I will preface this story with most of you that know me know that I am not a shy guy and that I am pretty up front about everything. My new girlfriend was not one of the women that I would be able to use my charm on and in fact she had me pretty timid to even talk to her initially. Sort of goes against my grain of things.
I started seeing my new girlfriend 4 months ago. At the very begining of my relationship with her we went to a buddys house for a football game and I am the commish for my fantasy league I brought my laptop. Behind the scenes I have approx 1000 tickling clips in my home computer, but I also run a business out of my home and had to hire an office manager. Since I do not want to have my new office manager find all of my " Private files" I moved them to my laptop so I could burn them onto a cd. Hence my files are on my laptop in a folder named "Drunk 1". NOw while I went out to go smoke a cigerette one of my friends wife decides to check something on the internet using my computer. She checks what she wanted and then closes Explorer to see the folder "Drunk 1" on my desktop and she decides to go snooping.
Now seated on the couch is my buddys wife, the one who has my computer, my buddy, and my new girlfriend (of about 3 weeks at this point). I happen to be seated right in front of them as I return from my cigerette. They watched about 30 to 40 videos with no sound. My buddy and his wife are looking at my new girl as they watch the video and she is like I have no idea, I just started seeing him. As about 30 minutes go by I turn and wonder why she is still on my computer and she mentions this clip I have of George Bush giving the finger on camera before a speech, that happens to be within that folder. I answer the question and then hesitate and realize she was in that folder and immediately took the computer away and shut it down. At this point I am completely embarrassed and cant even muster what to say to my new girlfriend.
We leave the party right after the game (again something I would never do, I hang after the game) and I ask her what she saw on my computer. She responds to me very playfully, "I dont know, what did I see?"
"You didnt see anything then", I said
"Oh, I saw something" - her
" Then what did you see?" - me
I dont know what did I see? - her
I can check what you saw - me
You can, here let me open the computer for you then.
As she open up the notebook I knew then she had seen the files. Some of the best ones I had too. I gave her a small explanation and told her she knows something I usually keep very secret to girls I have only been with a couple of weeks. She was very understanding and very ticklish and allowed me to play with her almost immediately. She told me that the clips just confirmed that there was something below the surface to me but was unsure what it was.
My new girlfriend was absolutely correct when she said she was very ticklish. Her worst spot is her inner theighs with her feet and behind her knees tied for second. We play all the time mostly because of the clips she has seen. She has allowed me to tie her up on multiple occasions and has considered playing with a third if she was allowed to tickle them and not be tickled. (She truly is incredibly ticklish) I am trying to get her to attend this years NEST but as of yet she has declined to come. I may have to play with her in such a way that she does come but she is a tough nut to crack once she makes her mind up about something. Plus it is so far away who knows if we will even be together by then.
So the moral of the story is maybe it isnt so bad for people we see intimately to know this about us from the start, rather then hide it. I dont know how long she is going to be around and I would have hated to hide tickling from her. I would have and maybe things wouldnt be going so well.
Just wanted to share!
Jamie
I started seeing my new girlfriend 4 months ago. At the very begining of my relationship with her we went to a buddys house for a football game and I am the commish for my fantasy league I brought my laptop. Behind the scenes I have approx 1000 tickling clips in my home computer, but I also run a business out of my home and had to hire an office manager. Since I do not want to have my new office manager find all of my " Private files" I moved them to my laptop so I could burn them onto a cd. Hence my files are on my laptop in a folder named "Drunk 1". NOw while I went out to go smoke a cigerette one of my friends wife decides to check something on the internet using my computer. She checks what she wanted and then closes Explorer to see the folder "Drunk 1" on my desktop and she decides to go snooping.
Now seated on the couch is my buddys wife, the one who has my computer, my buddy, and my new girlfriend (of about 3 weeks at this point). I happen to be seated right in front of them as I return from my cigerette. They watched about 30 to 40 videos with no sound. My buddy and his wife are looking at my new girl as they watch the video and she is like I have no idea, I just started seeing him. As about 30 minutes go by I turn and wonder why she is still on my computer and she mentions this clip I have of George Bush giving the finger on camera before a speech, that happens to be within that folder. I answer the question and then hesitate and realize she was in that folder and immediately took the computer away and shut it down. At this point I am completely embarrassed and cant even muster what to say to my new girlfriend.
We leave the party right after the game (again something I would never do, I hang after the game) and I ask her what she saw on my computer. She responds to me very playfully, "I dont know, what did I see?"
"You didnt see anything then", I said
"Oh, I saw something" - her
" Then what did you see?" - me
I dont know what did I see? - her
I can check what you saw - me
You can, here let me open the computer for you then.
As she open up the notebook I knew then she had seen the files. Some of the best ones I had too. I gave her a small explanation and told her she knows something I usually keep very secret to girls I have only been with a couple of weeks. She was very understanding and very ticklish and allowed me to play with her almost immediately. She told me that the clips just confirmed that there was something below the surface to me but was unsure what it was.
My new girlfriend was absolutely correct when she said she was very ticklish. Her worst spot is her inner theighs with her feet and behind her knees tied for second. We play all the time mostly because of the clips she has seen. She has allowed me to tie her up on multiple occasions and has considered playing with a third if she was allowed to tickle them and not be tickled. (She truly is incredibly ticklish) I am trying to get her to attend this years NEST but as of yet she has declined to come. I may have to play with her in such a way that she does come but she is a tough nut to crack once she makes her mind up about something. Plus it is so far away who knows if we will even be together by then.
So the moral of the story is maybe it isnt so bad for people we see intimately to know this about us from the start, rather then hide it. I dont know how long she is going to be around and I would have hated to hide tickling from her. I would have and maybe things wouldnt be going so well.
Just wanted to share!
Jamie
What a jerk.
