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Am I a little overly obsessed?

frozenphantom

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Ok, so I've had a foot fetish for years now. I remember being as young as 3 and staring at feet. I'm 19 now, so obviously I know it's something I'm interested in. I also have a tickling fetish. Feet+tickling go hand in hand for me, which is nice. At the same time, I've turned down many relationships because a girl either wasn't ticklish, or didn't have cute feet. I feel a little silly because of that. I don't understand why I feel like those two things are THAT important in my life. I mean, it's to the point of just randomly going through different facebook pages of girls just to see if I can see any feet. Is/has anyone else gone through this at all? I also feel like I'm stuck in an area with not only a lack of girls, but also a lack of girls that would appreciate such fetishes lol. I know I have plenty of time to experiment with these as I get older, but I feel like I'm trapped and may never get to :x
 
Who's to say if you're obsessed, focused on what you desire in life, or just plain picky, other than you?

Basing it entirely upon how their feet look...eh :huh..well.. it may loose you the perfect partner based on emotional needs- but again who's to say you couldn't find the exact perfect combo using your method?? I have.

Chosing a partner who shares your desires (and yes- fetishes) is no different than a person who chooses a partner based on the fact they have many hobbies in common, like hiking, cooking, racing, music, etc... and it's extremely wise. There's 10,000 guys here sneaking around behind their partner's backs- and when they get caught (and they always do) all hell breaks loose.

Sharing desires is an important bond you'll need to sustain your relationship.
Life is a hellava lot more than 24/7 tickling, but with that mountain accomplished you can- together- seek out more levels.
 
Maybe it's just because I'm young, slowly growing comfortable with my desires. That's the only real reason I can think of for, well, thinking about it all the time. Hopefully this level of desire is only a phase, and I slowly wean myself off of it. Not completely of course 😛

edit:I must say though, it's really nice to be able to talk about things like this lol. It wasn't until recently I really realized that I had full blown fetishes with these things. I thought I was a freak with these kinds of feelings lol. Glad to see there's an entire community for it.
 
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Think about it this way: When you DO find that perfect girl for you, it'll be a million times more satisfying for you.

Never, ever go into a relationship that you feel will be incomplete for you; it'll just make everything harder for you, and the girl you're with.
 
I think that you are actually, a bit over obsessed. I mean, think about it,:

Bad feet can be fixed. Wearing socks all thwe time makes feet soft, and they can often be decorated or smoothed to become more appealing. Also, ticklishness can be heightened, using lotions, oils, and food variations.

You could, as Kujman said, lose youself the perfect woman due to this, but then you MIGHT find the perfect girl using your method.

However, I think that yes, you might be a little obsessed.

This is of course, an opinion coming from one foot and tickling obsessed person to another, so yeah, I know what I'm talking about. 😛
 
I think you have to be master of the fetish indulge in it and enjoy, but don't let it run your life.

How do i know well iam bi have another girl also bi as my partner, and we are both into bondage and bdsm, but she dosn't like tickling, isn't ticklish, so iam not able to have a ticlish relationship with her.

We have trust and allow each other freedom and things work out ok.

Many people having a fetish end up with partners who are not into their fetish or who are vanilla, but it often works.

Don't throw love out the window or a posible partner because of a fetish situation.

Iam divorced from a drunkard who ruined my life,so i also know its hard to find a suitable partner in the vanilla world even.

You have to get a balance good luck, remember the more relashionships you have, be it a cup of coffee thing, or an affair the better understanding of what works for you will be come apparent.

Thats the key, whats right for you and your partner after all what is normallity, i was born bi thats normal for me but being straight isn't.

But a straight person would be considered normal because its the majority of the populance or whatever.

At 33 i would say get on and enjoy your life it soon passes trust me
 
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It's overly obsessive if you let it rule you, that's for sure.

That said, you're also still young enough to where your kind of choosiness isn't uncommon either.

Overly obsessive is when you can't control yourself and have to tell your entire family about it via text message. That's how I'd define it.
 
i suppose the big question sort of hanging in the air here is "can you function sexually in the absence of your fetish?"

If you can't function without it emotionally, then its a dependence; an "obsession." If you can't be intimate without for physical reasons, its just a part of who you are. There are "sins of the flesh" and then there are "sins of the mind"; there's only one of these that you can control.
 
Maybe it's just because I'm young, slowly growing comfortable with my desires.

Part of the answer for sure: the perennial kid in a candy store. But everything becomes old at some point. So enjoy it for what it is for you right now. Because by the 99th time you see a lousy loose hogtie or an actressfaling it in a video, you'll toss your cookies.

I disagree with those here that say you're obsessed- here's why: you're looking for that one sppecial person (and may have her).. you want to share this with her, and at the same time want her to be enjoying it as well. Very commendable and rare in the TK world. I don't hear you saying that you're out to get every ticklish girl and carve notches on your bedpost. You're thinking it out and looking for the best route.

As for being young- enjoy it. Stay young. I started very young, much more so than most.. even have photos from ages 9, 10, 11, making stocks, even putting homeroom teachers in them during colonial days, and at home with neighborhood kids. I was building devices before 12, and by 15/16 doing bondage layouts for House of Milan. So by the time I was 18/20 there was no one around with my experience as Bishop used to tell me... so I moved forward and progressed it to new levels. But there's few out there into those levels.

Point being- most begin far later than I, perhaps you too, so they seem to be in more of a hurry to 'get to it'. They feel time is running out. It won't. TK and such things will always be there. Rest assured it does wear off. Not completely, but when things & people start to repeat themselves?? It gets old. So bide your time and you'll find your niche... and the right gal.


I thought I was a freak with these kinds of feelings lol. Glad to see there's an entire community for it.

In the decades I've been at this, I've heard that said a bazillion times- so don't feel alone or out of place. It's sort of a right of passage- everyone feels they're a freak and all alone until they connect. Nowadays there's many into it (years ago there was nobody).. and with the WWW it's far easier of course... but even then you have a world full of nitwits, egos, jerks, and such mixed in with the good folks. You have to do quite a bit of weeding.

In many ways, in the past it was easier- you had to use snailmail and use the phone. Today people hide behind keyboards and can't live up to what they preach--you never know what you're getting on the other end.

Rest assured- you'll find your way.
 
As long as you're happy as you are, it's all gravy. Just chug along and enjoy yourself - you're not hurting anyone.
 
If your love of feet/tickling adds spice to your relationships with women, just enjoy it.
If you view women as just "talking feet" (rather than whole people you can relate to), then it's a true fetish in the clinical sense and you might want to seek some professional advice about it.
 
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