a question about SEX (sex themed question) for the tickle lovers

[Giacomo_Corto]

Sorry If Ive offended anyone by putting this in the wrong section.

Anyways, Ive often wondered.

Can you guys orgasm during sex without the aid of tickling?

For me, I need to be tickled or have the thought of being tickled, to achieve a truly magnificent orgasm.

Now, I'm not exactly a cassanova with the ladies, but the times tickling hasn't been involved I have had quite a hard time (pun not intended) achieving an orgasmic event.
It takes a lot of mind power and I often wonder if she can sense my struggles.

Ha ha, on the other hand, a woman who actually watches my struggles (as I'm tied up being ticked) is another thing all together 😀

So whats it like for everyone else?
Can you Orgasm just with sex alone?
Can you orgasm by just THINKING of tickling?
Do you need to tickle/be tickled for it to happen?


Again, sorry if this post (my first one) offends any one.

 

[Myriads]

Yes I can orgasm from non-tickling sexual interaction. I long ago made a point to not be hamstrung by one of my fetishes for my pleasure.

Tickling can add to my experiences but is not needful to have a good one. It's just one more tool that I can find pleasure in/with.

Myriads

 

[Jagermeistered]

Are you purely into tickling(nothing wrong with that 🙂 )? I have many other outlets that draws my 'attention', and it does not always include tickling.

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

Hello, thanks for your reply Myriads

Interesting. Out of curiosity, how did you manage to make a point not to be hamstrung by one of your fetishes?
For me I felt I had no say in the matter. It just naturally evolved into what it is!

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

Are you purely into tickling(nothing wrong with that 🙂 )? I have many other outlets that draws my 'attention', and it does not always include tickling.

Hello, thanks for your input 🙂

Yes I am purely tickling as far as cumming is concerned, but many things get me aroused. Much of the intimate aspects of love making such as the female form and her anatomy, the smells and feel of her. The kissing and canoodling and seeing her get turned on are all fantastic turn ons for me (as well as many others of course)
As yet, I havent ejaculated without tickling in mind. So , it appears to be essential

Cheers

 

[scorpionldr]

I think sensitivity is a natural part of sex and life as a whole. In short, you can SAY it's all pleasure or passion or whatever. But it ALL tickles on some level. It's just how we suppress/quickly brace ourselves so we can allow ourselves to be in "the moment".

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

I think sensitivity is a natural part of sex and life as a whole. In short, you can SAY it's all pleasure or passion or whatever. But it ALL tickles on some level. It's just how we suppress/quickly brace ourselves so we can allow ourselves to be in "the moment".

esoteric words. I like. Thanks for sharing.
I guess tickling is a form of vibration (or a disturbance in vibration?) and all life is energy condensed to a slow vibration. So . . .
I am being constantly tickled by the forces of our very being.
The schumann resonance is tickling us as we speak.
hmmmm . . .

Anyway. Tickling or no Tickling to Orgasm? 😀

 

[nice.1]

Depends how horny I am really I mean if you hadn't had an orgasm in like a week wouldn't u cum when a girl just touches u or do u still need some form of tickling? I'm a ler and for me orgasming isn't the problem getting it up is and that's only second time around first time I get hard easily regardless what we r doing and the orgasm is dependent on how good the sex Is or oral sex or hand job or even foot job is. The problem for me is round 2 I need some form of tickling so I can easily get hard if not I have to wait a good hour b4 we go for round to but if there is tickling involved I can go on to round 2 immediately.

Don't be ashamed there are plenty of people in the TMF that need tickling to be turned on and some that aren't even interested in sex and only tickling which is fine each to their own 🙂 hope that helped

 

[shygirl08]

I'm with Myriads that it isn't necessary at all. I like it a lot.. but I like a lot of things a lot. And while it's a strong fetish of mine, it's, again, not necessary.

Can I orgasm by just thinking about tickling? Yes. 🙂 That's all I have to say about that.

It's much easier to orgasm on my own when I read the stories here or again, just imagine it. But with a partner, especially one I really like, it's no problemo.

I don't really know what advice to offer except that this is who you are. If you need it, you need it and should ask for it. Just as you'd be willing to meet her needs, she should be willing to meet yours. MORE than willing. 😉

 

[Raytheon]

In my early 20s i was in bed with a stunning girl, fit, great body etc and i couldn't get it to stay up for penetration. She laughed and blamed the alcohol and we just did each other mutually but i knew it was because there was no tickling. It scared the Jesus out of me believing i was a young man with erectile dysfunction through a dependency on fetish to keep me up. Few months went by and i thought id give it one more go before talking to someone about it. So i went out and came home that night with someone and didn't have a problem.

I think when your body gets used to or wants to experience a certain method of sex its hard to enjoy it when you get something else. You have to give yourself a chance to find new things to want to enjoy those as well as what you enjoy currently. 🙂

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

Depends how horny I am really I mean if you hadn't had an orgasm in like a week wouldn't u cum when a girl just touches u or do u still need some form of tickling? I'm a ler and for me orgasming isn't the problem getting it up is and that's only second time around first time I get hard easily regardless what we r doing and the orgasm is dependent on how good the sex Is or oral sex or hand job or even foot job is. The problem for me is round 2 I need some form of tickling so I can easily get hard if not I have to wait a good hour b4 we go for round to but if there is tickling involved I can go on to round 2 immediately.

Don't be ashamed there are plenty of people in the TMF that need tickling to be turned on and some that aren't even interested in sex and only tickling which is fine each to their own 🙂 hope that helped

Hello nice.1 thanks for posting 🙂
Thank you, it has helped.
I agree that no one should be ashamed of who they are.

With regard to round 2, I also need tickling to achieve a full atten hut within the first half an hour.
Its funny how we cannot trick our sex organs into being aroused!

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

I'm with Myriads that it isn't necessary at all. I like it a lot.. but I like a lot of things a lot. And while it's a strong fetish of mine, it's, again, not necessary.

Can I orgasm by just thinking about tickling? Yes. 🙂 That's all I have to say about that.

It's much easier to orgasm on my own when I read the stories here or again, just imagine it. But with a partner, especially one I really like, it's no problemo.

I don't really know what advice to offer except that this is who you are. If you need it, you need it and should ask for it. Just as you'd be willing to meet her needs, she should be willing to meet yours. MORE than willing. 😉

Hey shygirl thanks for posting 🙂

The last part you said I agree with 100%. Most people seem to be willing to express themselves more with me as I opened up with my fetish to them. They appreciate my honesty and so become more honest themselves. Good times 😀

Also, this is who I am and so I have learned to love myself this way.

Thanks

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

In my early 20s i was in bed with a stunning girl, fit, great body etc and i couldn't get it to stay up for penetration. She laughed and blamed the alcohol and we just did each other mutually but i knew it was because there was no tickling. It scared the Jesus out of me believing i was a young man with erectile dysfunction through a dependency on fetish to keep me up. Few months went by and i thought id give it one more go before talking to someone about it. So i went out and came home that night with someone and didn't have a problem.

I think when your body gets used to or wants to experience a certain method of sex its hard to enjoy it when you get something else. You have to give yourself a chance to find new things to want to enjoy those as well as what you enjoy currently. 🙂

Hey there Raytheon thanks for sharing 🙂

Interesting that I used to also feel pretty shit about it thinking I had some sort of sexual dysfunction.
Took me a long time to understand it (even tho I still dont fully!)
Glad to hear it sorted itself out for you, especially as you must have felt pretty crap to then go forth and retry it on.

With regard to the last part you said, you could be right. Just gotta experience as much different things as I can.
Should I persevere with something or just move on to something else
hmmm . . .

 

[Raytheon]

No worries buddy! I don't think you should move on, just expand on things you like already. Like i know i like tickling, different types of tickling and stuff but i never thought about who was tickling me. Kinda grew into a fantasy about getting gang tickled by amazon ladies, then booty, black ladies, teens, babyoil, breasts and suddenly you jump into bed with a ticklish girl on top and your struggling to not pop early as her babyoiled booty bounces in your lap and your face is full of wobbly breasts

 

[voided9]

I can not orgasm without tickling involved in some way - whether I'm doing it, receiving it, watching it, or even just thinking about it.

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

No worries buddy! I don't think you should move on, just expand on things you like already. Like i know i like tickling, different types of tickling and stuff but i never thought about who was tickling me. Kinda grew into a fantasy about getting gang tickled by amazon ladies, then booty, black ladies, teens, babyoil, breasts and suddenly you jump into bed with a ticklish girl on top and your struggling to not pop early as her babyoiled booty bounces in your lap and your face is full of wobbly breasts

Great stuff. I Fcking love baby oiled titties. And booties. . .

But yeah, I guess its just about the steady evolution of sexual desires.
You could say that Im still figuring out what I like exactly

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

I can not orgasm without tickling involved in some way - whether I'm doing it, receiving it, watching it, or even just thinking about it.

Same here.

Thanks for sharing.

Hope you're enjoying your fetish!

 

[Myriads]

Hello, thanks for your reply Myriads

Interesting. Out of curiosity, how did you manage to make a point not to be hamstrung by one of your fetishes?
For me I felt I had no say in the matter. It just naturally evolved into what it is!

I made it a point to remember that there were other things about sex that I enjoyed, and focused on them on a regular basis.

I like licorice a lot also, but I don't only eat it when I feel like some candy. I get different types to keep things amusing for my taste buds.

Myriads

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

I made it a point to remember that there were other things about sex that I enjoyed, and focused on them on a regular basis.

I like licorice a lot also, but I don't only eat it when I feel like some candy. I get different types to keep things amusing for my taste buds.

Myriads

Thanks for replying!

I see what you mean (i like your liquorice analogy)

When I was young and experimenting with my sexuality for the first times, it never occurred to me that there may be other things that I could be focusing my attention on. Or at least I had no interest in it.
That was until I started dating, but by this time my love of tickling had taken complete control.

Nower days, I love many aspects of sex. I have a wider appreciation and broadened my horizons.
Can't enjoy it completely without tickling in some medium tho.
Is it a problem?
It can be if I deny I have it and pretend its not there.

So, where am I at just now?
1. Love sex
2. Cant orgasm without tickling.

The solution?

 

[Mane'o]

>So, where am I at just now?
>1. Love sex
>2. Cant orgasm without tickling.

The body and the mind are wonderful and full of potential. Do as Myriads (and others among our number) have done and consciously focus on other ways to experience sexual fulfillment.
Or
Find a partner who shares your need to combine tickling and orgasms.

I think the former will leads to a fuller satisfaction of intimacy over a lifetime. But that is your decision.

 

[guysmiley]

I wouldn't be able to just with tickling, but it certainly helps 😉

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

>So, where am I at just now?
>1. Love sex
>2. Cant orgasm without tickling.

The body and the mind are wonderful and full of potential. Do as Myriads (and others among our number) have done and consciously focus on other ways to experience sexual fulfillment.
Or
Find a partner who shares your need to combine tickling and orgasms.

I think the former will leads to a fuller satisfaction of intimacy over a lifetime. But that is your decision.

Thank you and hello 🙂

I have tried many times and one thing I have noticed is that I need to think about some form of tickling to bring about an orgasm. Then the motions of intercourse do the rest.

I get much satisfaction from other things sexually. Yet when I try to just enjoy the sex, without my fetish, I thrust for ages before deciding it isnt going to go off and I need to concentrate on tickling to speed things up.

Shouldn't really be a problem but it is awkward when I just want to finish the job normally.

Maybe as you said I should focus on other ways to experience sexual fulfilment. Can the brain be trained in this way?

On the other hand, I think finding someone who understands it enough for it to work is the best way.
I am working on that . . .

 

[Giacomo_Corto]

I wouldn't be able to just with tickling, but it certainly helps 😉

I am the other way round. I wouldnt be able to with just sex, but it certainly helps!