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Bugman

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Look at all the gatherings going on everywhere.And what is happening in Texas?Nothing,nada,zip.

The Dallas gathering last year was great,but nothing since.Come on you Texans,we can do better then this.I can't host,but i'm willing to help anyone who can.

Let's get it togeather here.Anyone?
 
May I ask why you guys can't host, in a hotel if your homes aren't possible?
 
If not your homes, the local BDSM club (most major cities have more than one these days).
 
May I ask why you guys can't host, in a hotel if your homes aren't possible?

A hotel would not be a problem.I just don't have a clue as to how to organize a gathering.🙂


If not your homes, the local BDSM club (most major cities have more than one these days).

None here that i know of,unless they are underground.The main problem here seems to be lack of intrest.
 
Brother, if you've got folks that desire to meet, a hotel suite can solve this easily. It's a matter of staging.

Precursor to events is the booking of a hotel suite, and the planning to meet early in the evening. Warn the hotel that you've a group that's rather jovial, and that laughing and shouting is expected, especially if all members attend. Due to this, ask for a suite location that is in a corner of the building, and preferably isolated as much as possible from the rest. If possible, book the rooms next door and across. Some folks will want to stay the night if they travelled far.

Do have in mind an expected max, and give that to them as the membership.

The group? The Media Forum in Texas (TMF for short).

First you meet at a munch, preferably nearby to the hotel suite at which you'll play. A dinner would be good, as it assures everyone's fed before the fun. Casual is your friend.

At the lunch, give directions to the location, or caravan there. Give everyone the room number. If it's a secured building 24/7, give your cell number and meet everyone at the door approximately N minutes after leaving the restaurant. Anyone else can call.

Expect that play will have to get quieter after 10-10:30 if you get complaints. Avoid stomping and you avoid a LOT of problems. Only the 'lee should be loud in this scenario.

Start time - 5pm Saturday
Event - 7pm
Close is after 10 and before you plan to sleep.

G'luck!
 
This might help a bit, buggy....

http://www.tk-411.com/TG-hosting.html

Plus, you know plenty of us who've hosted in the past. We don't mind being "used" for things like this. 😉

Thanks Ann.I know that.🙂


Brother, if you've got folks that desire to meet

That seems to be the crux of the problem.I just don't sense much intrest in the idea here.Maybe it's just me.🙂 But thanks for the advice.


Precursor to events is the booking of a hotel suite, and the planning to meet early in the evening. Warn the hotel that you've a group that's rather jovial, and that laughing and shouting is expected, especially if all members attend. Due to this, ask for a suite location that is in a corner of the building, and preferably isolated as much as possible from the rest. If possible, book the rooms next door and across. Some folks will want to stay the night if they travelled far.

Do have in mind an expected max, and give that to them as the membership.

The group? The Media Forum in Texas (TMF for short).

First you meet at a munch, preferably nearby to the hotel suite at which you'll play. A dinner would be good, as it assures everyone's fed before the fun. Casual is your friend.

At the lunch, give directions to the location, or caravan there. Give everyone the room number. If it's a secured building 24/7, give your cell number and meet everyone at the door approximately N minutes after leaving the restaurant. Anyone else can call.

Expect that play will have to get quieter after 10-10:30 if you get complaints. Avoid stomping and you avoid a LOT of problems. Only the 'lee should be loud in this scenario.

Start time - 5pm Saturday
Event - 7pm
Close is after 10 and before you plan to sleep.

G'luck!
 
That seems to be the crux of the problem.I just don't sense much intrest in the idea here.Maybe it's just me.🙂 But thanks for the advice.

Folks, if you want this to get off the ground, you'd best PM the man and show some interest, if you're not posting here already while I type this. Seriously, all a host needs is a wee bit of motivation from new friends.

I don't do this strictly as a samaritan, after all. I've met some REALLY cool folks doing this. Met my lover, too. There's all sorts of fun t'be had. Oh, and there's tickling, too.
 
If enough people are down with it, then I will take off a weekend and definitely commit. Bugman, you know I'm always up for it.
 
Yeppers and you guys are right. Sorry I have not been online much, but how about if we plan a Gathering in June or July. Perhaps rent a few suites like we did last time?
 
Yeppers and you guys are right. Sorry I have not been online much, but how about if we plan a Gathering in June or July. Perhaps rent a few suites like we did last time?

I'm already taking time off for NEST so that would probably not work for me.I was thinking more along the lines of September or something.But hey if you all can get something set up before then go for it.🙂
 
It is not too difficult to organize and put such together. One was by Mike, better known as oddjob, and myself, and believe there were around 10 people that attended. Another was in Houston, though was a part of a BDSM party that was hosted in someone's home.

I believe Dallas was chosen as a center point and it was in a hotel where multiple rooms were rented for those out of town, and a suite was rented where the play took place. After getting a tally for the number of people there, then a dollar amount for renting the suite, and for basic things like snack, water and drinks was tallied and paid by the participants.

I believe that oddjob is back in the Metroplex again or at least within a hour or two of it. I am about as well as far as DFW goes. Houston would be reasonable also as a meeting point.
 
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