No one here thinks that. Physical intimacy within the generally accepted boundaries (you know, like your partner being conscious) is an accepted part of a romantic relationship. No one here can possibly think anyone is a creep solely for liking tickling; but how some people go about satisfying...
Anytime. I tend to swing wide when I hold forth, sometimes, but in truth, considering my own history, I would be a hypocrite of the first order to judge someone else over grey areas.
No, I'm not calling for behavior rules. It's just my opinion; based on my own boundaries. My boundaries are not yours, and it's clear we have different perspectives. We just don't agree, and I don't think that makes you a bad person. I think I've just had far too much experience with this...
Oh, no... I can clear that up. What might turn you on isn't at issue. No one can predict that. I'm talking about knowingly indulging a fetish with another person who isn't aware and doesn't have a reasonable assumption that's what it is, and what it could be doing to you. That's all. And...
That's a noble sentiment, but I don't quite share it. Any community is going to have people whose boundaries aren't the same as yours, and if they don't respect yours (or your partner's), and they're pushy, there's no obligation to be inclusive. I wouldn't attack you for posting a pic of your...
You're saying simple physical contact turns you on? I though we were talking about tickling. Or are you just dodging the real issue?
Let me make this simple: If it's going to turn you on, and you don't have that level of relationship with a person (in other words, where it would reasonably be...
Easy. When you make physical contact with them under an "innocent" pretense, where there's no reasonable expectation otherwise; it's a matter of respect and bodily autonomy.
Simple enough?
I have never known a woman who hung out with me at the pool who didn't have a reasonable expectation it was turning me (and whoever else was around) on. - The other two instances, you're talking about things people could participate in with strangers. That's not the context of what's being...