Any books on getting rid of a tickling fetish?

[JS805]

I want to get rid of the fetish but I don't want to have to see a therapist to do it...too much time and money. Anyone know of any books that help you get rid of a fetish?

 

[Artoo]

Books? I doubt it, there's just not a market for it.

However, this link has all the answers you'll need.

 

[JS805]

Thanks!

 

[LD_Tickler]

Yeah I don't think its possible. It would be easier to try and develop an attraction to something else, I think, than to destroy an existing attraction. Though adding a fetish might make things easier, widen your horizons a bit, increase your options. Try to identify elements you like in tickling, and see if they apply elsewhere.

 

[solescratcher99]

No. But, meditating on the body decomposing is a pretty powerful technique to counter any kind of sexual craving. I wouldn't personally recommend it because there's stories of monks (and I've heard of some people) who've actually killed themselves because they became so disgusted with their bodies.

 

[starburstz91]

I wouldn't think that there could be any pyschological way to get rid of a tickling fetish. If it's something that your body ( and you) like, then it'll probably remain with you, whether it's a huge interest, or just a small one. But then again, I could be wrong.
Hope you find what you're looking for.

 

[darkhand]

From my understanding, a fetish is something that you are born with, not really a conscious decision. To some extent, it would be similar to trying to cure homosexuality...it's just simply not a disease so there's no reason to cure it!

If you're really serious, I'm sure you can find a way to repress it. I for one think you would probably be much better off to embrace it as part of who you are.

Just my two cents!

 

[Adam]

There are much worse things in life to have that this fetish. My advice? Accept who you are. You can be a perfectly functioning adult even with a non-vanilla kink.

 

[JS805]

My problem isn't that I have the fetish. The problem is that the fetish has me. I have no problem having this fetish if it doesn't interfere with sex. But it does. I need to be able to get turned on from sex without tickling involved.

 

[Frowg]

If you must, then I would recomend spending time away from it, focus on other things sexually, orchestrate fantasies that do not involve tickling, and work on it until you find something else that turns you on. Truthfully, you will never be rid of it, and I don't know why you would want to. I understand it can be hard in a relationship and especially hard if that relationship is a commited one, if your partner does not share in your desires. Bear in mind that there is nothing wrong with you. I hope you are seeking this remedy for someone very important to you. Otherwise, I would advise you that you are who you are, and your sexuality is a part of that. Anyone who is in love with you should know that and be able to accept it up front. The best overall solution is to find someone who is ok with your sexuality, or someone who shares you unique gift, because in the long run, you will not be able to change it, only repress it, and that is not healthy.

 

[lenjo]

Robin:

I understand the question – and empathise! But I don't know the answer. [:-(

I do know that it's nearly impossible to eradicate our fetish.

Thoughts:

1. Find a sex partner who understands your fetish and doesn't mind the tickling thoughts and urges you have.

2. Create a potent library of pix, videos, and stories in your computer &/or a bookshelf (locked if necessary). If possible, get a databank of tickling memories in your psyche.

3. "Meditate" in your library to get your hormones hopping.

4. Join your partner in bed and have at it!

This may not be the whole or even a partial answer for you, but perhaps it's worth a try.

Good luck. If you find any answers that work, please post them!

Thanks,

– LenJo

 

[Dave Pavet]

ROBIN looks like Veronica from the Archie Comics... What's up with Jugheads hat? I think it's the same hat that Goober had on the Andy of Mayberry show.

 

[chuckle]

If you wanna get rid of your fetish there's a way, but its kinda painful and occasionally self-destructive... but thanks that you've shown your true point:

My problem isn't that I have the fetish. The problem is that the fetish has me. I have no problem having this fetish if it doesn't interfere with sex. But it does. I need to be able to get turned on from sex without tickling involved.

So concerning this situation I'd say u gotta search for something diffrent... something that makes u feel kinda exciting, and especially find the things that made u touch the roof, which did not involve tickling during the play.

🙂

 

[naughtylucy]

My problem isn't that I have the fetish. The problem is that the fetish has me. I have no problem having this fetish if it doesn't interfere with sex. But it does. I need to be able to get turned on from sex without tickling involved.

Well, what's so bad about that? Just work it into your sexual repertoire. And if you're with someone who can't think outside the box, then perhaps you should find a new lover.

 

[NavelTickler75]

From my understanding, a fetish is something that you are born with, not really a conscious decision. To some extent, it would be similar to trying to cure homosexuality...it's just simply not a disease so there's no reason to cure it!

If you're really serious, I'm sure you can find a way to repress it. I for one think you would probably be much better off to embrace it as part of who you are.

Just my two cents!

true most of us are born with it, some develope it and thus can have an easier time if willing to lose it.

also true, but if its dominating her or his life thats not cool either