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Ticklerguy4u said:
Well most women on here would like to know that you think they have a brain and arent just walking feet and armpits. So it isnt so much as a date but trying to find out whether you are a weirdo or not. Its a safety precaution.
Again, being tied and tickled has to do with trust. There are many woman on here who doesn't care about getting to know the guy. They are like-minded and just want to be tickled by anyone. Unfortunately , they dont post very much and are usually lurking. Its a reckless way of thinking in my opinion.
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please dont get me wrong, ticklerguy4u, i don't wanna doubt a word you say, I'm sure you speak out of experience and i am new here, but it just seems so unbelievable to me.
i don't even wanna think about weirdos, btw, you will probably not be able to check them out just by meeting once anyway, but I would never want to be tickled by ANYONE, just as long as he is not a weirdo. being tied and tickled is all about trust specially as I'm very much into the psychological aspect of the whole game, getting to know the guy very well, before completely putting myself into his hands is absolutely essential. without being sure, that he fully understands what I like and without developing the necessary feeling from my side it would not work at all for me. i know this is just me, as i am very specific in my fantasies, but I would really like to see the opinion of some other girls. is it really fine with anyone, as long as he seems to be a decent guy?
 
CaptainQuantum said:
One thing that one TMF lady had to school me on, was that you don't try to set up a 1st encounter with a lady on here just to tickle. "I don't wanna date you, just tickle you", that sort of thing. Until she explained that to me, I got a lot of shit from her in the chatroom. Not that any other guy on here has done this, I could possibly be the only one as socially inept as I am 🙁 So now I know that IF a lady from here wanted to meet me in person, she wants to date, hang out, get to know each other, whatever. And if tickling (or something else) happens it happens I guess.
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CQ,

I don't know about any other women on here, but I don't have to date someone to have a tickle session. I do wanna get to know them first tho. I just wanna be comfortable around them, that way I will be comfortable in the session. But I would definitely say no to someone who was trying to set up a tickle session on 1st chat, even 2nd or 3rd chat...(I could go on, but you get the idea, lol). I would at least like to be on a friend level before any tickling would go on.

--T
 
Fidji999 said:
please dont get me wrong, ticklerguy4u, i don't wanna doubt a word you say, I'm sure you speak out of experience and i am new here, but it just seems so unbelievable to me.
i don't even wanna think about weirdos, btw, you will probably not be able to check them out just by meeting once anyway, but I would never want to be tickled by ANYONE, just as long as he is not a weirdo. being tied and tickled is all about trust specially as I'm very much into the psychological aspect of the whole game, getting to know the guy very well, before completely putting myself into his hands is absolutely essential. without being sure, that he fully understands what I like and without developing the necessary feeling from my side it would not work at all for me. i know this is just me, as i am very specific in my fantasies, but I would really like to see the opinion of some other girls. is it really fine with anyone, as long as he seems to be a decent guy?
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Oh god no, it's not fine with anyone....at least with me. There are some really strange people who frequent this site, and I've met some of them. I wouldn't even wanna meet up with some of these people for coffee, much less allow them to tie and tickle me. I absolutely agree with you wanting to get to know the guy well BEFORE putting your body in his hands (no pun intended).
 
I just think not at least learning about the girl is a pretty selfish way of thinking. Hire a hooker then. They are used to meeting strangers all the time.
 
Ticklerguy4u said:
I just think not at least learning about the girl is a pretty selfish way of thinking. Hire a hooker then. They are used to meeting strangers all the time.
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ditto!

The "I'll take your *put here the body part you prefer*, and I don't care about you" approach is extremely sad.
 
Tamia78 said:
CQ,

I don't know about any other women on here, but I don't have to date someone to have a tickle session. I do wanna get to know them first tho. I just wanna be comfortable around them, that way I will be comfortable in the session. But I would definitely say no to someone who was trying to set up a tickle session on 1st chat, even 2nd or 3rd chat...(I could go on, but you get the idea, lol). I would at least like to be on a friend level before any tickling would go on.

--T
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Yes, that about sums it up for me too.
 
Maybe it's just me, but...

...I don't think so, because I'm nothing special.
In the short time I've been on this site I've communicated in one way or another with more than 50 female members.
Some have disagreed with me, sometimes vehemently.
Some have chosen not to return my communication.
Not one has behaved in any manner I would describe as bitchy, ever, even one time.
I guess I've just been lucky, huh guys?
I mean, it couldn't possibly have anything to do with the way I address them and treat them, could it?
Naaaah. Gotta be just dumb luck.

Mastertank1

We who play and dance are thought mad by they who hear no music.
 
Being lazy I haven't read this entire thread, but I wanted to throw in my two bits.

I'm more likely to not respond at all unless someone keeps bugging me, but one sure way to get on my bad side is to use the moronic form of internet short hand. "C" instead of "see", "U" instead of "you", etc. It makes you look like a 12 year old with a paticularly low IQ. VERY UNIMPRESSIVE. I'm a horrible speller, but I still try to use the whole word. And it won't kill you to use the extra two letters.

Brains are sexy, men. You want to stay on our good side, DO NOT USE THOSE STUPID INTERNET SHORT HANDS.
 
I've had very good experiences with people here. I don't routinely PC in chat or write PM's because I know the gals here get more than enough of that! When I have, though, people have been very kind and gracious and I have no complaints at all. It just takes patience and genuine consideration to build trust.
 
TicklishLurker said:
I'm more likely to not respond at all unless someone keeps bugging me, but one sure way to get on my bad side is to use the moronic form of internet short hand. "C" instead of "see", "U" instead of "you", etc. It makes you look like a 12 year old with a paticularly low IQ. VERY UNIMPRESSIVE. I'm a horrible speller, but I still try to use the whole word. And it won't kill you to use the extra two letters.

Brains are sexy, men. You want to stay on our good side, DO NOT USE THOSE STUPID INTERNET SHORT HANDS.
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Ticklerguy4u <------- :cry1:
 
Ticklerguy4u said:
Ticklerguy4u <------- :cry1:
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A screen name is one thing. But when you pepper your posts or PMs with them until it doesn't make sense.... UG! I hate that.
 
Just so you guys know...

The content of the initial PM isn't the only thing that matters. When I get a PM from someone I don't know, one of the first things I might do before responding is a search for all posts by that person. I've received a couple of PMs that were borderline interesting/polite, done a search for that person's posts, and discovered quickly that these were not people whose attention I wished to encourage.

Anyway, I figure I'm probably not alone in this. I'm not suggesting that people be anything but themselves when they post, but it does make sense to think about the things you say. And it's certainly true that the more you appear on the forum, being the funny, cool, intelligent person that you are, the better your PMs are likely to be received. I also just want to make the point that if someone doesn't answer your PM, there might not have been anything wrong with the PM - she might have decided the two of you were incompatible before you ever sent it. And let's face it - that could very well be. 😉
 
LindyHopper said:
The content of the initial PM isn't the only thing that matters. When I get a PM from someone I don't know, one of the first things I might do before responding is a search for all posts by that person...Anyway, I figure I'm probably not alone in this.
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Quite right. I do exactly this. Finding very few or no posts doesn't mean I won't reply, but I do feel more comfortable being able to do some research (certainly if we're talking about ever meeting, for any reason).
 
Yes...

lk70 said:
Quite right. I do exactly this. Finding very few or no posts doesn't mean I won't reply, but I do feel more comfortable being able to do some research (certainly if we're talking about ever meeting, for any reason).
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I should certainly hope so.

Mastertank1

We who play and dance are thought mad by they who hear no music.
 
Okay, I do have one more "turn off" when it comes to PMs. I mention it now because it's happened for the 5th or 6th time since I chose to reveal who I am. (One time it happened three times in the same day.)

Please, when you're PMing someone for the first time, don't send out your phone number. It makes you seem utterly desperate and a little creepy. I don't and will not give out mine without a deep sense of trust. Having my number is a privilage, not a right. So when you send me your's without having known me you're assuring I'll delete your PM without replying. I'm sorry if this seems rude, but some strange guy or gal just up and sending their phone number makes me feel like I'm in an episode of Law & Order: SVU. I'm sorry, but it's just plain creepy to me.
 
I've kept pretty quiet about this thread so here is my two cents....I've PM'd quite a few ladies on this forum. And all have replied back. Just be polite and don't jump right in with "tickling stuff". If you get to know them well enough through chats and PM's and even phone calls later, everything you ever wanted to know about their ticklish spots will come out as they get more comfortable with you. Try starting PM's with " Hi, my name is..... How are you tonight?. It really does work. Trust me on that. I'f you don't believe me..ask MzChaos. We've hit it off wonderfully. And we didnt even talk tickling until days after we met. Imagine that!...So guys..just be polite and be yourself..It's the key.
 
shooter said:
I've kept pretty quiet about this thread so here is my two cents....I've PM'd quite a few ladies on this forum. And all have replied back. Just be polite and don't jump right in with "tickling stuff". If you get to know them well enough through chats and PM's and even phone calls later, everything you ever wanted to know about their ticklish spots will come out as they get more comfortable with you. Try starting PM's with " Hi, my name is..... How are you tonight?. It really does work. Trust me on that. I'f you don't believe me..ask MzChaos. We've hit it off wonderfully. And we didnt even talk tickling until days after we met. Imagine that!...So guys..just be polite and be yourself..It's the key.
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We hit it off because you cared enough about me as a person to get to know me better. It's nice being known as a woman with pretty, ticklish feet than pretty, ticklish feet that happens to be attached to a woman. It's also because you treat me and talk to me like a lady with politeness and respect.
Sure this is a tickling forum, and all that other stuff is fine for the threads, and I know I don't speak for all the women here... but in my PM inbox, my spaces are reserved for gentlemen. The only other qualities I look for in a PM friend, is intelligence and a great sense of humor... and Shooter, you've got all that and then some.
 
*Bump*

I had to bump this thread up because I mentioned it to someone, and I hope others can learn from this if they haven't read it already......
Sorry to those who have already read and responded. :blush:

--T
 
No Problem with me Tamia. I have had the recent need to want to recommend it also. Thanks for giving it a nudge.
 
Mz Chaos said:
No Problem with me Tamia. I have had the recent need to want to recommend it also. Thanks for giving it a nudge.
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Maybe you ladies should put a link to this thread in your signatures or profiles or something. It may not help the hopeless, but...lol.

There are a ton of posts in this thread. What the hell, I'll weigh in.... I can probably count on one or two hands the total number of ladies I've PM'd here over the years. Most of those were for platonic reasons so they were only good for a couple of exchanges. It didn't matter who stopped first, because as far as I knew, neither of us cared. I think I tried a random one years ago that was ignored; I left that alone, of course. And the one or two I thought had potential died of "natural causes"..lol.

Still, judging from the posts in this thread, I think I'm at least as selective about who I approach here as many ladies are about to whom they respond. That doesn't say anything about the outcome, of course, but no one wants to waste anyone else's time. As someone else (lk70?) mentioned, checking someone's past posts is actually a pretty good filter. I've used it plenty. I recommend all guys give it a try before the inital PM. Unless you're one of the hopeless cases solely looking for someone's tickle-related credentials, that little ditty it's virtually <i>guaranteed</i> to lighten your PM "to do" list. LOL It also can only make things less stressful for the ladies too, so everyone wins.
 
Oh good! Some people CAN read...whew! I was wondering! Also, to the one who NEEDED to read this......learn some manners, and maybe, JUST maybe.....you might get a lee.....probably not tho.

--T
 
Tamia78 said:
Oh good! Some people CAN read...whew! I was wondering! Also, to the one who NEEDED to read this......learn some manners, and maybe, JUST maybe.....you might get a lee.....probably not tho.

--T
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I wouldn't be surprised if we were talking about the same guy. What I hate is when some men forget we are ladies and talk to us like we are sluts. Dude... if you want stroke material... they sell magazines for that... the ladies on here are not here to supply your jollies.
 
I couldn't agree with you more.

All the ladies around here deserve repsect.

Mz Chaos said:
I wouldn't be surprised if we were talking about the same guy. What I hate is when some men forget we are ladies and talk to us like we are sluts. Dude... if you want stroke material... they sell magazines for that... the ladies on here are not here to supply your jollies.
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