That is one CRAAAZYYY B*TCH!!!

http://www.local6.com/money/4162598/detail.html

Yeah, think i'll stay single for a while.

omg damn that is one screwed up girl

The sad part of this is that those 2 guys will have this haunt them for a long time Everytime they apply for a job they have to answer yes on the job application where they ask if they have ever been arrested Plus they have those huge legal fees

I'm most angry at the police and the Sheriff for just believing her without an actual investigation into the matter.

To think, a woman claims and crys physical assault, and they just take her damn word for it. It sure as hell wouldn't happen the other way around now would it? No, thats just as believable as these lies were after the fact.

I see this just as much as a sexist issue as anything else. If a man claimed a woman assaulted him he'd be just as credible as this crazy b*tch is now, even if his wounds were legitimate and he was truthful the time entire time.

There are many loopholes like this in the law enforcement system, and they need to be fixed in the name of justice!

Word of mouth, eye-witnesses, and even proof isn't necessarily enough. Its about piecing these things together and finding the inconsistancies in them and then focusing on that. Something that the cops didn't do until much later apparently and too little too late. Law Enforcement needs to stop dragging it's a$$!

I admire that man for the patience and pity he has. This story doesn't suprise me one bit.

Me too Krokus, me too. His handling of all of this, especially emotionally is admirable.

I have a perfect record, I've never been to jail, and like him, I've never even been given a tour of a jail or a cell block, so I know exactly how he felt and the undeserved shame in being in such a position and being accused of whatsus.

And thats just the humiliation of being treated like a criminal. All of these fees, bills and such that he has, as well as a ruined name is additional salt in the wound.

Things like this may be common, but I don't think I could ever become desensatized to them. 😡

Although I think what happened to him was absolutely horrible, I hope he's learned a valuable lesson about having casual relationships with strangers. This paragraph in the report struck me as interesting:

"Talking to police, Faanes blamed her actions on alcohol and anxiety drugs, but Trason Brooks suspects another cause: "She wanted me in prison the rest of my life ... In her mind we're getting married, we're having kids, we're going to be happily ever after. I made it clear to her that's not what my intentions were."

At what point did she know what his "intentions" were-Before or after he screwed her? I bet this will be the last woman he uses for his pleasure. You never know what nut case you'll come across while you're playing games with other's emotions.

Before I get my head handed to me on a plate, let me explain my thoughts. When it comes to relationships, it takes two to tangle. He allowed this woman in his life for his physical needs. He basically brought his problems to his own doorstep. Women don't like feeling used and there are some seriously emotionally damaged women out there who are just one relationship away from landing in the funny farm. Unfortunately, some of them are attracted to the very types of men who keep them in an emotional quagmire (spell) and the problem just gets worse until someone does something desparate.

I hope she gets the help she needs. I hope he's learned to make better choices other than a face and body to have relationships with.

Folks, I wish I could take one side or the other-it would make it so much easier for me to simply agree with the masses. But I'm not wired that way and like to work my way back to the "real" source of a problem. I like to take it back to the beginning so all sides can be reviewed and just not talk out of basic emotions.

This is kis returning this thread to the original owner and waiting for the very interesting responses coming from my post.........

I hope those two guys sue the holy living crap out of that woman and every single law enforcement agency involved. A massive award would make other agencies think twice before arresting someone on circumstantial (and rather poor) evidence...


In lieu of sending the woman involved to prison, I would rather see her involuntarily committed to a state mental health facility, either until she is no longer a danger to others or until the end of her life, whichever comes first. Having one's feelings hurt is no excuse for using law enforcement and the media to effectively destroy someone else's life. There is something very definitely wrong with this woman, mentally speaking...

asutickler said:

I hope those two guys sue the holy living crap out of that woman and every single law enforcement agency involved. A massive award would make other agencies think twice before arresting someone on circumstantial (and rather poor) evidence...

Having one's feelings hurt is no excuse for using law enforcement and the media to effectively destroy someone else's life. There is something very definitely wrong with this woman, mentally speaking...

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I hope everyone understands that I expect her to become accountable for her actions. She broke the law and ruined the reputations of two men and she should pay dearly for that. I expect law enforcement will be properly be trained so they don't get the crap sued out of them again for false imprisonment.

This is much more than her getting her feelings hurt-that is a very simplified statement and it minimalizes the situation. There is something very wrong with her mentally and she may have been used by another man and she snapped. There were many times in past relationships where I wanted revenge for what "he" did to me and would come up with so many scenarios as to how I would extract revenge.

Two things happened: first, I realized that if I did something to hurt him, I'd hurt him! I'd end up in jail, he'd end up hurt and it's not worth the pain of revenge. Second: I obviously did something to make this man feel he could hurt, use or abuse me and get away with it. I simply just can't blame the guy for all of my problems. Besides, I should NEVER give another human being that kind of control over my life! But it took years to learn that, and unfortunately many women never will. They'd rather blame others for their mess!

Unfortunately guys, I'm more evolved than a lot of women so you should check your motives and how you treat the women in your lives. If you're not treating her right, you'll never know when she'll break and become bitter and vindictive. No little girl ever responds if asked what she wants to do when she's grown up, "I want to walk around bitter and emotionally damaged!" I want to become vindictive and vengeful and hurt someone I once loved! Years of broken hearted relationships cause women once sweet and loving become sour, bitter, vengeful, and vindictive.

This woman is one very sick individual. Uusually, with all the domestic violence in this world, I tend to air on the side of a woman who says shes being abused. In this case, this girl absolutely ruined the lives of innocent people, and she should pay. She should be sued for every penny she'll ever make or have, and be pressed and punished on charges of perjury, and other offenses. A huge judgement and jail time is what this bitch needs, along with professional counseling, so she'll never do this again. A truly mentally unbalanced individual. I feel very sorry for the men and their families. Additionally, the police and any agency who aided this woman without throughly checking out her story needs to be held accountable, and a large lawsuit is needed against them as well.

Mitch

asutickler said:

I hope those two guys sue the holy living crap out of that woman and every single law enforcement agency involved. A massive award would make other agencies think twice before arresting someone on circumstantial (and rather poor) evidence...


In lieu of sending the woman involved to prison, I would rather see her involuntarily committed to a state mental health facility, either until she is no longer a danger to others or until the end of her life, whichever comes first. Having one's feelings hurt is no excuse for using law enforcement and the media to effectively destroy someone else's life. There is something very definitely wrong with this woman, mentally speaking...

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Amen to that... I sure as fuck am not gonna move to Florida anytime soon.

she has to live with noone but herself. her actions will haunt her mind for years to come, I assure you.

Knox The Hatter said:

It's a dangerous world out there, guys. Don't let the little head do the thinnin' for the big one, now.

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I couldn't have said this better myself. Wait a minute.... I didn't say it! But Knox hits the point directly. Don't seek to get your "funky" off without reviewing the possible consequences!

Also, when one of your friends gets into such a situation, don't even think of testifying on his behalf!

Heh. "Funky."

That's absolutely horrific. Why is there such an imbalance in the justice system?

buggs said:

Because the dickheads who actually deserve this type of legal treament pushed the pendulum all the way to the other side. Now it is the case where if you are the man, no matter what, you are wrong. They don't even investigate in most cases now to see if what the guy is saying is true. I do agree that guys who are dicks do deserve this, but there are guys going to jail now who did nothing and the whole case is based on someones word.

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I wish what you're saying is true, but it is not. Plenty of women, myself included, are getting screwed around by the same system you despise.

Examples include being taken away for domestic violence because he was a white male and I a black female and he lied and said I started the fight. I guess when they looked at the broken arm I gave him while defending myself and that I was bigger than him they assumed he was telling the truth. The day of the trial I was told by the prosecutor that if I continued the case he would put me on the stand as the defendant. How the hell about that? I felt I had been victimized twice!! Needless to say I dropped the charges and moved out of the city. I'm not paying taxes in a city that totally disrespects me in the courtroom!

My son's sperm-donor father has not paid one dime in child support, yet was given permission to appear in juvenille court when my son got into some trouble. He created such a scene my son vowed to never speak to him again.

There are women catching hell and not getting justice in the courts. I oughta know--I was one of them!!!

kis123 said:

I guess when they looked at the broken arm I gave him while defending myself and that I was bigger than him they assumed he was telling the truth.

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Welcome to the wonderful world of being assaulted by some nut who just happens to be smaller and less physically capable than yourself... Unless someone happens to see the whole thing, you will be assumed to be at fault, REGARDLESS of the outcome.

This is an incredibly sad story. I think that chick needs life in prison. Actually, if it were up to me we'd hang her or burn her at the stake, but i'm old school.

And Kis,

Can you give this guy the benefit of the doubt? No where in that article does it hint that he was "playing with her emotions". Couldn't he have dumped her when he began to realize she was a psycho bitch? I realize you've had some bad experiences but please don't try to shift ANY of the blame to this dude without knowing the story, especially after what he's been through.


Probably the saddest part about this is I know several girls that are capable of this exact type thing. You have to be very careful who you mess around with these days.

kyle said:

And Kis,

Can you give this guy the benefit of the doubt? No where in that article does it hint that he was "playing with her emotions". Couldn't he have dumped her when he began to realize she was a psycho bitch? I realize you've had some bad experiences but please don't try to shift ANY of the blame to this dude without knowing the story, especially after what he's been through.

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He already admitted that his intentions were different than hers. For him it was a casual physical relationship. She, already emotionally unbalanced, thought differently. Personally, you shouldn't be in bed with a woman you don't want to be serious with. That's one of the biggest problems in the world today, sex without consequences! There is no such thing as sex without consequences!! The sooner some people find that out, the world will be a better place!

Do you mean he didn't notice changes in her after he told her this wasn't serious? Or was he too busy reaping the benefits without feeling responsibility? It's no doubt at all what his intentions were-he said them in the article. She shouldn't have done what she did, but he shouldn't have used her to gratify himself.

One of these days you fellas are going to understand that many (not all) women view sex differently than you. Some of us are stupid to equate sex with love, while many (not all) of you guys are only there to get your needs met. If it's good, you may even stay around. If it's really good, you may make the relationship exclusive (for her anyway) she goes monogomous (spell) while some (not all) of you continue to cat around because she's not what you thought she was. Why not just be a man and end the relationship and admit you don't want to commit? Why drag it out and get mad if she's bitter and vindictive because she felt used by the guy? Why do that at all?

There are consequences in what you do. If you don't want to suffer the consequences, watch your motives and don't screw around with a woman you don't want to be serious with unless you BOTH agree that it is casual. Then what happened to him won't happen to any of you.

I take sex in a relationship very seriously and that is why I choose to be single while I meet a few milestones in my life. Is it fun to be by yourself? No! Does it get lonely? Hell yes it does! Would I like some casual, no committment, no strings attached sex? Oh, hell yeah! However, I know me and I know I can't do things that way so I stay celibate until I think the right man has come along. But if he isn't the right one, I will not drag it out no matter how much in love he claims to be with me or I with him.

But as I said before, I'm a little more evolved in this area than a lot of women. You may not get a woman like me. You may get a woman like her--what will you (WITH ALL "YOU'S" BEING HYPOTHETICAL) do if you casually screw around with a hot looking psychopath????

Sorry but I still say check your motives for being with a woman. You should be doing that before you jump in the bed, but there are some people who screw around like rabbits and don't look back for the consequences. I don't know if this guy was that callous, to be exact, I never called him callous at all. I say that he opened the door for this mess by messing with the head of an already unbalanced woman. If you're spending time talking and getting to know someone before you take your clothes off, the conversation alone may have been enough to see the signs. But if you're too busy in the bed and aren't talking much, it takes longer to find out what you need to know about a person's ability to be in a relationship.

It always takes two to make or break a relationship. He is not without responsibility. I bet he'll take some time to get to know the next one better. I never said he deserved what he got--I'm not that cold. But he opened the door and she came through like a bull in a china shop!! You don't have to like my responses, but most of the people who responded to this are guys. It doesn't hurt to have the perspective of a woman older than both participants who has some mileage and road rash in her life with a lot of heartbreak that could've been avoided, yet did nothing vindictive or cruel in retaliation. And I've been treated a lot worse than her!

I must say that I agree with kris that to simply use someone as an object for your own physical pleasure, is completely wrong and to have a relationship goes any length of time with one knowing that their intentions are that different is doing nothing but playing with someone's emotions and is beyond wrong, it is evil. There is no sex without consequences and if you are not ready to accept that responsiblity, don't have sex. (oooooohhh I know someone is going to flame me for that one)

On the other side, I know of a girl that actually got buruises from her ex-boyfriend. He was put in jail for a while. It turned out that she got buruises because she was attacking him (this little 110lb gal) and he grabbed her arms to get her to stop (from what I hear he was a big guy). Most likely he grabbed too hard. But it was him was in jail and nothing will ever happen to her, they would laugh him out of court.

If the girl in the story was donig this out of pure vengence, then she should be locked up and forced to pay for their lost wages, lawyer's fees and punitive damages. It does seem that she need mental help and then should be held and treated in a mental instution.

All in all, girls like that make me sometimes glad that I am "baptist monk."

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He already admitted that his intentions were different than hers. For him it was a casual physical relationship. She, already emotionally unbalanced, thought differently.

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You know, if a woman wants to be absolutely certain that a man is not just using her for sex, she could just not have sex with him.


Some of you are making this sound like the male in a relationship is generally the only one who enjoys sex. This simply isn't true. Again, if a woman dosen't want to risk being used, or dosen't enjoy intercourse, she can always simply say "no." Problem solved.

kis123 said:

It always takes two to make or break a relationship. He is not without responsibility.

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If you mean responsibility for the relationship ending, I agree. If you mean responsibility for what this deranged woman did afterwards - HELL no.

Everyone's getting bent out of shape over my comments. Sorry, but I stand by my words 100%. I see BOTH sides of this situation, not just the guy's side. I never said she was justified in her behavior. She's a professional woman and should've handled herself differently. She is not the only woman in this world who was hurt or used by a man and she won't be the last either! However, there are some sick puppy's out there and if you choose to get in bed with one of them, be prepared to pay the price for it.

Once again, there is no sex without consequences!!! That's why people need to wait before they start screwing each other. If you're saying "I really like you" that's not enough to jump in bed. Sex is powerful and some people think it's for physical gratification, and some feel it's an expression of love. You don't have to guess which side of the equation I'm on. I'm not messing anyone I don't have a love match with. But that's kis' choice to make. Those of you who feel otherwise should have a conversation with your partner and be open about how you feel before you start screwing around.

You don't have to agree with me because I know I'm absolutely without any doubt, right and am not concerned about rebuttal. I had a friend tell me many years ago "when you lay, you pay!" He's been dead from AIDS for 11 years-he died at 29yrs old. He wanted sex without consequences too--he didn't get it his way either!

Asutickler, you have a point. There are some women that are still stupid enough to think that sex keeps a man. It does not--if he's a *****, no amount of sex will keep him with her. But it doesn't stop stupid women from trying. Eighteen months is a long time to realize that she's not the "one". What took him so long to realize that? Was it the free ride in bed perhaps? If so, he's just as much to blame. You shouldn't string anyone along for your own benefit. It's wrong and whatever comes out of that is BOTH PARTIES' RESPONSIBILITY! Maybe next time he'll check the psycho-meter before he pulls his boxers down!

I never said she was justified in her vengence. She ruined the lives of two men possibly forever. That needs to be dealt with as harshly as possible legally and she needs psychological help so she can appropriately function in the world. She needs to find out why she attracts men who love her in bed, but won't give her the committment she needs. She has a lot of work to do and deal with the consequences of her behavior.

So, you guys who are hating what I've said are just going to have to continue hating because what I've said is true! You better check your motives before you start any kind of relationship so you don't end up bedding down a nutcase! If you don't, you've opened the door for whatever happens to you.