Ladies on this site?

[Italian_Touch]

Just my two cents...

we're all here either to share our fetish and/or to make connections.
So I would not find surprising or disrespectful if a first PM contact with a girl is indeed about tickling. I guess that the subject can be a reasonable ice-breaker. Then if the conversation flows, everything is fine. If it becomes compulsive about tickling, well, there are good reasons to cut it, maybe after a warning... (and if the guy just don't understand, at least he had a chance), if both don't like it.

As dtrell pointed out, there is a difference between a first PM ignored and a sudden cease of conversation without obvious reasons.
SPeaking about instant messages, I got several "Hi, what's up?" messages ignored. Fine. Mz Chaos is right when she says that everybody is free to choose who and when to speak to.
A couple of times it happened that communications were shut down after some time with no apparent reason. That pissed me off.

If somebody has issues, fine. Nobody is here living behind the keyboard. But, as in real life, there are people that are more or less polite. And that is reflected in how they chat, either guy or girl.

The same politness would be in writing "sorry, I'm busy/I can't chat now/I don't want to chat now" rather than replying with just one-sillable answers. For sure I get the message but I also get that the netiquette does not live there.

I usually assume that if somebody is "online" and "Available", she actually is...

Said that, the vast majority of the people I interacted with are very nice.

 

[Stevereeno]

In my opinion, this website has more quantity than quality in female members. Just because the woman seems good, does not necessarily mean she is good for you. No good deed goes unpunished fellas! If the female is a bitch, she's a bitch. Why try to change her mood? Move on to the next female and feel good you are free and don't have to associate with that type of a woman.

 

[dtrell]

(1)I WILL NEVER win a Miss Congeniality award… nor will I ever apply for one. I’ll be the first one to admit that I am rude, crude and totally unsophistcated. I am a complete and total bitch and proud of it.

(2)But to those who treat me with respect, I treat with equal respect.

(3)You seem to think I really give a shit what the folks who I have put on ignore think of me.

(4)Wow, maybe their attitude is one of the reason’s why they are on ignore OR as hindsight, one of the reason’s why I am glad they are on there…

(1) there is no doubt about that, and there is no argument about that...add inconsiderate as an adjective.
(2) thats debatable
(3) its fairly obvious you dont
(4) and im sure they are just as happy they are on your ignore list as you are happy to have them on there (refer to the proudness in (1) for more info)

 

[dtrell]

(1)It can be awkward to end a relationship, even if it's just as superficial as a PM exchange and probably no one wants to hurt anyone's feelings, so I imagine just letting it drift away is easier (seemingly).

(2)Kind of like at a party, when you're talking to someone and then you realize there's nothing more to say- you don't say to the person "You don't interest me, I'm not talking to you anymore" do you? Nah, you let your eyes wander away and then you duck away and don't return.

(3) It's part of the human dance, I think.

(4)Ah, I'm not making any sense. See ya!

(1) no its not...its rude and inconsiderate...worrying about hurting each others feelings is what makes people so damn dishonest and disingenuous.

(2) it depends on what youve already discussed doing in your conversations and other statements made to each other.

(3) which tells you what i think of humans

(4) sure you are, i just dont agree with all of it

 

[dtrell]

(1)As dtrell pointed out, there is a difference between a first PM ignored and a sudden cease of conversation without obvious reasons.

(2)A couple of times it happened that communications were shut down after some time with no apparent reason. That pissed me off.

(3)If somebody has issues, fine. Nobody is here living behind the keyboard. But, as in real life, there are people that are more or less polite. And that is reflected in how they chat, either guy or girl.

(4)The same politness would be in writing "sorry, I'm busy/I can't chat now/I don't want to chat now" rather than replying with just one-sillable answers. For sure I get the message but I also get that the netiquette does not live there.

(5)Said that, the vast majority of the people I interacted with are very nice.

(1)absolutely

(2)i dont blame you in the least..thats my point

(3) and some people seem polite but really arent...and id add considerate

(4) netiquette doesnt exist, neither does consideration for others outside your little world

(5) i wouldnt call it a vast majority..id say 2/3 have been

 

[dtrell]

In my opinion, this website has more quantity than quality in female members. Just because the woman seems good, does not necessarily mean she is good for you. No good deed goes unpunished fellas! If the female is a bitch, she's a bitch. Why try to change her mood? Move on to the next female and feel good you are free and don't have to associate with that type of a woman.

i wouldnt paint all of the women on here with a broad brush like that in your first sentence...but your last sentence is right on the money.

 

[TickledToDeath]

i wouldnt paint all of the women on here with a broad brush

Actually, narrow brushes tickle more and if you paint tickle with them, a narrow brush will make it last longer.

😀

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

Who likes cheese? Anyone? 😀

 

[sparkybdj]

good thread

well for me, every woman i've had the pleasre of talkin to were very nice, never had even the slightest bit of bitchyness. as for cheese luv, guess it depends, hehehe.

 

[Mz Chaos]

Actually, narrow brushes tickle more and if you paint tickle with them, a narrow brush will make it last longer.

😀

I'm making out my shopping list... what color paints would you like me to get?

 

[TickledToDeath]

I'm making out my shopping list... what color paints would you like me to get?

Hunter and Forest Green
Some black and some red should do nicely.
Midnight blue, white and silver if you can find it.

 

[Mz Chaos]

Hunter and Forest Green
Some black and some red should do nicely.
Midnight blue, white and silver if you can find it.

Gotcha... I don't suppose there's a chance that you'd want watercolors???

 

[dtrell]

wow...so much for frank discussion. TTD, i love ya man, but i think some interesting discussion was going on in this thread.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Gotcha... I don't suppose there's a chance that you'd want watercolors???

Water colors don't show as well and the water itself will reduce the overall effect and affect.

A water based paint is much better and can be washed off.
Actually, soft scrub brushes will work fine in the removal of said paint along with a no tears soap or shampoo and the artist could do the removing thus creating yet another .......... tickle episode.

 

[TickledToDeath]

wow...so much for frank discussion. TTD, i love ya man, but i think some interesting discussion was going on in this thread.

Thanks bro..............but as for the one liner...joke....sorry bro, I just cannot help myself sometimes when I see an opportunity for a one liner or wisecrack.

Carry on...

 

[isabeau]

wow...so much for frank discussion. TTD, i love ya man, but i think some interesting discussion was going on in this thread.

i agree there were some interesting discussions going on here. and to add my two cents worth, in all honesty i have tried to answer as many pms as i can. and not try to be bitchy about it, however there are days when i just dont feel like answering and unfortunately decided to ignore the pm rather than explain why i didnt want to chat at that particular time. sue me, i'm not always as nice as i seem to be.

isabeau

ps but i usually am nice.

 

[dtrell]

Thanks bro..............but as for the one liner...joke....sorry bro, I just cannot help myself sometimes when I see an opportunity for a one liner or wisecrack.

Carry on...

no problem bro...noone loves a good one liner like i do...i am not one of the ones on here with no sense of humor.

 

[sparkybdj]

its ok

i agree there were some interesting discussions going on here. and to add my two cents worth, in all honesty i have tried to answer as many pms as i can. and not try to be bitchy about it, however there are days when i just dont feel like answering and unfortunately decided to ignore the pm rather than explain why i didnt want to chat at that particular time. sue me, i'm not always as nice as i seem to be.

isabeau

ps but i usually am nice.

its ok Is, we still luv ya, u r human and some days r better than others, thats all.

 

[CaptainQuantum]

One thing that one TMF lady had to school me on, was that you don't try to set up a 1st encounter with a lady on here just to tickle. "I don't wanna date you, just tickle you", that sort of thing. Until she explained that to me, I got a lot of shit from her in the chatroom. Not that any other guy on here has done this, I could possibly be the only one as socially inept as I am 🙁 So now I know that IF a lady from here wanted to meet me in person, she wants to date, hang out, get to know each other, whatever. And if tickling (or something else) happens it happens I guess.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

One thing that one TMF lady had to school me on, was that you don't try to set up a 1st encounter with a lady on here just to tickle. "I don't wanna date you, just tickle you", that sort of thing. Until she explained that to me, I got a lot of shit from her in the chatroom. Not that any other guy on here has done this, I could possibly be the only one as socially inept as I am 🙁 So now I know that IF a lady from here wanted to meet me in person, she wants to date, hang out, get to know each other, whatever. And if tickling (or something else) happens it happens I guess.

Well most women on here would like to know that you think they have a brain and arent just walking feet and armpits. So it isnt so much as a date but trying to find out whether you are a weirdo or not. Its a safety precaution.
Again, being tied and tickled has to do with trust. There are many woman on here who doesn't care about getting to know the guy. They are like-minded and just want to be tickled by anyone. Unfortunately , they dont post very much and are usually lurking. Its a reckless way of thinking in my opinion.

 

[dtrell]

One thing that one TMF lady had to school me on, was that you don't try to set up a 1st encounter with a lady on here just to tickle. "I don't wanna date you, just tickle you", that sort of thing. Until she explained that to me, I got a lot of shit from her in the chatroom. Not that any other guy on here has done this, I could possibly be the only one as socially inept as I am 🙁 So now I know that IF a lady from here wanted to meet me in person, she wants to date, hang out, get to know each other, whatever. And if tickling (or something else) happens it happens I guess.

that is absolutely and totally incorrect...most women on here just want to meet for tickling, and are pursuing other romantic interests. in fact, all of the women i have met off of here have been that way...and NO not all of them were married. this crone that told you that in the chat room, is one of the main reasons why i NEVER go into the chatroom...theres just a different type of person on there.

 

[toneus79]

I would like to join in and that, but on this side of the pond PM means Tony Blair.

 

[Italian_Touch]

Actually, narrow brushes tickle more and if you paint tickle with them, a narrow brush will make it last longer.

😀

ROFL! That was refreshing!! Thanks TTD

It's quite interesting how the thread appeared to get hijacked so easily, though LOL

Maybe people don't like arguments, instead of the "I 100% agree"-kind of threads... easy hideout!

BTW... good one! LOL

 

[Italian_Touch]

One thing that one TMF lady had to school me on, was that you don't try to set up a 1st encounter with a lady on here just to tickle. "I don't wanna date you, just tickle you", that sort of thing. Until she explained that to me, I got a lot of shit from her in the chatroom. Not that any other guy on here has done this, I could possibly be the only one as socially inept as I am 🙁 So now I know that IF a lady from here wanted to meet me in person, she wants to date, hang out, get to know each other, whatever. And if tickling (or something else) happens it happens I guess.

I don't completely agree on this one.
This is a tickling oriented fetish site/community, right?
If I am PRIMARILY looking for a g/f I shut down the PC and get a life out of my empty house. If I PRIMARILY want to chat with a friend, I shut down the PC, make a phone call and get out for a coffee. If I want to talk and possibly meet a girl for some good tickling session, I stay here and, yes, I will eventually ask if we can meet just for tickling. I don't see anything unusual or abnormal in this.
And I actually MET for tickling session great members (and it happened that are ones that do not post zillions of posts per day).

Now, said that, we are not in a market or in a shopping center, and, as strong as our fetish can be, I/we know that there are people on the other side, not just feet and armpits and bellybuttons, right? So, it is indeed possible, expectable and welcome that non-tickling related discussions go on as well as friendship might arise. Besides that: how many of us would lke to be tied and tckled by someone who they really don't know AT ALL? Still, I do have proof that it did happened before, even if it is clearly not a general good idea (personal opinion).

Anyway, yes, I think that the "I am not interested in dating you, just tickling you" is the only reasonable approach in the community. It does not mean that, AFTER THAT, it can happen that you are going to date someone.

PLus, I do believe that this should apply to both guys and girls (I stress this because the bottomline of this thread is that there are aggressive and superficial morons bothering little, innocent and passionate girls... which just does not seem to be to be the truth).

 

[hiltopoius]

my research is complete

Yes, I agree, but I have posted on my profile that I'm both. I just think it's dumb to keep asking me the same questions that they can find out if they just do a little research.

Im definately one of the lurkers and voyers of the tmf, I dont post much but this was way to interesting ....Reading all the post made me realize that we are all different in our way of communicating, In my time with this site i have had a great deal of postive feedback from the ladies i pm here . Im actually more happy with knowing that there are so many woman here that enjoy tickling ...Its so incredible and i feel at home here among people of like interest. I have met one lady here in person far from my state just to have dinner and we did not talk about tickling once until we got comfortable with each other...she was a lurker like myself and it was my very first meeting with a lady of this site . I for one will always show respect when communicating with the ladies here and im sure after this long thred that other people will change there aproach when they pm,text,or conversate over the phone.

P.S. Thanks for the cool signature pic mimi and thankyou tamia for letting me know