Am I the only one who prefers to talk about tickling that to actually tickling?

[MaterialSpirit]

Hello, people. This is my first post (outside of the welcoming one), and I want to start with a bang. Like the title of the thread says, I'm the only one who prefers conversations about tickling subjects rather than actual tickling? I feel strange because of that. I also feel that I need to share that. Besides, is there anyone willing to share his/her (if it's a her, better for me) experiences? Keep in mind that I can't tell a lot about me, since I've never tickled a woman before. I'll be receiving more than giving (and not tickles). That's all. Greetings to all of you.

 

[redheadlady]

Many people love to talk about tickling, I guess that's why there are so many groups, forums and even munches where no play occurs. Nothing strange about it really in our community.

 

[MaterialSpirit]

Okay. So, can you tell me how to talk about that? I've been looking for someone for a long time.

 

[kokos]

I think it is quite common, as it deals with fantasy. Imagination is quite powerful.

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[redheadlady]

You just attend munches/join groups on discord and chat tickling on forums with like minded people like here. Most tickle people like to chat about tickling and the conversation can just flow pretty naturally with like minded people.

 

[chicago]

I'm the opposite. Answering the same list of tickle related questions can get old xD

 

[CuddlyCanadian]

The approach taken when talking to someone about tickling is not singular.

Are you confident in the way you speak to others?
Do you have rapport with the person?
Are they interested in tickling?
(This list is extremely basic, and not comprehensive.)

If your goal is to make friends, then you should approach it like making any other friend. If the entire focus is on hearing the experiences of women ("better for me" as you say...) being tickled, then you're probably going to find an array of responses. Some people are confident and love to express their experiences, while others might suspect you have sinister motives.

Be mindful of how you conduct yourself, i.e. with respect, class, and kindness.

 

[NookieTag]

Only those who cannot find someone to tickle

 

[MaterialSpirit]

The approach taken when talking to someone about tickling is not singular.

Are you confident in the way you speak to others?
Do you have rapport with the person?
Are they interested in tickling?
(This list is extremely basic, and not comprehensive.)

If your goal is to make friends, then you should approach it like making any other friend. If the entire focus is on hearing the experiences of women ("better for me" as you say...) being tickled, then you're probably going to find an array of responses. Some people are confident and love to express their experiences, while others might suspect you have sinister motives.

Be mindful of how you conduct yourself, i.e. with respect, class, and kindness.

Yes. Honestly, I have no problem in talking about tickling with boys. Is just that my questions and aproach will vary depending on the gender of the person I'm talking to. I'm very new in this world (even though I said I have had this fetish for years, I've never dared to talk about it in public), so my way of expressing my fantasies and hopes about it may not be adequate. Of course I know about treating people with respect and not seeing them as mere means to quench my fetishist thirst, but I may have commited a mistake while writing this post. Please, forgive me if I sounded wrong. I'm not very good at talking.

 

[Yote]

Okay. So, can you tell me how to talk about that? I've been looking for someone for a long time.

Munches and RPs would probably suit you.

 

[SmashTV]

You’re amongst friends here, so the chances are that the conversation, whether as a group or an individual, will flow. There’s lots of facets to tickling - restraints, clothing, tools, anecdotes, sub/dom tendencies - so you’re likely to find a sub category, if necessary, that suits you. Good luck, and enjoy your time here.

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV

 

[YouNeverKnow175]

I'm this way, and always have been. Even though I've had plenty of actual tickling in my life, I've always found talking about it to be more thrilling. There's something for me about hearing a woman talk about how ticklish she is or tell true stories of being tickled that just exhilarates me like nothing else.

 

[Ghostwriter727]

Interesting take.
While I'm fortunate to have a few friends that are open to tickle play; the conversations, stories, fantasies, and build up to actual play is a pretty huge category, and probably interests alot of us ticklers, and ticklees as well

I'm pretty happy to have a drink, and just talk of tickling prospects, fantasy scenarios, and other thought provoking questions about our fetishes just the same as we all spend a large amount of time talking about our chosen sports, interests, anf hobbies as apposed to actually doing them.

Doing the tickling is certainly the funnest way to play the game in my opinion, but the talk, and back and forth banter certainly has its place as well.
Great post.🤘

 

[RavensFan52]

I wouldn't say prefer it from actual tickling but I do very much enjoy conversating about it

 

[maniactickler]

I dont want to talk about it. i just want to do it!

 

[natscott6282]

the thing is my fav methods/levels of tickling i cant do any more so i just love discussing it

 

[Rikki25]

I don't mind discussing it but I prefer doing it. For me anyway, it hasn't been easy to find someone to actually do it with, so I figure discussing it online is better than nothing.

 

[BlueLine7045]

I think it can be fun/sexy finding out if new people, friends, strangers, etc. are ticklish and where they're ticklish.

With some co-workers I know I can goof around with and we are close like that, I will usually pop the question in as un-creepy of a way as possible and they usually answer it and it's pretty awesome but it makes me want to try to tickle them, but obviously I never do.

Two things:

1. I wouldn't recommend anything tickling related at work as it can end bad.
2. Adding on to that, I would strongly advise not actually tickling your co-workers or strangers. If you have that type of relationship where you know a non-sexual touch is alright, then maybe. But it can end bad.

My wife's sister tickled my sides randomly the other day and I jumped. I was surprised because she doesnt really ever get hands on with me. Also I was tickled at work by a female coworker, but I probably wouldnt tickle either back. Risky business.

 

[Jola]

When the active tickling decreases or stops, it helps to talk to someone about it. Talking allows you to learn more about thoughts and feelings than active tickling does.