A question for married people or couples.

[ticklishfeetnyc]

If you are married or in a commited relationship how satisfying is your tickling life? Is it something that you can easily incorporate in your life or your bedroom life. This is maninly geared to those who are with someone who never even heard of the fetish until you met. In my case I have to say it is really good since my wife does not share the fetish and did not even know it existed before she was with me. She is the ler in our relationship and I would have to say a very good one. In fact the best ler that I ever had. She loves to tickle me especially on my feet since that is where she gets the best reaction. For us it usually occurs a few times a week and it is something we both enjoy. It just works into our lives. Not like we have a stock set up or anything. Looking for any other people's experiences in this kind of situation. Hope everyone has an easy time with it. Tickling is fun and should and could work into any couples life as long as they have open minds.

 

[TropicThunder]

I told my boyfriend about my fetish three years into our very unstable relationship. He's very enthusiastic about it, however, I feel a difference in being tickled by someone who is into it, and someone who has no idea what they're doing. I find it difficult to explain exactly what touch I need to make it work for me.

But before we had our son, we were always so on and off. In order to make it work for us, we developed rules for our open relationship. Basically, anything is fair game as long as we're honest with eachother about what the other person is doing. We've been together for over four years now and this seems to be working excellently for us. I get my tickling kicks, he gets his freedom, and our son gets his parents.

 

[hiram]

Interesting questions. When I first dated my wife I was nineteen and she was eighteen. She went to an all girl Catholic high school and asked me to take her to her senior prom. I tickled her that night, that is, early the next morning in her home.

Committed? We have been married for nearly thirty five years. Every year on our anniversary I ask if she thinks this is for real. I'm pretty sure it is.

I have a tickle fetish that stiffens my resolve to Gibralter size and firmness. I never knew there was such a thing as a tickle fetish until I happened upon AMT, a truly fun and raucus tickle forum. That was ten or twelve years ago.

She has no tickle fetish but thinks husbands who tickle need a good talking too. She indulges me to humor me.

Incorporate? I've tickled that poor woman to death more tha a thousand times. I tickled her Friday nights when we first married plus twice a day on Saturdays and Sundays. She got hers at least once or twice again during the week. The first couple of years we were married I got her mother eight or ten times.

Life would be duller than dull without tickling.

 

[Ticklerbc]

My wife and I have known each other 10 years now. When we met she had not heard about any tickling fetish or even foot fetish. The first night we met she was wearing strappy high heel sandals. I asked her if she was ticklish. She said she did not know but stuck her foot out and said "try it". She was ticklish and now is my lee. You can see her photos on the TMF albums and my profile. She has gone to "gatherings" with me where she was gang tickled by 6 guys. It was a great time. We married three years ago. She has even joined me when I hired a "pro" to come over and be tickled. We are still friends with the "pro". She and my wife get along great. I only have sex with the wife. All the others are for "tickle fun" only.
Ticklerbc

 

[TickVix]

Well I'm not sure if I should even be posting to this question since I'm neither married nor committed to anyone lol, but I would honestly prefer to be with someone who's into tickling just as much as I am. I mean people can be "broken in" but if you've already encountered certain ways in which you enjoy being tickled vs trying to teach or show someone who's never really partook in it before how to do it. It can be a bit disheartening. But I mean if they are open minded to at least trying to be a part of your tickling world that's certainly a BIG plus, as opposed to them just completely having no interest in wanting to either be tickled or to tickle you.

Phew!!! that was a mouthful. lol

 

[RosieCreek]

I met my husband in a tickling chat room about 13 years ago. The problem here is we are both lee's, so have each had to work at becoming competent lers. That turned out to be more fun than I had expected, but I do wonder what life would be like if one was by nature a ler and the other a lee.

 

[Restraints]

Interesting questions. When I first dated my wife I was nineteen and she was eighteen. She went to an all girl Catholic high school and asked me to take her to her senior prom. I tickled her that night, that is, early the next morning in her home.

Committed? We have been married for nearly thirty five years. Every year on our anniversary I ask if she thinks this is for real. I'm pretty sure it is.

I have a tickle fetish that stiffens my resolve to Gibralter size and firmness. I never knew there was such a thing as a tickle fetish until I happened upon AMT, a truly fun and raucus tickle forum. That was ten or twelve years ago.

She has no tickle fetish but thinks husbands who tickle need a good talking too. She indulges me to humor me.

Incorporate? I've tickled that poor woman to death more tha a thousand times. I tickled her Friday nights when we first married plus twice a day on Saturdays and Sundays. She got hers at least once or twice again during the week. The first couple of years we were married I got her mother eight or ten times.

Life would be duller than dull without tickling.

Hiram, this is one of my favorite posts of all-time (and I lurked at the TMF from the beginning). Any chance of seeing pictures of any part of your beautiful bride, or having a description? I'm glad you guys are happy!

 

[eric33]

i,m going to have to agree with thunder and Vix,...having a relationship with lee,..and ler would be so much more enjoyable and fulfilling all the way around.

 

[toyou444]

It has been a very rocky road with my wife and my tickling.

Early on she learned to love being tickled...but when she discovered I had a true "fetish" it bothered her greatly.

She doesn't like the "porn" end of the tickling at all.

She also can't understand why it turns me on to tickle her...but not to tickle someone else. (It's about emotional attachment and loyalty...but that's for another thread.)

Gradually over the years we have reached a fine balance with it. It is a big part of our sex life and she gives me more than enough to meet my needs.

I still occasionally tickle other people just for fun and she has learned to accept it...but I respect her feeling too and never go over board.

I am a firm believer in marrying for life and I have no desire to ever leave my wife or give her reason to leave me!

~ toyou