Everybody keeps telling NonCon that he's not going to solve his problem with his current attitude, and in the process they're completely missing the point: NonCon is aware of this. He wants us to somehow magically change things for him so that all he has to do to have a female partner in his life is earn enough money to support the household, without having to give anything beyond that.
His prior posts, and chatroom comments, over the past few years, have been exactly along the same lines as those which he's posted in this thread; I wouldn't be surprised if he has them saved in text files on his desktop. The exceptions to that rule are those occasions where he has, much more specifically, complained about the prostitutes that didn't want to be tickled, on the grounds that since he's paying them he ought to be able to do "anything he wants to them" and, if that business approach gets them into a bad situation, it's their fault for being prostitutes.
This is an individual who is so completely wrapped up on his own self-pity that he literally has no more regard for other human beings than he does for a random, interestingly shaped hunk of asphalt along the side of a recently reconstructed road. No amount of pointing this out -- coming, as it does, from people whose points of view he places no weight in (that being, anyone but himself) -- is going to change that. He's already said that he refuses to change, and resents the very inference that he ought to, even to fix his own problems. Coming at him from a vantage point that he doesn't consider valid... again, any that isn't his own... how exactly can you expect to convince him otherwise?
As far as Babyshambles is concerned...
You're the attention-monger who posted a thread with a warped take on social Darwinism, trying to call everybody else here a loser and reacting with condescension, shock, and elitist psycho-babble when everybody else here took offense. You're the last person to be posting a "stop giving the guy a hard time" response; it's completely inconsistent with your previously expressed opinions. I'm thinking that you really are after nothing more than attention, and the trollish thrill of getting a rise out of the community at large. Your suggestion that the thread be locked because there was nothing else of value to be said? It's not your thread, nor is it your forum, and you're just about the least friendly and open-minded person here... you've no cause to be pointing that particular shit-stained finger at anybody else. All you've got is gall, and plenty of that.
If we're all so terrible, why don't you take your trolling self along to another forum?
Back to NonCon... all I've got left to say to you is, why don't you take some of that money you're blowing on unsatisfactory prostitutes, and see an expensive shrink? At least twice a week, for the foreseeable future? We all know, by this point in time, that you don't actually want to fix your problems; you want the satisfaction of bitching about them to somebody who will listen politely and act like they give half a damn. A shrink will do infinitely more for you in that area than most hookers will.
His prior posts, and chatroom comments, over the past few years, have been exactly along the same lines as those which he's posted in this thread; I wouldn't be surprised if he has them saved in text files on his desktop. The exceptions to that rule are those occasions where he has, much more specifically, complained about the prostitutes that didn't want to be tickled, on the grounds that since he's paying them he ought to be able to do "anything he wants to them" and, if that business approach gets them into a bad situation, it's their fault for being prostitutes.
This is an individual who is so completely wrapped up on his own self-pity that he literally has no more regard for other human beings than he does for a random, interestingly shaped hunk of asphalt along the side of a recently reconstructed road. No amount of pointing this out -- coming, as it does, from people whose points of view he places no weight in (that being, anyone but himself) -- is going to change that. He's already said that he refuses to change, and resents the very inference that he ought to, even to fix his own problems. Coming at him from a vantage point that he doesn't consider valid... again, any that isn't his own... how exactly can you expect to convince him otherwise?
As far as Babyshambles is concerned...
You're the attention-monger who posted a thread with a warped take on social Darwinism, trying to call everybody else here a loser and reacting with condescension, shock, and elitist psycho-babble when everybody else here took offense. You're the last person to be posting a "stop giving the guy a hard time" response; it's completely inconsistent with your previously expressed opinions. I'm thinking that you really are after nothing more than attention, and the trollish thrill of getting a rise out of the community at large. Your suggestion that the thread be locked because there was nothing else of value to be said? It's not your thread, nor is it your forum, and you're just about the least friendly and open-minded person here... you've no cause to be pointing that particular shit-stained finger at anybody else. All you've got is gall, and plenty of that.
If we're all so terrible, why don't you take your trolling self along to another forum?
Back to NonCon... all I've got left to say to you is, why don't you take some of that money you're blowing on unsatisfactory prostitutes, and see an expensive shrink? At least twice a week, for the foreseeable future? We all know, by this point in time, that you don't actually want to fix your problems; you want the satisfaction of bitching about them to somebody who will listen politely and act like they give half a damn. A shrink will do infinitely more for you in that area than most hookers will.
