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Hmm. Told person I'm seeing about my interest...

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She was... uh... not receptive to the notion of tickling. I had tickled her a few times here and there but nothing much.

When I mentinoed it she commented, "oh, that's why you kept doing that" whith a scrunched up face.

After an awkward moment or so she said she had to leave (had somewhere to go... ya, right).

Bummer man. Will see what tomorrow brings. 🙁
 
That's a bummer.... but at least you know NOW rather than three years from now, after your bathtub had acquired thirteen different types of shampoos/hair products, after holding up a big stereo outside of her home playing Journey ballads into her bedroom.

Big props for the courage of bringing it up to her in the first place.
 
aw thats lame man, what a way to make you feel bad ey?

I hope it turns out ok tho 🙂
 
gotta feel way better to get that off your chest though, no? now u can show her some of your awesome clips. maybe a forced orgasm one will inspire her to open her mind.
 
Dang. You hate to hear that. Some people just aren't receptive to the notion. But who knows. Maybe she'll come around.
 
Thats been my usual type experiences. Thats why I finally just gave up on tickling.
 
I am sorry to hear that. But in the end, if you do go your separate ways over this, its better that you were honest with her than to continue a relationship where you couldn't express who you truly are.

I do hope things look better tomorrow. Sending good thoughts your way.
 
marcusb said:
She was... uh... not receptive to the notion of tickling. I had tickled her a few times here and there but nothing much.

When I mentinoed it she commented, "oh, that's why you kept doing that" whith a scrunched up face.

After an awkward moment or so she said she had to leave (had somewhere to go... ya, right).

Bummer man. Will see what tomorrow brings. 🙁
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Sorry to hear that,but just remember,the next girl might be more understanding with it.More people than you think love tickling and are afraid themselves to admit it,ya know.You never know what tomorrow may bring : )
 
marcus, I'm so sorry to hear about her reaction. I do hope that somehow you can come to some compromise with her over this.

As a general statement: Why does it seem that so often, people who have fetishes, are put down, if they happen to mention it to a significant other, who doesnt have the fetish? At the very least, even if the significant other isnt "into the fetish", he or she should realize that the person who does, needs support, and needs to hear something like "Okay, I understand, I'm going to try to accomadate you, but, get me used to it in small doses" Or.. "Dont tickle me every day, but you can do it, several times a week". The exasperated reaction, or weird look, to me, is very closed minded.

Good Luck. Please keep us posted on any further developments.

Mitch
 
Ah, that's always a pain. Some folks can handle it, others can't. Your lady may just need some time to think about it - hopefully, anyway.

If she turns out to be hopelessly squicked, then at least you found it early. One suggestion? Try having the tickling talk before you tickle a lady much (if at all). Part of the squick might come from learning after the fact that you'd been doing things with her that you perceived in sexual terms, without her knowing about it. It can end up feeling sort of objectifying, if you see what I mean?
 
That's ashamed.

No, I'm serious, not the sarcastic 'That's ashamed' from Seinfeld. But ah well, life goes on, and you'll maybe end up better off for it.
 
That really sucks, but at least you know her position on it and can go from there.
 
At least you found out now. No point being with someone who is going to be disgusted and make you feel ashamed about your interests.
 
Mitchell said:
As a general statement: Why does it seem that so often, people who have fetishes, are put down, if they happen to mention it to a significant other, who doesnt have the fetish? At the very least, even if the significant other isnt "into the fetish", he or she should realize that the person who does, needs support, and needs to hear something like "Okay, I understand, I'm going to try to accomadate you, but, get me used to it in small doses" Or.. "Dont tickle me every day, but you can do it, several times a week". The exasperated reaction, or weird look, to me, is very closed minded.
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All my responses have been positive, I've never been put down after confessing. Granted I haven't disclosed very often, but every time I have, the person was in fact accommodating.
 
marcusb said:
When I mentinoed it she commented, "oh, that's why you kept doing that" whith a scrunched up face.
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Scrunched up like she was sucking on a lemon, or scrunched up like she was trying to stifle a fart? Either way, there's other fish in da c.
 
I admire someone who will come straight out and say this. My ex who found out probably already knew because I tickled her all the time. She came to the point where she liked to dish it out too.... then one day she saw a clip on my desktop (DO'H!), and I had tmf in my toolbar history. when I got there she kind of did the "i know something smile", and I knew that she knew.

So my question is, what words do you use when you try to tell someone you are into tickling?? do you beat around the bush, or go straight for the jugular for best results?
 
hi marcus, sorry to hear about your situation. my feeling on this is, that it's good you found this out now.

you really dont wanna be with someone who cant take you for who you are like a few other folks have said. down the line, you'll just end up miserable and unhappy. you've done nothing wrong here, she's the one who did the wrong in my eyes.

i would just move forward and forget about that close minded gal. me personally, i couldn't be bothered with someone like that.

keep your chin up and like someone else said, theres other fish in the sea. the right one will come when its time, and you'll know it when it does! 🙂
 
I'm sorry to hear. Hopefully she is just thinking and will come around. Luckily I haven't had too many issues. Most of the time if I tell a guy I enjoy something, he is more than accomodating with it.

Especially when it comes to sex. I mean I've always seemed to choose rather open-minded guys that were up for trying new things. We discuss what we want to try.

I guess some people just don't understand or outright fear the whole tickling thing. Hopefully she will think things through and come around. Being experimental with play and sex usually pays off.....she will be missing out!
 
I'm going to run with what the other folks said (IE, "You're better off without her") and add a different angle to it.

She's not "thinking about it". You made her feel awkward and rather than discuss it with you, she bolted.

This, fundamentally, is a problem. It means that the relationship is going to have communication issues down the line - and if it wasn't about this, it'd be about something else.

What I wouldn't do is try and guilt her into accepting your fetish... I always cringe when I hear words like "compromise" because it tells me that someone is doing something they don't want to do, and that's not good for either person. I truly believe that if you care about someone, you want to do things they like - whether it be tickling or shopping for Hello Kitty furniture.

What I would do is, say something like "I got the feeling from your reaction when I admitted my fetish that it made you uncomfortable. This is a part of who I am, and if you're not going to accept that then we can't be together."

Yea, it's an ultimatum, but it's better to cut and run than deal with years of simmering resentment that end in a messy breakup. Take it from the expert. :trophy:
 
Aw man, you have my sympathy. That's a hell of a way to make you feel bad about yourself. I really hope your girlfriend can think it through, realize that she hurt your feelings, and apologize for it. Not that she'll magically become receptive to the notion of being tickled, but still. Wishful thinking that it may be, I doubt you deserved that type of reaction.
 
Its not like you said to her I like watching child porn, then I would of understood she had somewhere to go.
 
Riiiiight.

badreligion said:
Sorry to hear that , she sounds like a total bitch
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All she did was comment, "oh, that's why you kept doing that" with a scrunched up face. Maybe she wasn't ready for that info at that point.

She didn't call him a freak, she didn't say he was a pervert, she just left. She's apparently not his type, or he's not hers. Does she have to like what you like in order to be a decent person? Or, because she doesn't act exactly the way YOU think she should, that automatically makes her a bitch?

If she's a bitch for not liking it right off the bat, anyone who cops a 'tude (by the way, the OP seemed to handle it okay) because another person doesn't act like a model from Tickle Abuse is a whiny little f*cking baby.
 
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