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I need to kick this fetish!!!

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Private Tickle

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I have recently been having issues sexually because of my tickling fetish. I can't seem to become sexually aroused with out engaging in tickling. This is a problem because recently I have been with many different women most of which I don't know very well. I cant just start tickling them. I feel like I should be turned on my the more common things with sex. Has anyone tried to get rid of their fetish before? if so what did you try and obviously your in this chat so what made it fail.

Sincerely frustrated!!!
 
Stop fucking random women who you barely know?

And being on the TMF doesn't mean everyone must have tickling in order to
get a boner (girl boners included). Tickling is an interest for me, but not a
fetish. Lots of other things turn me on. Sometimes tickling is just fun, and
not a turn on at all. But that's beside the point here.

Seriously, back off on all of your recent fucking of many different women,
and get to know just one. Develop a [gasp] relationship, and then you can
start to talk about tickling with her when you talk about what turns you on,
turns her on, etc. Then you can fuck and tickle and have the best of both
worlds, and you won't even have to worry about herpes or HIV!
 
what i can tell you is that going out from a fetish is not easy at all and i don't recommend you to try by your own. if you really want to, get therapy for that. anyway i think you can deal your fetish with sex anyway, tickling to get aroused and then have sex. if the partner doesn't deal with that, it doesn't mean that you need to get out from your fetish but that she isn't the right partner for you
 
Paraphilias are for life. Sure, you can try to bury it in a shallow grave but it won't do you any good. Come to terms with this and show some restraint.
 
Private Tickle said:
I have recently been having issues sexually because of my tickling fetish. I can't seem to become sexually aroused with out engaging in tickling. This is a problem because recently I have been with many different women most of which I don't know very well. I cant just start tickling them. I feel like I should be turned on my the more common things with sex. Has anyone tried to get rid of their fetish before? if so what did you try and obviously your in this chat so what made it fail.

Sincerely frustrated!!!
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well. if your getting some, then why stop? Really. Now if you aren't.............well, I've zonked my sexuality out. I've just been the asexual worker bee that just doesn't want to acknowledge it anymore.

I used to just be into tickling. Then oral, then feet, then etc etc.............so I've managed to broaden. Idk man, why not just dip your balls in peanut butter and birdseed and give the pidgeons a show? Liberate yourself!
 
scorpionldr said:
well. if your getting some, then why stop? Really. Now if you aren't.............well, I've zonked my sexuality out. I've just been the asexual worker bee that just doesn't want to acknowledge it anymore.

I used to just be into tickling. Then oral, then feet, then etc etc.............so I've managed to broaden. Idk man, why not just dip your balls in peanut butter and birdseed and give the pidgeons a show? Liberate yourself!
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You, sir/ma'am, win an internet for that.
 
I tried for years to shake this fetish. It's like there is an invisible bungee cord with one end tied around my pecker and the other end tied to a gorgeous, high-arched, ticklish foot. When I try hard to get away, the bungee always wins out and I come back more jazzed up about tickling feet than ever. I am afraid that if one has had this fetish all of his life he will never get away. He may abstain, but he will always sweat bullets at the sight of a sexy female foot...a life of quiet desperation yearning for a fullfillment that can only come one way. Sure, sex is great, but nothing takes the place of putting pair of sexy feet on your chest and stroking the soles and watching the toes curl and spread in response. That's just the way it is with many of us.
 
It sounds like it could be an abundance issue. You obviously have no problem with getting women into the bedroom, so right now, you don't have a huge demand for basic sex. For you, tickling could be more rare of an activity. You're probably craving it more to where you're preoccupied with wanting tickling when it's game-time. I don't think you'll truly get rid of your interest without some form of aversion therapy provided by a professional (I'm not entirely sure how I feel about that, as it's currently an inconvenience more than a harmful issue.). However, if you can get some playtime in, and get your fix, you may find that tickling isn't as important as it is now, allowing you to enjoy regular sex without a mental block.
 
Tickling and feet give me a serious boner. But so does tits and vag. So it all balances out 😎
 
CodeZero said:
Tickling and feet give me a serious boner. But so does tits and vag. So it all balances out 😎
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I beleive that balance is the key. A dated a woman for several years and tried to have a non kink relationship. Before I met her I had been singel for a year (kink and sex free). In the beginning I didn't bring up my fetishes (bondage, feet, and tickling...in that order) out of fear she would reject them and I didn't want to embarrass myself so early in the relationship. You bring this stuff up early, before a woman gets to know you, and you look like a weirdo. We had a normal sex life for the better part of a year and a half. Sure, I'd tickle her now and then but I made a point to strictly limit that. I'd see her barefoot daily but it would only arouse me a little. I wasn't "saturated" in it...if that makes sense. We had normal sex and I was able to perform just fine.

One day out of the blue I asked her if she'd ever been tied up and if she'd like to try it. She said she'd been handcuffed during sex before and liked it so she was game. I felt an enourmous rush just from hearing her agree. My hands were shaking from the adrenaline. Everything felt so good, and I had not even tied her yet. Once I did it was bliss. Just the act of tying her. Sure, I was able to have normal sex. But adding my fetishes made the erections and pleasure 10 times stronger. That came with a price though. I wanted it more. In the last year of our relationship she was tied up getting her feet tickled two or three times a week. It got to a point where I needed that to get aroused. I just wasn't interested otherwise.

Now a days I keep it balanced. I only do one tie up a month, i dont tickle her while she's tied....she's barefoot all the time has has wonderful feet so I'm pretty much screwed there, but I cope.

If you have this, it's not going away. You can deal with it but you can't get rid of it. Therapy will help you cope but any counselor will tell you that there isn't a "cure" for paraphillias.
 
BrightEyes1082 said:
Stop fucking random women who you barely know?

And being on the TMF doesn't mean everyone must have tickling in order to
get a boner (girl boners included). Tickling is an interest for me, but not a
fetish. Lots of other things turn me on. Sometimes tickling is just fun, and
not a turn on at all. But that's beside the point here.

Seriously, back off on all of your recent fucking of many different women,
and get to know just one. Develop a [gasp] relationship, and then you can
start to talk about tickling with her when you talk about what turns you on,
turns her on, etc. Then you can fuck and tickle and have the best of both
worlds, and you won't even have to worry about herpes or HIV!
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This advice is just sad, I'm sorry. A woman wouldn't understand the ego gratification a guy gets from being able to say he's been with X number of women. It's a macho thing. My advice: it sounds like you're getting women into bed relatively easily. Say "hey, this is the only way I can get turned on, take it or leave it". If one doesn't go for it, NEXT. It's a numbers game, just like car sales or something like that.
 
How is fucking a boatload of women gratifying to the ego? It just makes the guy a manslut. (Note I am not referring to the OP here, but to the general idea of the sexually active man interested only in casual sex)
 
It's not the fetish that is throwing you off. It is natural to feel out of sync with woman most of the time, that's just the way things are. I would never tell a vanilla about my fetish, when things go wrong they will use it against you to fuck with your head. If you have one girlfriend or more it's up to you, there is no right or wrong with this. There will always be some conflict in interpersonal relationships that's a gimme. Lower your expectations and you will be fine.
 
Nothing wrong with getting excited through other means besides the vanilla way of having sex. This is my fetish and I don't appoligize for it. It isn't a habit I do ....it is on my mind occasionally. It can be a turn on. Feeling up a female is fine but for me it can be a bit boring now. Tickling gets my blood flowing. I finally had to admit to myself that it will always be a part of me and my turn on.

Best thing to do is sink or swim.

You may have to find a female ticklephile because there is a posibility that it won't leave. Only you know if you can live without it or admit it. There are many that don't enjoy "regular" turn-ons and that's why we have fetishes.
 
WriterOfSin said:
How is fucking a boatload of women gratifying to the ego? It just makes the guy a manslut. (Note I am not referring to the OP here, but to the general idea of the sexually active man interested only in casual sex)
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That's just buying into feminist bullshit. There's no such thing as a "manslut", only sluts. Men are the predators, women are the prey. I didn't make the rules I'm just telling you what they are.
 
ArchNemesis said:
That's just buying into feminist bullshit. There's no such thing as a "manslut", only sluts. Men are the predators, women are the prey. I didn't make the rules I'm just telling you what they are.
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Sorry, you're quite right. 'Slut' should be able to be applied to both men and women without an adjective needed.
 
BrightEyes...lighten the F*CK UP and dont be such a b*tch.
The dude asks a legit question....that many have expressed here before....how about being helpful instead of knocking the guy down?


BrightEyes1082 said:
Stop fucking random women who you barely know?

And being on the TMF doesn't mean everyone must have tickling in order to
get a boner (girl boners included). Tickling is an interest for me, but not a
fetish. Lots of other things turn me on. Sometimes tickling is just fun, and
not a turn on at all. But that's beside the point here.

Seriously, back off on all of your recent fucking of many different women,
and get to know just one. Develop a [gasp] relationship, and then you can
start to talk about tickling with her when you talk about what turns you on,
turns her on, etc. Then you can fuck and tickle and have the best of both
worlds, and you won't even have to worry about herpes or HIV!
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I agree it shouldn't be the only thing that turns someone on. I know I have multiple and I am sure most do too.
 
Well, I do appreciate all the input here. Some of this is extremely helpful and some of it is just the dumbest shit I ever had to waste my time reading. I won't single anyone out or make them feel like shit even tho thats exactly what some of you did to me here. I need to just break away from this. I don't feel comfortable with it any longer and I want to prove to myself that I am bigger then an impulse.

again thank you all for your input!

much love and respect!!!
 
Private Tickle said:
Well, I do appreciate all the input here. Some of this is extremely helpful and some of it is just the dumbest shit I ever had to waste my time reading. I won't single anyone out or make them feel like shit even tho thats exactly what some of you did to me here. I need to just break away from this. I don't feel comfortable with it any longer and I want to prove to myself that I am bigger then an impulse.

again thank you all for your input!

much love and respect!!!
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I wish you well too!

Breaking a fetish("impulse") is hard-work, and it takes re-conditioning - a lot of re-conditioning! You have to redefine who you are, and allow the individualist within you to die-off. You must become a conformist, like the "vanilla"-robot. And, living the life that is perhaps distasteful; maybe not worth living. Who knows? We will all learn in the last day(death)...
 
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Is there anything ELSE that turns you on?

First off, you can't "get rid of" a fetish. It's impossible. Any fetish. You can simply never engage in it....many guys and girls here like tickling, but simply don't
have anyone to tickle/be tickled by.

I like tickling. And I like big boobs (as do most guys). I like pantyhose. I like what I consider pretty feet.
I also like women with a lot of character, who are silly, playful, who are intelligent.

I met a girl yesterday who didn't have big boobs, but was beautiful, very intelligent, full of character...and damn she was hot because of what was on the inside!

I could say I want to get rid of my fetish for stockings, or big boobs...but as soon as a girl walked in wearing nylons, and/or had huge beautiful boobies....it's over with!
I'm turned on!

I consider myself lucky I have all these likes. I can find a girl attractive that other guys wouldn't because of it, and I have EXTRA turn on's that they don't!

So if my sex life ever gets boring..."Hey, wifey, why not wear a nice dress and my favorite stockings tonight?" Problem solved, passion back in relationship in however many
minutes it takes for her to get changed! Why would I ever want to get rid of this gift? I can restore the passion in any relationship in multiple ways that a vanilla person
never could!
 
First off, you can't "get rid of" a fetish.
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You can! Call it 'denial' or 'suppression', and it is possible if you want to conform. You have disregard for your own happiness; unfortunately, it will cause depression and resentment for your unnatural fornication towards the Boring.
 
if someone tells you tickling is not hot, you should ask for a footjob and then tickle their feet with that lol
 
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