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TklshDiva said:
I can care less how others feel seriously Ann. My point was and while writing this topic my voice and my fingers didn't match up.

If I was "raking" him or her over the coals I would have mentioned HIS name. So in fact I wasn't raking his name over the coals just merely expressing MY opinion on the subject matter. I was more or less SHOCKED that here is a guy who has made his "mark" so to speak on this "forum" and all I was doing was asking would you be there when the initial meeting took place?! His comment was "uh no I don't run a bodyguard service". Excuse my french but give me a fucking break okay?!

The attitude that came across with this "guy" again not naming names was down right pathetic. Yes he is entitled to not go but do it with a little more class and respect those around you as well. Takes a lot for someone to ask for help which is what I did ... I hope that when he is in time of need for whatever situation that he doesn't need "help" from me or any of my friends.

This is what people do we offer to be there, to help period. Do you all now understand? thank you
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Obviously, our expectations differ. I have a number of friends here, some of them very close friends. (Just to clarify, I consider all to be aquaintences rather than friends if we haven't met IRL. Even once we've met, it takes time for a friendship to develop. I have a very strict definitiion of what a "friend" is.) I might ask a friend for a favor like that. But, never a simple aquaintence. That would be for the very reason that you chose to ask this person...trust.

I can understand that the way the request was responded to may have been pretty lacking in charity. (I say "may have been" because I don't know how the request was posed or the course the exchange took.) And, I do understand your obvious need to vent your frustration/disappointment in that response. I just wasn't clear on why you were so upset.

The fact that he's a member here who's "made his mark" doesn't mean that he's safe, much less obligated to go out of his way for someone else. I know of people who've "made their mark" who I wouldn't trust at all. So, if it's not someone you know well, I'd recommend caution in asking anyway. People can present themselves as very caring and trustworthy online and be the total opposite.

There are other ways to protect yourself during a first time meet. If you can't find someone who's able/willing to tag along, you might want to consider other options. There are a few suggestions in the safety tips section of Articles in the Library on my site.

Thanks for the clarification. I wish you luck in finding a comfortable way to have some fun.
 
sorry hun, you're in the wrong here. Just because he's well known in the forum, doesn't mean he has to anything you ask. You are certaintly allowed to have an opinion, but you need to respect people who don't agree with you. Also yes, the guy you were talking to seemed to be a little harsh, but still, chill out. Ask someone else.
 
TklshDiva said:
Trust you say? You have to earn your trust and if I don't know you but would like to meet you face to face it is "my" decision as a female to have a friend there. If you have a problem with that those are clearly your demons not mine. 🙂 Have a nice day!
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Im sensing a little attitude here. no need to jump down everyones throat. its no big deal to meet someone by yourself in public to get to know someone before you get strapped down and tickled. have a nice day! :mwahaha:
 
No_Style said:
sorry hun, you're in the wrong here. Just because he's well known in the forum, doesn't mean he has to anything you ask. You are certaintly allowed to have an opinion, but you need to respect people who don't agree with you. Also yes, the guy you were talking to seemed to be a little harsh, but still, chill out. Ask someone else.
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Actually I don't think she's in the "wrong" here sorry hun ha ha ha. "doesn't mean he has to anything you ask." Oh my gawd did you want to say doesn't mean he has to "DO" anything you ask? She actually isn't in the wrong to express her opinion and post a tickling question in the Tickling Discussion Group that is why this section is here is it not?

I just saw the email and clearly it was Rude and Obnoxious the way he responded. Like we all do we express ourselves and rightfully so she is entitled to do so esp on a public forum like this one.

La Di Da
See you around like a donut!
 
ILuvShoes said:
Actually I don't think she's in the "wrong" here sorry hun ha ha ha. "doesn't mean he has to anything you ask." Oh my gawd did you want to say doesn't mean he has to "DO" anything you ask? She actually isn't in the wrong to express her opinion and post a tickling question in the Tickling Discussion Group that is why this section is here is it not?

I just saw the email and clearly it was Rude and Obnoxious the way he responded. Like we all do we express ourselves and rightfully so she is entitled to do so esp on a public forum like this one.

La Di Da
See you around like a donut!
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the rest of us didn't see the e-mail...so No_Style is just going off the original post.
 
Aimee said:
the rest of us didn't see the e-mail...so No_Style is just going off the original post.
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And you don't need to see an email that was clearly between this guy and myself Aimee. I just posted why I was a bit taken back and kept his name out of it so I don't breach confidentiality!

As far as "No Style" is concerned she isn't going off of the original post when you clearly say "Originally Posted by No_Style sorry hun, you're in the wrong here."

Whatever you say sweetie you know best and so does No style. Next time I choose to ask a question or post anything at all Aimee how about if I just come to you and ask for permission to do so would you like that? LOL Yeah not likely sweetness.

I didn't say anything neg I just expressed myself in this section. The way Iluvshoes said it It is a public forum. Not when someone says sorry hun you're in the wrong here! LMFAO That made me laugh

Whatever I'm done
Squash it
 
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Actually I don't think she's in the "wrong" here sorry hun ha ha ha. "doesn't mean he has to anything you ask." Oh my gawd did you want to say doesn't mean he has to "DO" anything you ask? She actually isn't in the wrong to express her opinion and post a tickling question in the Tickling Discussion Group that is why this section is here is it not?

I just saw the email and clearly it was Rude and Obnoxious the way he responded. Like we all do we express ourselves and rightfully so she is entitled to do so esp on a public forum like this one.

La Di Da
See you around like a donut!
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yes, I made a typo..and I agreed that he was probably harsh. I didn't say he was a saint, because as aimee said, I didn't read the e-mail. And also, I think a post like this should be in her blog, rather than here, since she said she 'doesn't care' about anyone's opinion....
 
TklshDiva said:
And you don't need to see an email that was clearly between this guy and myself Aimee. I just posted why I was a bit taken back and kept his name out of it so I don't breach confidentiality!

As far as "No Style" is concerned she isn't going off of the original post when you clearly say "Originally Posted by No_Style sorry hun, you're in the wrong here."

Whatever you say sweetie you know best and so does No style. Next time I choose to ask a question or post anything at all Aimee how about if I just come to you and ask for permission to do so would you like that? LOL Yeah not likely sweetness.

I didn't say anything neg I just expressed myself in this section. The way Iluvshoes said it It is a public forum. Not when someone says sorry hun you're in the wrong here! LMFAO That made me laugh

Whatever I'm done
Squash it
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lmao ...what? this post makes about much sense as your first post.

when did i ever say i wanted to see the PMs? all i was saying is No_Style can only go off what you say in this thread, so IluvShoes really shouldn't have gone off on her because she hasn't read the e-mail.

you started this shit, you need to learn to handle what people say to you, and think before you type.
 
TklshDiva said:
Whatever you say sweetie you know best and so does No style. Next time I choose to ask a question or post anything at all Aimee how about if I just come to you and ask for permission to do so would you like that? LOL Yeah not likely sweetness.

I didn't say anything neg I just expressed myself in this section. The way Iluvshoes said it It is a public forum. Not when someone says sorry hun you're in the wrong here! LMFAO That made me laugh

Whatever I'm done
Squash it
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Wow. Here's where you're wrong, in three parts:

1)You were wrong for assuming that someone who doesn't even know you would accompany you to a private session as your escort. And you obviously did assume it, because his simple, direct 'no' was so offensive to you.

If you met a random guy in a bar and decided to take him home for some casual sex, would you ask the bartender to come along with you because he's 'respected' in the bar? It's just not how things are done.

2) You were wrong for even agreeing to have a tickle session with someone you don't know or feel comfortable enough to be in a room with alone. A minor point, since it's your life...except you knew this wasn't smart, since you weren't comfortable enough to even meet him in private...so yeah...:shrug:

3) You're wrong for criticizing everyone who isn't ready to jump on your hate-bandwagon. They're not criticizing you for expressing an opinion, they're criticizing the opinion you expressed. Because it's wrong.
 
Aimee said:
lmao ...what? this post makes about much sense as your first post.

when did i ever say i wanted to see the PMs? all i was saying is No_Style can only go off what you say in this thread, so IluvShoes really shouldn't have gone off on her because she hasn't read the e-mail.

you started this shit, you need to learn to handle what people say to you, and think before you type.
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I do think before I speak sweetie unlike yourself!
 
instead of asking someone to be your "bodyguard" why didn't you ask the guy you want to have the tickle session with in some public setting to get to know the person to make sure he's okay. Meet him at a McDonalds or something... It's public enough where he can't really hurt you, but private enough to have a private convo to get to know him.
 
TklshDiva said:
I do think before I speak sweetie unlike yourself!
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your not at all wrong in asking for someone to scope out the situation at all and to make sure things are cool before being tickled i tickled a woman once where her hubby wanted to see the whole setup and when he was satisfied he left the room and felt cool with what would happen to his wife.
 
Haha, there's no way that the email the thread starter complains about was nearly as rude as her own replies in this very thread. :nicethread:
 
mtTicklemonster said:
instead of asking someone to be your "bodyguard" why didn't you ask the guy you want to have the tickle session with in some public setting to get to know the person to make sure he's okay. Meet him at a McDonalds or something... It's public enough where he can't really hurt you, but private enough to have a private convo to get to know him.
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Good idea! Thank you 🙂
 
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