A little help/advice

[Nonynony]

Hey guys! I've been a member of this forum for awhile now. Anyway, at the age of Nineteen i'm struggling with something. I have had a tickle fetish all my life and it's a fun fetish for sure... But, I think about it a lot more then regular sex (in fact, I enjoy tickling more). It's as if my entire sex drive has been replaced with the fetish. I'm also still a virgin and I'm concerned of what's gonna happen when... I'm at that point with a girl.

What do you guys think? Anybody who has some advice or if you are just curious feel free to post a reply.

 

[Violetta]

Hey, Nonynony. 🙂lol) I'd like to offer this word of advice: Don't worry about it. When you find yourself with a girl you're into, as long as you're not fixated at the time on tickling, nature should take over and you'll know exactly what to do. I mean, I'm kinky as all hell, but when I lost my virginity it was vanilla yet satisfying as hell. We were in love, passions took us, and we went right on into it. And that'll probably happen for you, too. Just don't sweat it and try to look at your fetish as something that'll flavor your sex life rather than something that'll be required to enjoy it in the first place. It'll keep it special and keep it from getting in the way.

 

[FLBowler]

Hey man, I'm 19 too, loved tickling all my life, but there was only one girl that really shared the love of tickling with me, and even though i need a girl to be ticklish for me to be attracted to her a little more than if she wasn't, regular will still be fun and feel good. The last you can do is worry, because then you will quit before you start or get close and throw it away. you may even find a girl who is open to new things and allow you try out your kinks, but even if not, you can be happy and get through things even if they are vanilla, it may not be ideal, but at least you aren't holding back your life.

 

[sweetpiggy221]

I agree with Bella hun 😀 I was virgin on my wedding night and I was worried about the same thing you was with my hubby. We both are kinky as hell, but my first time was vanilla and it was nice. Just like Bella said the passion takes over and the body seem to know what to do. We use our fetish to just enhance the love making experience 😀 Don't worry about the issue.

 

[Bebob4999]

I agree with Bella completely. I had the same thing, I thought I could not enjoy vanilla because of a tickling fixation and I had quite a bad sexlife with three of my short lived relations before I came together with my current GF. With her, I am truly in love, and now its great.

Remember that there are quite a lot of factors playing along if you still havent had your first time. You might be nervous, you might be corcerned over the outcome, and you have created this ''I like tickling more then sex'' phantom that also drains away the fun.

Stay cool bout it, and once you get a start, to quote bella, nature will take over🙂

 

[TKLVR181]

I'll add in my .02$, but it's pretty much the same. Don't sweat it--and I'd also like to point out that you are definitely NOT the only one who gets *that* obsessed with it. Trust me, you're not the most tickle-obsessed person I know.

>.> That prestigious title is mine. :lol

And yeah, I married a guy I met on this SITE, and our first time was still 'nilla. Don't sweat it, bud ^^

~K

 

[Bashiku]

Your mind might say 'tickle' and your belly might say 'donut', but your heart will say 'pump it faster you bastard!' 😛

Although it sounds romantic, its all about moment. Hell I have this same fetish, but I am more flustered about kiss, a touch on a thigh or something similar. We are men! 😛

 

[Nonynony]

Thanks guys. This is all great stuff and I'm happy to see I'm not the only one who's had these worries. Thanks again everybody! I really appreciate it :wub