Advice on how to tell a gf about my fetish?

[sophiamarie]

To go along with the feel of the thread, show, don't tell. If you tickle her enough, she should get the idea (and without any boners being shown.)
This sort of goes against a previous post, but I've found if I build it up a lot (like, "I need to tell you something. It's kind of weird. I like something kind of strange. Don't judge me. It's really weird...) by the time I tell them it's tickling, they really don't care, because they thought it was something so completely out there that tickling isn't a big deal at all.
Do be sure you specify eventually that you like it with ADULTS. I (obviously) have a tickling fetish, but if I'm playing around with a little kid I can tickle them and not get turned on, which is probably obvious to you, but some people once they learn about it freak out if you playfully tickle a child.

 

[dr_random]

I like sophiamarie's method. It reminds me of when I told my wife, then girlfriend, of my tickle fetish. To be fair she straight up asked me if at one point if I had any fetishes or sexual quirks, so I told her. She smiled and thought 'neat'. Considering there are stranger and/or more invasive fetishes, to be clear I hold no judgement on any other.

All the advice given are sound, and I hope they encourage you to be honest with your girlfriend. You know her better than we do of course. Make sure to let us know how it went.

 

[fitzh2o]

Honestly in every relationship I've ever had the "what turns you on?" conversation comes up. There's your perfect opportunity, if you haven't had this talk yet you should start it. It's an easy way to break the ice and really get to know what she likes. If she has a kink of her own you may find you now have something to barter for tickle time.

 

[Cave In]

Most people tend to think worst case scenario when they think about telling a gf/bf about their tickling fetish. But I've found from the g/f's I've told that they tend to be mostly indifferent to it. Usually saying that there are worse things I could be into. That being said I always tested the water first, and it was always after I'd been in a relationship for a period of time.

 

[Boyo27]

Thank you guys, im keeping all of it in mind and our relationship is going pretty good so ill probably post back sometimes in the next week, maybe 2 if anything happens. Thanks 🙂