A Lee question?????

[tickmankyle1]

I love going to munches and gatherings meeting people and non tickling fun is almost as fun if not more so then they play it self. For that if I go to a gathering and don't play I still have a great time. The question is about being a Lee. I could be wrong about this but in my experience males deemed as Ler's or Doms. Durning play I usually keep to my self cause I have been weirded out by a guy before at a gathering and the feeling sucks. I keep to my self cause I feel that if I talk to people men or mainly women I feel that they think I'm just talking to them just enough for them to let me tickle them. When in fact I'm the one who wants to be tickled. Also if I talk to them too much they might wonder why I'm talking to them so much and not trying to meet others, like I might be kinda of stalking them. I'm just wondering if I'm wrong for feeling this way??? I know women feel like a hawks prey as it is well most of them do. I just know the weirded out feeling and never wish that on anyone. Friendship is # 1 for me play is just a bonus just rarely play cause of the way I hold back talking to people cause if I don't say much I could never weird them out. Not that I would mean to do it, just feel I might say something or do something that is ok for one person but freaks someone else out. Not that is happens a lot or there is a lot of it but what offends one person might not another. Keep in mind I still love gathering and munches a lot, it's just the play part that I'm the way I'm. Just wish I didn' t feel that was while in play time but friends to me and respect if important to me. Hugsss and happy tickles that for your 2 cents in advance hugsssss Kyle if you need you can pm me if you don't want to write here

 

[BellybTickler]

I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to express, but I can definitely see you're over thinking something. To the point where it is inhibiting you from enjoying your fetish and fantasies.

When at the munches and gatherings, I would try to calm down and clear my head, let the insecurities flow out the window. Remember, you're there to have a good time and engage in conversation, make friends, and if so, play 😀.

Don't stop yourself by banging your head against the wall over the shouldacouldawouldas or whatifs. Remain calm, collected, and confident; things will smooth over 🙂

 

[ticklishbbw]

Hi there,

You're definitely overthinking things and making yourself crazy! If you are at a munch or other tickling related gathering, that is the perfect time to relax at least a little--you're among others with similar interests. Everyone is there to either talk tickling, meet others who like to be tickled or like to do the tickling. If you find yourself talking to one specific person and they are engaged in the conversation you have nothing to worry about. Now, if they try to end the convo and leave and you're following them around, then you could freak them out a little. Take your cues from the person you're talking to...you can usually tell if someone is not interested in continuing the conversation.

tbbw

 

[tickmankyle1]

Ok I will do my best to explain. I have no problems with munches and non tickling times or parts of the gathering. It is only durning they play time that I have those feelings. I have heard women under there breath say this guy seems to be following me not enough to get a DM yet but if it keeps up I will go... I know some women feel like all they do is get poked and touched at a gathering I'm a lee and I never feel that way... This example is why I feel most people consider men as Ler's or Doms. Not that it is 100% or anything. I once was talking to a girl for 2 hours and never really talked about tickling for some reason, and in the end we found it hard to believe it was 2 hours. She left to go to the restroom and on her way she was like you seem like a nice guy, later if you want a session i will let you tie me up to tickle me. Later that nyte a guy told me she just had a short session and was still tied up if I still wanted to play with her now was my chance. I never really talked to her after our first conversation till the play. I played with her cause I do Ler a little if someone wants . I guess I need to work on being more comfortable durning play maybe.. Thanks for you input