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I've never dated anyone younger than me, which a lot of people have seem to think is weird. So, what's the youngest/oldest you would date? Would you even date anyone younge/older than you?
 
Oldest? 33

Youngest? 24

(I'm 30)

I think the ideal for me would be like 27.
 
I've never dated anyone younger than me, which a lot of people have seem to think is weird. So, what's the youngest/oldest you would date? Would you even date anyone younge/older than you?

I don't see why people would think it's weird. It is my experience that young women tend to date guys that are a few years older, and the other way around for men. Don't know why, but it's like that with almost every couple I know.


As for me personally? I don't care so much about age as about mental maturity. That's a lesson I took to heart back when I was around 15, and this guy wanted me to help doing administrative work in a political group that he was a board member for. I pointed out my age, to which he replied: "Well, wisdom doesn't sit in the beard" (ironic that I bring it up given my current appearance, I know). Well, that comment kinda stuck, and I apply it to most things these days - including dating. Your age is just a number, anyway. 🙂

That said, just like Marquis mentioned you still need to be able to relate, which might be hard if the age gap is TOO big. But would I date a woman 10 years older than me? Sure. Love knows no boundaries and all that, but if we're going to be realistic I doubt I'd have much in common with someone past their mid-20's... :shrug:

As for how young I'd go? Well, the age of consent in Sweden is 15, but hell, I couldn't stand 15-year-old girls even when I was 15 myself, so perhaps a couple of years older than that then. 😛 When people start in Swedish college at 16 they tend to go through a pretty huge mentality change. The pecking order from high school is thrown out the window when you get new classmates, and people generally don't want to go back to that. So yeah, I guess 16 or 17 for me, again provided the person is mature mentally. Since I'm 21, let's say I'd go 5 years in either direction? I dunno, I haven't given this a lot of thought before. XD
 
As for me personally? I don't care so much about age as about mental maturity. That's a lesson I took to heart back when I was around 15, and this guy wanted me to help doing administrative work in a political group that he was a board member for. I pointed out my age, to which he replied: "Well, wisdom doesn't sit in the beard" (ironic that I bring it up given my current appearance, I know). Well, that comment kinda stuck, and I apply it to most things these days - including dating. Your age is just a number, anyway. 🙂

Amen! I'm the same way when it comes to dating. I don't care if the woman is younger or older than me, as long as she's mature and has a good head on her shoulders. In fact, I think the whole lesbian/gay community is like that. Since there's really no gender roles (except maybe in butch/femme or stud/twink couples), it certainly doesn't matter for us as much. 😀
But yeah, I think maturity should be the dealbreaker in any couple, really.
 
I think it matters more on how well you click with a person, rather than how old they are. Within reason, of course. I tend to date guys a few years older than me with a few exceptions. Most people my age are too enthralled with keg stands and facebook, I think I'd be hard-pressed to find someone even younger than me that wasn't a douche lol.
 
I think it matters more on how well you click with a person, rather than how old they are. Within reason, of course. I tend to date guys a few years older than me with a few exceptions. Most people my age are too enthralled with keg stands and facebook, I think I'd be hard-pressed to find someone even younger than me that wasn't a douche lol.

LOL! I know, right?! Most guys younger than me that I know are lame and are total douchebags.
 
Sure it would, lol! 😉


But, yeah, this guy I've been talking to is 18. Which has me hesitant because he JUST turned 18.. and I'm about to turn 23.

Yeah it would! RAWR!!! Oh. But then we'd be in the car and I'd be listening to my music and all of a sudden you'll like pop some Britney in and I'll be, BITCH PLEASE! And you'll be all like, WHATEVER! I DO WOT I WANT! I'M FROM JERSEY FOOL!! And then we'd :slapfight:

There's no harm in trying though. I know a few 18 year olds who're way more mature than most older people I know.

Actually, I'm really lying. I don't. But I know they're out there. Besides, you never know unless you give it a shot. It might be the bestest thing ever. Or it might make a good LOLthread here someday if he starts explaining to you how deep the metaphor for vampires that sparkle really is.
 
Yeah it would! RAWR!!! Oh. But then we'd be in the car and I'd be listening to my music and all of a sudden you'll like pop some Britney in and I'll be, BITCH PLEASE! And you'll be all like, WHATEVER! I DO WOT I WANT! I'M FROM JERSEY FOOL!! And then we'd :slapfight:

There's no harm in trying though. I know a few 18 year olds who're way more mature than most older people I know.

Actually, I'm really lying. I don't. But I know they're out there. Besides, you never know unless you give it a shot. It might be the bestest thing ever. Or it might make a good LOLthread here someday if he starts explaining to you how deep the metaphor for vampires that sparkle really is.



HAHAHAHAHAH! ILY!



Oh, and I totally read "who're" as "*****" lmao. So much for maturity! 😛
 
I think dating and serious relationship are two different things. for just dating, youngest 18, oldest 60.
 
LOL! I know, right?! Most guys younger than me that I know are lame and are total douchebags.

I guess there's some truth to the saying that girls mature faster than guys. Honestly, I'd probably have a relationship with a girl before I date a guy under 25. lol
 
I guess there's some truth to the saying that girls mature faster than guys. Honestly, I'd probably have a relationship with a girl before I date a guy under 25. lol

I think you just opened up Pandora's box there Annie. *sits back and waits for the THAT'S HAWT comments to flood* 😀

Hey guess what? That's hot. 😛
 
I've never dated anyone younger than me, which a lot of people have seem to think is weird. So, what's the youngest/oldest you would date? Would you even date anyone younge/older than you?

hmmm That is a good question. I used to have an age limit of legal (18) and about 5 years older than me. but I have been making changes in my life and my limit is about 22-23 and 40-41

but the "socially acceptable" age gap is (X\2)+7 X=your age. So I am guessing it should be 24. and my upper end I suppose should be 54. Yeah I will stick with my age range.
 
hmmm That is a good question. I used to have an age limit of legal (18) and about 5 years older than me. but I have been making changes in my life and my limit is about 22-23 and 40-41

but the "socially acceptable" age gap is (X\2)+7 X=your age. So I am guessing it should be 24. and my upper end I suppose should be 54. Yeah I will stick with my age range.

LOL! There is a formula!? :bwahaha:
 
I'm 29, and the older I get, my tastes migrate with me. If I were single, I'd probably be more inclined to go older than younger. I have a feeling that the impulsive nature of youth would greatly conflict with my extreme, pragmatic side. At work, I tend to wind up at colleges, many times, and I'm finding that I'm not as attracted to the myriad of college girls wandering around as much as I should be (They all just look so YOUNG, now!). However, I've got some customers who are in their mid-30s, possibly 40s, who I think are smokin' hot!
 
LOL! There is a formula!? :bwahaha:

Sadly enough yes yes there is.

there are a few actually

another one are

Differential % =
|Age(A) - Age(B)| / Min(Age(A), Age(B))

For example: when one is 30 and the other is 20 the differential is (30-20)/20 == 50%

you generally want to stay under 50% anything anymore and they say the younger person has too much of a life experiences gap to make up. though I do not totally believe that.

another one is

Your Age ± (your age/10). And if you’re immature, you can alter the formula to Your Age ± ((your age / 10)*2) . Usually the 2 is factor enough, but if you’re insanely immature for your age, you might need to make it 3.
 
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