Done this for many years, had countless boyfriends in the mix as escorts. Never an issue. I am quite clear what the shoot is about upfront, so I trust the models to figure out what will maximize their comfort level without interfering with the footage.
We run a very relaxed, non-threatening atmosphere at the shoots, so maybe that helps. I also run a rather thorough recruitment process. Doubtless that helps, too. In fact, I end up talking to most (I'd say 70-90%) of the escorts over the years since their job is actually rather dull; they end up being pretty cool for the most part. They're just as curious about things as the models sometimes are, and maintain a good attitude once they understand that I'm both professional (I'm not there to cop a cheap feel) and married (the latter being no doubt a decent contributor). Keeping an open dialogue with everyone keeps the atmosphere light and fun.
Having a tense location for a tickle shoot? Ugh, couldn't imagine.
It looks like you are making f/f clips though. That changes everything. 🙂
Mmh ..I think I would die if my partner would watch me during a shoot. I couldn't relax and would really feel a bit strange. lol
Same with me. I don't even want my husband there for photo shoots, even when it's regular portrait or fashion pictures without nudity!




