Advice for finding tickle partners

[College]

Hey, I'm really new to TMF but I'm a short term lurker and a long term tickle fetishist. I'm at college right now and I'm looking for my first real tickle experience. I'm like a 5/10 to an 8/10 depending on who you ask, and I have no problems meeting new people or talking to women. I've always been too shy to tell long term girlfriends about my thing for tickling. I have a few questions:

- Is it easier to seek out girls with a tickle fetish or just to find kinky open minded girls and tell them about my fetish?
- Has anyone ever met up with a girl from TMF/tinder/fetlife?
- I kinda have a thing for older women... Is there a market somewhere of older women looking to be tickled by/tickle a younger guy? I don't expect there to be but it's worth a shot I guess.


Thank you to anyone willing to answer my newbie questions. I hope your future is pleasant and full of laughter.

 

[TropicThunder]

The answer to all three of your questions is yes. Even the first one.

Lots of folks on this forum have shared stories of introducing their partner to the tickling fetish. You're likely going to get a mixed bag of reactions to it, but this kink is fairly innocuous.

There's a whole gatherings and personals section on this forum, where meetups all over the world are posted. There are many success stories. People have met on the TMF and gotten married. 🙂

And your last question - yes, there are women out there who are interested in that.

 

[FFT32]

Hey, I'm really new to TMF but I'm a short term lurker and a long term tickle fetishist. I'm at college right now and I'm looking for my first real tickle experience. I'm like a 5/10 to an 8/10 depending on who you ask, and I have no problems meeting new people or talking to women. I've always been too shy to tell long term girlfriends about my thing for tickling. I have a few questions:

- Is it easier to seek out girls with a tickle fetish or just to find kinky open minded girls and tell them about my fetish?
- Has anyone ever met up with a girl from TMF/tinder/fetlife?
- I kinda have a thing for older women... Is there a market somewhere of older women looking to be tickled by/tickle a younger guy? I don't expect there to be but it's worth a shot I guess.


Thank you to anyone willing to answer my newbie questions. I hope your future is pleasant and full of laughter.

Question #1 - Yes obviously. However, you can have success even with a true vanilla if you act and approch it in a non-creepy, desperate way. A fun, playful and gentle game plan works wonders.

Question #2 - Yes and be very specific about what you are looking for BEFORE you actually meet up. You will save time, frustration and $ in the long run.

Question #3 - A Google and Pornhub search will provide what you are looking for day to day. With dating or escort services, please refer to my response to question above. You can find what you want, just put intthe time.

 

[College]

@tropicthunder Thanks for your thorough reply! Here's a bit of a followup question- have you ever been "outed" by someone you told about your fetish? Like you told someone in confidence that you're into tickling and they told someone outside of your circle of trust?

 

[College]

Question #1 - Yes obviously. However, you can have success even with a true vanilla if you act and approch it in a non-creepy, desperate way. A fun, playful and gentle game plan works wonders.

Question #2 - Yes and be very specific about what you are looking for BEFORE you actually meet up. You will save time, frustration and $ in the long run.

Question #3 - A Google and Pornhub search will provide what you are looking for day to day. With dating or escort services, please refer to my response to question above. You can find what you want, just put intthe time.

Hmmm are you saying that my best luck is paying $$$ for mistresses and/or escorts? That's a little disappointing but it's reality i suppose

 

[Libertine]

@tropicthunder Thanks for your thorough reply! Here's a bit of a followup question- have you ever been "outed" by someone you told about your fetish? Like you told someone in confidence that you're into tickling and they told someone outside of your circle of trust?

This being done, the reaction will range from disinterest, to thinking you're an idiot/perve, to being more interested in you sexually than before hearing the news.

Hmmm are you saying that my best luck is paying $$$ for mistresses and/or escorts? That's a little disappointing but it's reality i suppose

Not in the least. Especially in a university environment you have the advantage of being surrounded by thousands of young women of every shape, size and orientation with a degree's worth of time to experiment and find out what they enjoy sexually. Being arguably more intelligent than those not pursuing further education they're more prone to said experimentation. It's the gentlemanly thing to help them. 😀

 

[playjoe]

I had lots of luck on dating sites like Plenty of fish... do the key search massage , touch , tickle , ticklish , pedicures etc. get a touchy feely girl !