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Josie and I have broken up.

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Leo tickles

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I said things I shouldn't have said. She had a LOT of issues with her past, and what I said, in the way I said it, brought it all back for her.

The first person I call after the break up? Courtney. My ex of 2 years. Why? I don't fucking know.

We talked all night. She's with a guy named Matt now, and we both agreed that he's me, but less smart and not as hot. I believe she has been subconsciously preparing herself to get back together with me, which is the only reason Matt is even in the picture. I presented her this thought, and she didn't disagree completely.

Josie? Yeah. 5 months. 4 months? 5 months. We broke up because she was selfish. After everything we've been through, everything I helped her with, we break up because she was selfish.

Last night I thought it was all my fault.

Guess what?

It isn't.

With people murdering each other every single day, boyfriends raping their own son's, animals tortured just because some assclown is bored, "love" ended because I said about 10 sentences of mean things when I was really upset.


I still have my job though. That's good. A job that I got for me, for "us". Well there is no us now, only me. And I'm keeping it. Why? I guess because I need the money. Do I? No. But that reason is acceptable enough.

As far as Josie goes, I'll say here what I said to her.

I hope she can find somebody to sweet talk her, while I go find somebody who can accept the truth and use it to improve themselves and the situation.
 
Leo, I'm very sorry to hear about your breakup with Josie. If you ever want to vent, my PM box is open.

Your situation with Josie, and your breakup with her, sounds a lot like why many of my estrangements from my father have occurred. He only wants to hear, what he wants, and how he wants, and not what the truth is. I can't deal with people like that.

We both know that breakups can sting. However, I have no doubt that you will find a kind, caring, girl, who is worthy of you. You are a good man, and there is a woman out there who will appreciate you.

Again, if you need me, PM anytime.

Take care, bud.

Mitch
 
Leo tickles said:
I said things I shouldn't have said. She had a LOT of issues with her past, and what I said, in the way I said it, brought it all back for her.

The first person I call after the break up? Courtney. My ex of 2 years. Why? I don't fucking know.

We talked all night. She's with a guy named Matt now, and we both agreed that he's me, but less smart and not as hot. I believe she has been subconsciously preparing herself to get back together with me, which is the only reason Matt is even in the picture. I presented her this thought, and she didn't disagree completely.

Josie? Yeah. 5 months. 4 months? 5 months. We broke up because she was selfish. After everything we've been through, everything I helped her with, we break up because she was selfish.

Last night I thought it was all my fault.

Guess what?

It isn't.

With people murdering each other every single day, boyfriends raping their own son's, animals tortured just because some assclown is bored, "love" ended because I said about 10 sentences of mean things when I was really upset.


I still have my job though. That's good. A job that I got for me, for "us". Well there is no us now, only me. And I'm keeping it. Why? I guess because I need the money. Do I? No. But that reason is acceptable enough.

As far as Josie goes, I'll say here what I said to her.

I hope she can find somebody to sweet talk her, while I go find somebody who can accept the truth and use it to improve themselves and the situation.
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Well that wasn't very nice, Storm.

But since you don't have enough of those, you know, things down below to tell me what exactly your problem is, I'll look up some internet meme to reply to yours.


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Leo my friend, I don`t recall ever giving you this advice, but forget about those girls and get a puppy.:dog: Much less heartache, and less maintenance, as well. Show me a woman who won`t complain when given a bowl of food, and water.:flatstare:
 
Wow

Weak. You're never going to have a strong relationship with anyone being like that.
 
----- WOULD YOU TROLLS get a fucking life already??? Nothing else to do...

The same troll/s --- truly creepily pathetic. Leo, I salute your evolved adulthood.

Your handling of the pathetic misfits far outdid my commentary ---- Your girlfriend's loss, clearly. 😱

LEO --- :lion: once again, many people share ALL :shock: sorts of things here, from bathroom design to advanced acne

I'm sorry it didn't work out ---- as you wrote, maybe it's better for all involved ---- she needs to grow up and you and your ex need to figure out if you're truly right for each other, so your ex doesn't waste this "Matt's" time either if that's not working out.

Maybe you all need to give this a little time to settle, to step back and try to look at it all a bit more objectively...?
Where you and your ex truly happy? And I will stop editing...
 
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Far better than I did.

And once again, Leo, that was beautifully handled 😀

I'll go and delete the unnecessary parts of my original post....

true, but unnecessary.
 
Leave the original one's up, I'll take the shit with the gold. Especially if it's true. As long as you aren't clearly trolling, everything will be processed in my brain. As a third party, it's ALWAYS easier to help, versus being the one in the situation of course.

Either way.

Courtney.

We talked again tonight. I'm waiting for a call back. We need each other is the consensus. She said she needs to talk to Matt before meeting me because she's not the kind of person to just up and fuck him right over.

All I want to meet for is a diet coke. I really want to see her. The feeling is mutual, I do believe.

I don't know what my post history says, but I can tell you this girl killed me, the zombie version of me, brought me up, killed me again, and again, and again and yet I still sit here wanting her. I have Josie to get over, she has Matt, still dating Matt, and fucking hell, we're talking to each other.

I said to myself, "we're both just trying to ease the pain. Me of a breakup, her of an unhappy relationship". Who knows if that's the case? I don't. I don't have a fucking clue. All I feel, all I think SHE feels, is a pull towards me, and for me, a pull towards her. Every single drop of pain between Matt and Josie is killing both of us, and for me, I think not seeing her is what's killing me the most. Don't quote me on that. I really don't know.

She's still on the phone with Matt. She said she'd call me when she was done talking to him. I have work at 7 AM, it's 12:36 AM right now.

I push carts at Wal-Mart, it's going to be a hot day tomorrow, hell, I almost passed out today because I talked to her all night long, and I had work at 11:30 today.

After everything she's done to me, I've done to her, and everything that happened in between, I'm still staying up, still praying for a miracle that I know I may not get and have never had before.

Josie and losing her, it conflicts me, but staying up for Courtney, feeling the need to be with her, sort of the same for Josie, sort of not, who the fuck knows.

Staying up for Courtney though, it shows me something beyond what I thought love was. It shows me something greater than me. And that alone is worth the micro seconds I wait for her to call.
 
Didn't you once make some big point about how much you lie and make up big elaborate stories that never actually happen?
 
Comfort Eagle said:
Didn't you once make some big point about how much you lie and make up big elaborate stories that never actually happen?
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Yes.

It was also during that point that I realized somebody would mention it again.

Congratulations, you proved me right.
 
Nicely put (down) 😛

:roflmao:

----------- But seriously, I'm glad your ex isn't the type to screw someone else over, and dump them thoughtlessly either ----:ermm:

That does sound more like a keeper than a "selfish" person, but I don't know enough about either to judge, only you really know enough about their characters and your relationships --

If you figure out A is better for you than B, then of course that means (either way B may not be good for you, but I really have no idea...)

Except if you're communicating with each as much as you can in a constructive manner (you're handling this correctly and there's nothing else you can do about it ---- except not "settling" for the wrong one just to fill the proverbial vacuum...) 😱

Sounds like even if you don't get a call tonight, if she's up talking too late, you probably will tomorrow -- "Sleep on it" as they say :smilestar
 
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Long story version will be posted sometime later (if I survive work with no sleep).

As of right now, I'm going to meet Courtney.
 
:shock: Wow, yes, on practically no sleep.... Best of luck! Hope it sorts out right for all of you (and that you get enough ZZzzz:zzzzz: )
-- I'm definitely not awake enough at this point to meet an ex bf 😛 I wasn't an hour ago either....
 
It's 4:03 AM.

I have 3 hours of sleep and then an 8 hour shift in the heat.

As far as what happened with Courtney tonight?

When it's real, miracles happen.

It's real.

Goodnight.
 
Good buddy. It is only on the edge that we truly know ourselves.....I think I stole that from "the day the earth stood still". Anyway I wish you luck. Stay with the woman that makes you a better man. I've found that being single has allowed me to fullfill my dreams. Being with a woman has always slowed me down when it comes to self actualization. I was valued by her...but didn't value myself because I didn't live up to my potential. Think about whether that applies to you too. Walmart kart pushing maybe where you're at...but where are you going? and who makes the best cheerleader?

GQ
 
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