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A tickling fetish... why do we have them ??

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Why do some people adore tickling?? Is it in the blood or what?? And are people with tickling fetishes embarrased about it because it would freak other people out or do you tell people?? I myself have a tickle fetish and have to try and hide it because i find it quite weird and embarrasing.
 
Some people are open about it. No one really knows why a fetish is formed, it's probably not genetic however. Sometimes it's good to tell those you love about your fetish. I told my girlfriend, and now she is forming a fetish for it.
 
I believe that it's natural for people to look down on fetishes initially. It's considered the norm, to my experience, to only be attracted to coitus and other forms of foreplay. When anything else comes into play, whether that is tickling, foot fetishism, BDSM or anything, people are hesitant. It's not what's been drilled to them. You don't learn about fetishes in sex ed when you're 12. And because fetishes change from person to person, even those within the same fetish. it becomes difficult for people to relate to one another. And of course, and perhaps this is the most important point, people are afraid to be labeled "weird," especially by those who they care about. I've noticed that people who are forward about their fetish, or their orientation, they have an easier time than those who hide it and hint at it.

And that's my explanation on why people, myself included, are closed about their fetish.

Why do I have a fetish for tickling? I think I've had it as a child. It's how God wired my brain. Ever since I was a child, I would notice how funny I would feel if I watched someone on TV (April O'Neill, anyone?) get tickled. I would get the strangest tingling feeling, and being that I was only nine, I had no idea what it was. At the same time, I was terrified of being tickled until I was in my teens. Maybe it was my brain trying to repress it; maybe it was because my sexuality was peaking out of my little body and I certainly was too young to interpret it. Who knows? As I've said in other forums, I spent a good amount of time thinking I was "sick" and "fucked up." I think that's because I didn't understand it. Now I embrace it, which is why I responded to this post in the first place.

So, through all that garbage, what did I actually say? Fetishes are not genetic. Fetishes happen to people and there may be some Freudian explanation for it, but does it really matter? If you enjoy it, then you enjoy it. I understand the embarrassment. But think about it: if everyone had a tickling fetish, would you be shy about it? Probably not. it's because it's not widely accepted as a norm that we question why we have it and why we hide it. Screw that. I say enjoy it.
 
I really don't know where mine comes from. I know it drives me absolutely nuts to have a woman tickle my bare feet, and drives me just as nuts to do the same back to her. Who am I to argue with nature?
 
Don't know, don't care to know.
It is what it is and I wouldn't want to analyze it. there was an interesting chronology tho...
I always had a "thing" for nylon covered feet, before it had any ties to anything sexual. When I finally got a few pair in my hands and noticed the nice ticklish surprise, tickling joined in too. so now I am the proud owner of a nylon foot tickling fetish.
 
I don't know why I'm into tickling. I just am. It's not necessary for me to date someone who likes to be tickled. But it's more fun. I even give a warning in my online personal ad, stating that "I am a "touchy feely" guy, and you will feel my hand in you hand, around your waist, in your hair. You will probably be in the receiving end of playfull tickles as well."
 
I blame ethnics and the rise of 80's folk bands....but that me. sort of...
 
I currently blame all things I do wrong, and also, tickling, on Tight Pants.
 
Mine came when I was a kid. When I was growing up I had parents ,grandparents, and aunts tickle me and it was always my feet. Soon I grew an admiration for foot tickling because I began to enjoy it and enjoyed it even more when I started to tickle women's feet. My first tickle was when I was in kindergarden and the girl next door, who was 5 years older than me came over to watch me for 15 minutes. As soon as my mother left I tackled her removed her shoes and tickled her feet until my mom came back. Her reaction started me to realize that tickling was fun. I used to be embarrassed about it but not anymore. I simply love to tickle women's stockinged feet and alot of people know it and they don't treat me any different. In fact when some our friends come over and the other wives ask for a foot rub they will tell me not to tickle them them bad. In most cases majority of women I tickled on their feet didn't protest at all, except that they hated the way their feet looked. Truthfully if I get a chance to say to or actually TICKLE a women on her feet I won't let the opperatunity pass by. Actually I thank all you fellow TICKLERS. It was all your stories and comments that made me not ashamed but DAMN PROUD to be a FOOT TICKLER! THANX 😀
 
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