather strange...I dont like it when a guy comes onto me and flirts with me...It offends me...LOL Strange yes because i like to flirt... so let me explain a little.
I dont like games- i am a very straight forward person...so clubs are a no go...LOL and flirting...
LOL i have a thing about people and things they like... if someone has a foot fetish then i try to make sure i do things to bring attention to my feet for them...same with my hair or eyes or anything else really but i dont cross the line in to obscene i try to be tasteful...** i usually do this...
It could work. it would just take time for it to really take off...(like anything really) the beginning maybe slow but once word gets out...and if you go with rules on what they can and cant do like u have here in the forum( and for regular gatherings) it shouldnt get to crazy...
But it would...
geez u dont need to be taller...lol if u are short enough u can just knock them down easier( GO FOR THE ANKLES!)...lol... but a roller derby would totally rock to be in.. LOL my theme song would have to be roller derby queen by Jim Croce...just for shits and giggles...