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im very insecure in my self i feel ugly,i have a lot of fears and anxiety's and that stops me from talking so much to others and being my self unless i know ya well i hate that about my self its the worst im far from perfect but i try very hard to be the best person i can be,i have a disability that also dont help and i dont tell very many people about.
 
I'm not a terribly empathetic person, and I can't stand boredom. So relationships aren't easy, but I do my best. :shrug:
 
Insecurity. It manifests itself in an odd way though. It drives me to be a talented, intelligent, fit well liked and in demand individual. I set high standards that I deem "acceptable" for me. Deep down though I don't feel as though without what I can do and provide for others I would not be loved. This makes things problematic for the women that do love me. I also tend to hold my women to these standards as they press me for more commitment.

Wow! Just had a break through. If I only love myself for what I accomplish and the skills I have is any surprise that women will love me for the same? Even deeper....is it any surprise that that's the only love my brain is trained to see....whether there's more to love or not?

Interesting thread!

GQ
 
Gothika said:
im very insecure in my self i feel ugly,i have a lot of fears and anxiety's and that stops me from talking so much to others and being my self unless i know ya well i hate that about my self its the worst im far from perfect but i try very hard to be the best person i can be,i have a disability that also dont help and i dont tell very many people about.
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^He didn't mention it, he's a cool dude! And, zombie, if he wants to be. :thumbsup:
 
I have chronic OCD as I have mentioned before. It can be pretty bad at times so I am not an easy person to live with. I think also it allows me to be a better artist and allowed me to be a better scientist as I think it lets me see details that other overlook. What can I say as Popeye so eloquently put it. "I am what I am and thats all that I am" 😛
 
GQguy said:
Insecurity. It manifests itself in an odd way though. It drives me to be a talented, intelligent, fit well liked and in demand individual. I set high standards that I deem "acceptable" for me. Deep down though I don't feel as though without what I can do and provide for others I would not be loved. This makes things problematic for the women that do love me. I also tend to hold my women to these standards as they press me for more commitment.

Wow! Just had a break through. If I only love myself for what I accomplish and the skills I have is any surprise that women will love me for the same? Even deeper....is it any surprise that that's the only love my brain is trained to see....whether there's more to love or not?

Interesting thread!

GQ
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And, still a kick ass friend!
 
I can be negative, obsessive, and I dont learn from my mistakes. I often engage in repeat behavior that gets me into trouble. I also hang on to, or go back to.,. abusive relationships.

Steps I've taken to get rid of this: I'm rid of all the abusive people in my life except one. I've tried to lessen the forum rants about my father, and other issues, that have gotten me into trouble. Hopefully, in 2012, I can rid myself of the last abusive person, and take steps toward making my life more productive and happy, with more friends, and being surrounded by more positive people.

Mitch
 
Inferiority complex.
Insecurity.
Jealousy.
Cynical.

I wouldn't call them so much flaws, either. More like a better sense of who I am in comparison to everyone else. I understand my limits and my faults. I'd much rather underestimate myself than overestimate myself.
 
Bothersome said:
Inferiority complex.
Insecurity.
Jealousy.
Cynical.

I wouldn't call them so much flaws, either. More like a better sense of who I am in comparison to everyone else. I understand my limits and my faults. I'd much rather underestimate myself than overestimate myself.
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😛 😛 😛 oh, and 😀

😛
 
No faith in people.
Cynical.
Morbid.
A machine of destruction, including anything I create.

On the positive side, I can play video games and make fun of the world. 🙂
 
One of the worse things I struggle with is a constant wall I put up with people, especially males. I never really had a very good male role model to go off of growing up. You know how they say you should base on what you look for in a man what you see in your father? Well that is S-O not the type of man I want. I love my father dearly, but he has been married many times, is prone to jealousy, has a bad temper, and has major issues with trust. I am afraid that I will have to settle for a man like that someday because no other man will find me attractive or worthwhile. I don't really put myself out there very much...I have my close group of friends and my family, and don't really step beyond that. Therefore it makes it hard to meet people. I just have insecurities about trust and my self image...and I am slowly working on my self confidence and pushing myself into situations I usually deem intimidating and beyond my comfort zone.

I just want to feel beautiful and attractive 🙂
 
Probably my biggest flaw is the fact that I'm bipolar.
I feel so bad for my other half. I go through these cycles over the span of months. There will be a month where I'm all "Lovey Dovey" and probably a blast to hand around, and then there's a span of time which involves me sleeping in bed all day not wanting to have any part of the outside world and I see how much it hurts her sometimes. She'll try to cheer me up but I just don't want to hear it, I just want her to just go live her life and ignore me. Then there are probably times where she just wants to get rid of me because all I do is talk her ears off.

Apparently I've been getting a lot better then what I used to be. I know it sounds like I'm a looney, but I don't take any medication for it, personally I've seen and felt what that stuff does to people. I try and take a proactive approach, if I'm feeling down, or being snappy I go outside, take in some sunlight, just and realize how I'm acting and make a difference.
 
1. I'm annoying.
2. I'm immature.
3. I complain too much.
4. I have trouble seeing my positive points.
5. I'm very demanding.
I see these as (some of) my flaws, but I know people who love me see some of them as my most endearing traits.
 
Im another OCD type,

When im walking down the street I cant have a lamp post come between me and who im walking with.

Its a night mare for my partner to share a shower with me as I have to wash in a specific order, shampoo on, wash face, shampoo off etc etc

Pillows have to be exactly how I like them on the bed.

Sexually the conditions have to be perfect, the slightest distraction or glimmer of the thought someone may hear us puts me right off.

I argue stupid little pointless things and I have to cover the issue before its done.

Im very awkward around new people I don't know, meeting my partners friends has been a nightmare so far.

oh the list goes on, me and my partner are both quite difficult people which I think is good as we appreciate how important such things are to each other.

As for bettering myself, well on some points I am, I've been trying to be less stubborn and let myself relax more in situations where I have to meet new people, I would say I've made steps to improvement but I have a long way to go but on the most part I accept my OCDs are part of what makes me ME and I dont wish to change.
 
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What flaws do you feel you posses?

What makes you feel you may be difficult as a partner to someone else?


Have you or are you making steps to rid yourself of these downfalls?
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My biggest flaw is that I'm very stubborn.

That makes it difficult for me to compromise with potential partners on anything.

All I have done is tried to sort out what is really important and what is open for compromise.
 
The hardest part about being me is that I have a tendency to mistrust people when it comes to dealing with important tasks, under the (often true) assumption that they will royally fuck it up.

It makes me a poor at delegation and means I wind up doing the work myself.
 
Not being able to relax, getting overwhelmed and then freaking the fuck out.
 
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