Alternative locations for tickling

[TicklingTips]

Hi all. Understandably, a big barrier to people actually having tickle sessions seems to be the fact that they'd be going to someone's own house or a hotel room, and probably taking off clothes and often getting tied up. One or both parties seem to often find this too much vulnerability regardless of how much they trust the person involved. Something along the lines of, sure I don't think they're a serial killer, but there's always that 0.01% chance that they are, so I can't do it.

So...has anyone thought up brilliant ways around this? Obviously meeting up beforehand in a neutral place, and not being or appearing to be a serial killer are both great, but I mean in terms of location. Has anyone had an actual tickle session somewhere other than at a house or hotel room? Somewhere that made the concerned person more comfortable with the idea?

 

[ChicagoDavid]

Interesting question. I know that some dungeons rent out to visiting doms on a per hour basis, and it is a situation where someone from the dungeon is present. Would they rent to 2 people who wanted a place but were not pros?

 

[rhiannon]

My policy is only be tied up by someone who you'd feel comfortable with killing you.

 

[CassandraMarie]

Thank you for posting this question.
we have roommates so we have been trying to find a place to go.
we googled some dungeons in Toronto and there are a few that rent by the hour. They also offer different services.
I'm so excited to go try the equipment really get Cory tied down well.

 

[chicago]

Hi all. Understandably, a big barrier to people actually having tickle sessions seems to be the fact that they'd be going to someone's own house or a hotel room, and probably taking off clothes and often getting tied up. One or both parties seem to often find this too much vulnerability regardless of how much they trust the person involved. Something along the lines of, sure I don't think they're a serial killer, but there's always that 0.01% chance that they are, so I can't do it.

So...has anyone thought up brilliant ways around this? Obviously meeting up beforehand in a neutral place, and not being or appearing to be a serial killer are both great, but I mean in terms of location. Has anyone had an actual tickle session somewhere other than at a house or hotel room? Somewhere that made the concerned person more comfortable with the idea?

That's why you meet people in a public place first for coffee or something to get to know them first before you start strippin off clothes in their basement. And typically, if you get to the point where you're comfortable enough to want to play, a conversation is had to make sure both parties are on the same page when it comes to boundaries. You don't have to be nekkid.

As far as having a session somewhere that's not a home or hotel, I dunno. If you're too shy to do it in private, I doubt you'd be doing it in public. In a car sounds really trashy. Maybe a movie theater and try to keep quiet, but I wouldn't recommend doing any hardcore tickling there cuz you'll probably get thrown out.

Honestly, if someone's not comfortable with the idea, I'd tell em get to know the other person better so that maybe they will grow to being comfortable with them. Why would you let someone touch you otherwise?

 

[milagros317]

Trust is essential to have an enjoyable session in any case. Only play with people that you really trust.

 

[cue]

I haven't ever met anyone online before, but I really like the idea of meeting someone a couple times. It may take a few meetings for one or the other to get comfortable. It's scary to have a stranger come to your house, too.

 

[DeaconMye]

Thank you for posting this question.
we have roommates so we have been trying to find a place to go.
we googled some dungeons in Toronto and there are a few that rent by the hour. They also offer different services.
I'm so excited to go try the equipment really get Cory tied down well.

Thanks for this, sparked some ideas, and after some searching my gf and I can take it to the next level. It won't be cheap, but I discovered tickling just isn't cheap.

 

[rhiannon]

Personally I wouldn't ever go to someone's house or have them come over to my house. I have my sessions usually and specially equipped BDSM holiday apartments. That has the advantage that someone knows where you are and who is with you, the person who rents that place out!

 

[sleepyhead]

Hello CassandraMarie,

Nice picture. I've been getting involved in fet life activities and they have a large membership in Toronto. They're into a lot of stuff besides tickling, bdsm, but you can stick to tickling and see what opportunities they provide. They have parties at various homes where you'll be able to tickle.