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[PunKyGurl]

When it comes to tickling someone....are people more into bondage then playful?

 

[kaziglubey]

i guess i am tickle deprived, or tickle desperate, cause i`ll tickle any way i can. bondage takes a great deal of trust between two people, but can really emphasize the feelings and put a whole new spin on the situation. having done both, i am not sure which i enjoy better...but lets just say as long as the ticklee is enjoying the tickling on some level, thats good enough for me.

 

[Sadistictickler]

I prefer bondage; however usually my arms function as bondage-equipment cuz I haven't got anything usefull to tie my victims down.

 

[TickleCrazy]

To me, the feeling of helplessness and anticipation is soooo sexy. Anyway, I'm so ticklish and get out of control easily, and when I'm tied I don't worry about hurting myself or my partner and I can enjoy it fully.

 

[Everlast_420]

.....I've found that I can truly enjoy and lose myself in the expirience when I'm tied down.....but then again, tickling is definitley fun even without all the bondage equipment.....I love em both equally, really.......just in different ways.......with bondage, it can be hugely erotic and sexy, and without, it can be just fun, and something that can be done freely in public.......yeah....that just about sums it up for me.......

 

[Jejxenbdujxdbuehcbejdev]

to me, bondage is playful. besides my ticlee's love the feeling of being helpless as i explore their ticklish bodys.
we both have fun!

 

[Redmage]

Often for me bondage is a major part of tickling: The helplessness of being restrained enhances both the physical and emotional aspects of the scene. I don't think this is at odds with being playful though - you just play off the bondage.

ST, I noticed you said you didn't have anything useful for restraining your partner. I'm a little puzzled, since I would have thought you could get rope at any hardware store. Is rope not what you'd prefer to use?

REdmage

 

[kibdos]

I only ever experienced bondage tickling with one person - my ex-wife. She quite enjoyed it for awhile and then found it more fun to try to stand it without restraints. Since I found her struggling quite erotic, this was fine with me. All the rest of my tickling has been either with a few women who liked it so much they didn't struggle at all or with those in casual, domestic situations where it was a matter of hanging on to their ankles and tickling them as long as I could. Most of the tickling in these situations rarely lasted longer than a few minutes.

 

[Mousepawz]

For me it's playful. It happens more often for me and I never know when it is going to happen

 

[Molson1]

Rope can leave marks and become uncomfortable. I recommend either nylons, ties, or bath robe ties.😉

 

[AphxA1]

bondage or playful

for me, i just ask whomever my ticklee is. I am such a wussy tickler. Thats probably why i'll never be sadistic.

 

[SmugFish1]

I have always tickled or been tickled in spur-of-the-moment play, not planned bondage. The feeling of helplessness is a big turn-on, though, and something I've always wanted to try, both on the giving and receiving end.

 

[vampyr]

Jinkies that is a good question. I started out liking just playful tickling but now I find bondage a necessity . . .sort of. I mean ever since an ex-boyfriend punched me and broke my nose when I tickled him (which is how he became an ex-b/f) I now find it safer to restrain whoever is being tickled.

 

[Molson1]

Um, yeah...I think punching someone because they tickle you seems a bit "over zealous". I'm glad that's not a typical reaction, because I would have a whole new face by now! Glad you dumped him. Get a new boyfriend and have him kick the shit out of him!🙂

 

[maverick83]

For me, playful. Bondage kina turns me off.

 

[uptown48]

i am more into yhe playful side of tickling. Bondage is great too if the two people involved have the trust factor need. Bondage is not needed for me. i just love to tickle.😀

 

[sole seeker1]

I don't need bondage either, although I admit I enjoy it. I sometimes tie my wife to the bed (at her request).

Personally, I like to watch her struggle to keep her stockinged feet in my lap while I tickle them. Occasionally I vocalize what I'm doing to her feet. "I love to draw figure-8's on the bottoms of your feet. Wow, I'll bet that tickles like anything! Kitchy-kithcy-coo!" She's very ticklish on her feet and my verbal taunting seems to make her even more susceptible, not to mention making me even hornier.

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

I do not enjoy being held or anything like that, I want to be able to struggle and in that case I enjoy it very much, otherwise I panic (I am extremely ticklish). By the way, how do you trigger someone who is not at all ticklish to tickle you for more than 1 second?

 

[erikasknight]

For me it doesn't really matter either way. I enjoy both, although you are less apt to get kicked or elbowed without bondage involved, and the partner is more helpless which I believe mentaly increased the sensitivity. As for what to use for bondage, I've tried plenty of things...ties, nylons, ropes, even terricloth robe belts. I finaly bought actual bondage cuffs, and they're effective and easy to use. I do agree with one of the members that stressed the trust required. You best know who the person is befroe letting them get you into a situatio in which you can't defend yourself. There are a lot of ticklers out there who are just into the forced or non-consensual tickling.
~erikasknight

 

[naveltkltr1350]

no bondage. i am all playful tickling.

 

[Camel26]

I haven't really been tied down yet...I'd love to try it though...however, until then, I must say that playful tickling definitely does it for me!!!

 

[gibby59]

I vote for playful tickling. I just think it's more fun for both lee and ler.

 

[RaeRae24]

When it comes to tickling someone....are people more into bondage then playful?

As the lee, I prefer light bondage - only whatever is necessary to keep my arms up, so the ler can use both hands on me.