Advice for a lee?

[skipsfirstspike]

Hello
I am a woman who has just recently discovered that I love tickling and being tickled. I absolutely fantasize about tying up my guy and tickling him out of his mind before (while?) bringing him off.
However, the dice said that I am the one who is going to be tied.. this saturday night! I am extremely excited, and a little scared, lol. He has been driving me wild lately by just pinning my arms, very lightly tickling me, and just talking about what he is going to do to me. Nothing specific, just "Be careful what you wish for" and "You will be so exposed and vulnerable, I can do to you whatever I like and there won't be a thing you can do about it", that sort of thing.
So any advice for me? Pep talk, lol? I am afraid I may be so nervous that I won't be ticklish. I am not extremely ticklish to begin with, although i have never been tied before. Is there any way I can psych myself into being More ticklish, esp under the arms?
I don't know if tickling is the only thing up his sleeve, or even the main thing for that matter, but I hope so! I also think I am going to get spanked a bit. Guess I deserve it for spilling all on an internet forum! Maybe he will tickle torture me instead...
Thoughts?

 

[thetmfobserver]

First of all, make sure that you trust the person you're going to be playing with. That's the #1, #2, and #3 rules when it comes to bondage. Not only that, but if you're relaxed with the person you're playing with, you'll likely be more sensitive.

 

[skipsfirstspike]

Thanks. I DO trust him, very much, just nervous excitement I guess. Is it saturday yet???

 

[TickVix]

As a lee who isn't new to the whole "tied up" thing it really isn't bad at all, As Observer stated, just make sure that you trust who ever is doing it and RELAX lol. Relaxation is a big key in allowing all your senses to come to the forefront this way you can get the most out of your tickling experience. With that said, I hope you have a blast which I'm sure you will 🙂.

 

[Em Es]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

skipsfirstspike, it sounds as though you and I are predominantly 'lers but willing to be the ticklee when it comes to pleasing our tickle friends. But I think I am more ticklish than you; on the 10 scale, I'm an 8, but only when untied; when restrained, my ticklishness reduces to a 5, probably because my body's defense mechanisms kick in, knowing a woman is going to tickle me and I can't fend her off. Nonetheless, I've been tickled pretty well that way several times.

From what you say, I'm guessing you're a 6 whose ticklishness may diminish to a 3 or 4 when your man ties you up unless, of course, the opposite happens and you bump up to an 8. Others here have reported just that, so don't throw in the towel before the tickling even starts.

As for the pre-tickle session jitters, a drink or two might help you loosen up. The rest depends on how much your man enjoys tickling and, of course, how well he and you communicate.

Please let us know what happens. Good luck!

 

[milagros317]

You may find it scary, but as long as you trust him, be calm and enjoy it. 😀
It won't hurt to be plotting your revenge, too.

 

[No_Style]

First of all, make sure that you trust the person you're going to be playing with. That's the #1, #2, and #3 rules when it comes to bondage. Not only that, but if you're relaxed with the person you're playing with, you'll likely be more sensitive.

agreeed.

 

[TickleToy4You]

Yesssss the number 1 thing is trust. Make sure you can fully trust the person who is going to be tying you up and making you helpless. Once you're tied up, the only person who will be able to do anything is the one who made you that way. So trust is very important. If you do trust him and want to continue than before getting right into the tickling session, talk with him for a little, ask questions, and since it's your first time, I would have a safeword just in case it gets too intense for you. Since you would have a safeword don't let him gag you or anything. Once you're comfortable with all that...enjoy the time you're about to have. I don't think being worried will effect your ticklishness at all. If he is understandable he will agree to the safeword and to whatever else you ask for. Maybe you'd rather get your arms tied up and have your legs free, thats up to you. Several ways to make your first time a great time. Tickling is suppose to be fun as much as it is suppose to be sexy and sometimes sexual. Don't be nervous though. Once it's over with, I bet you that you will be waiting for the next time it happens 🙂