Telling your partner

Hey! 😀

I was just wondering about how you all go about telling your partners about your fetishes, and how you tell them. I have horrible anxiety so this would be very tough for me to do. I do not have a girlfriend at the moment but if I did, I am not even sure I would tell her until we really got to know eachother really well you know? I have a tickling fetish... Hey could you guess that?? Haha. xD Just f/f for me. I'm a dude though, so me and another female is fine. xD I know this is normal, and I thought I was crazy I felt this way about tickling. Now that I know it's very normal I am opening up to it. On the internet at least... On this forum. I just don't know if I could ever tell a women face to face without me having a stroke. xD How would you approach this?

Thanks all. 🙂

Well, I can tell my man about my perversions. It's spontaneous. It's a by-product of insanely long/deep friendship.

No psychiatrist would lose sleep over you.

Science said:

Now that I know it's very normal I am opening up to it. On the internet at least... On this forum. I just don't know if I could ever tell a women face to face without me having a stroke. xD How would you approach this?

Thanks all. 🙂

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At least you realize how normal it is. Now imagine how awful it would be (and you would be) if the thing you enjoy most is violating the corpses of little boys you've murdered and left to ripen in a cave for two weeks.

Or even breaking into houses and stealing ladies' underwear from laundry baskets?

I'm convinced that pretty much every single person on earth enjoys at least one 'variation' whether they admit it to themselves or anyone else. Are you starting to realize how harmless your own kink is now?

And given the things you COULD be into, I assure you that she'll be relieved too.

Libertine said:

At least you realize how normal it is. Now imagine how awful it would be (and you would be) if the thing you enjoy most is violating the corpses of little boys you've murdered and left to ripen in a cave for two weeks.

Or even breaking into houses and stealing ladies' underwear from laundry baskets?

I'm convinced that every pretty much every single person on earth enjoys at least one 'variation' whether they admit it to themselves or anyone else. Are you starting to realize how harmless your own kink is now?

And given the things you COULD be into, I assure you that she'll be relieved too.

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Very true!
I know there are many fetishes out there. I guess tickling is one of the most common ones. I guess if I find someone and they like me for who I am it wont even matter.

One way is ease into it. During some frisky play, tickle her a bit and tell her how much it turns you on to tickle HER (make it about her). If she questions it just be blunt, if not coy, and say, "I dunno, guess I have a strong tickling fetish with YOU." Then you're out of the TK closet, and made her the single object of your affections. A win win. ...of course, while you may have fessed up... she may detest tickling. But at least you're out.